Problem??

[Pimptress J]

Ok, here is the thing, my SO lives about 100 miles away, and we used to see each other on a very regular basis, at least 1x a week. Now it has streched to 2-3 weeks at a time. He has a very demanding job, and I understand that, I have been busy dealing with this whole divorce thing, and I have had my son more frequently, so I really haven't been able to just hop in my car and go whenever I feel like it, like I did before.
I have a very high sex drive, and a very vivid and wicked imagination, when we aren't together, I fantasize about the things that I am going to do to him, things that I want him to do to me. When we first started dating about 6 months ago, his stamina was amazing! Our romps were at least 2 hours long, he took his time with foreplay (that in itself lasted for hours) and I always had at least 4 orgasms. Now though, foreplay is lasting about 15-20 minutes, and sex lasts for a half hour if I am lucky.
That is part of the problem, the other part is that I used to not be able to get enough, always wanting more and more. Especially if I hadn't seen him for a while. Now, once a day seems to be enough for me. I don't get the urge to masturbate at his house, or mine if he is here (if I am alone, I masturbate 2-3x a day).
He started working out alot, not to loose weight, but to gain muscle mass, which he has, alot. He has also been on alot of different supplements as well. Threw that out as extra info, maybe does this have something to do with his decreased staying power? What could cause my shift? Should I talk to him about it? If so, how so I approach that?
Any and all advice would be very appreciated.
Thanks in advance.

 

[Betticus]

I don't think it's the supplements. I'm on some of the same stuff that he is taking and you know what it does to me. It could be other things like stress or maybe he feels comfortable that he has you pretty firmly and isn't trying quite so hard.

I'd say it's the stress though.

 

[Pimptress J]

Yeah, but the supplements have different effects on different people. I hope that it is just the stress.
I would hate to do to him what I did to the ex one time-
Houseful of people, all drunk, we go upstairs, have a romp, it ended waaaay to quick, and I started shouting "MORE!MORE! I WANT MORE DAMMIT!" It worked, but it was a blow to the fragile male ego.

*sigh*
I don't know.

 

[Mr.G]

Have him read

the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread and you'll be screaming but it won't be """MORE!MORE! I WANT MORE DAMMIT!"""

I agree. Probably stress. Tired. Run down. Pissed off at life in general.

Welcome to the real world.

Good luck.