) Caress her face, tell her your feelings for her, run your fingers through her hair. Slide your hands over her body and memorize it. Watch her reactions as your hands touch various parts of her. Does she sigh when you lightly stroke her ear lobes? Does she shiver when you kiss her stomach? Does stroking her inner thighs cause her to arch her back? See where I'm going with this?SexyChele said:You must be young, I'm presuming?
Take your time. The journey to reach the end is more fun than the end itself. Understand?
Okay, let me put it this way: The way to please a woman is to make love to her entire body, as well as her mind. We like sex to be all encompassing - not just a flash in the pan. (Unless we want a quickie!
Women are not merely breasts and a vagina. We like to be teased, stroked, caressed, and kissed. We like to feel the warmth of our partner's body next to us, his hands lightly stroking our skin. We like to hear his whispered words of passion in our ears. And this is before "anything" really begins!
Once you've paid attention to her entire body and her reactions, use your fingers and tongue to excite her. Important to remember: most women do not orgasm through penetration alone. It feels good, yes. But we don't all orgasm from it. Find her clit, and pay extra attention to it. Use your fingers and find out - again, from her reactions - what she likes. Too soft? Too light? Too rough? Too hard? She'll let you know. Maybe not in words, but with her body's reactions, her sighs, her moans.
Using your tongue can be especially pleasing. Experiement. Use your imagination. Don't just lap at her like a kitten - though she might like that on occasion. Try licking her clit, sucking on it and her lips, find out just how sensitive she is to your touch. Ask her to masturbate for you so you can see what it takes to get her off. And memorize those movements and copy them! When using your tongue, use it as if you were committing to memory every fold and crevice of her body. Take however long it takes for her to orgasm. If she seems to have difficulty, have her show or tell you what she might like. Try different movments or positions.
You'll know when she is pleased - when she begins to push you away and begin to beg for you to be inside her, that's your cue.
Just take your time and enjoy the ride. The end comes far too soon sometimes!
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