Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

[PacificBlue]

Why is it that you consistently jump down my throat each and every time I post something that you don't think is positive or that you don't think is appropriate? Did you become my personal censor and I didn't get the memo?

Yes, I could just ignore you but I'm curious. I considered PMing you but considering you put it out there for everyone to see, I'll return it in kind. Maybe you think people don't listen to what you have to say but they do. Have you noticed that once you bring yourself into it...several other people follow either out here on the board or in PM. How is it not attention for you when you shoot your mouth off? Seems to me you thrive on it.

What exactly is it that I've done to offend you? Why can't you turn away and ignore it if I irritate you so much?

This goes for "the followers"... I am sick and tired of being told what is wrong with me or how I post. Nothing is wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with what I post. I have good days. I have bad days. Just like every other fucking person on the planet. I'm not perfect.

 

[Guest]

 

[Problem Child]

Why is it that you consistently jump down my throat each and every time I post something that you don't think is positive or that you don't think is appropriate? Did you become my personal censor and I didn't get the memo?

Yes, I could just ignore you but I'm curious. I considered PMing you but considering you put it out there for everyone to see, I'll return it in kind. Maybe you think people don't listen to what you have to say but they do. Have you noticed that once you bring yourself into it...several other people follow either out here on the board or in PM. How is it not attention for you when you shoot your mouth off? Seems to me you thrive on it.

What exactly is it that I've done to offend you? Why can't you turn away and ignore it if I irritate you so much?

This goes for "the followers"... I am sick and tired of being told what is wrong with me or how I post. Nothing is wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with what I post. I have good days. I have bad days. Just like every other fucking person on the planet. I'm not perfect.

First off, I think I've made negative comments exactly twice in the last few weeks about you. One or two lines and not what I would call harsh.

Second, you're a whiner. Just like right now. If you persist in constantly complaining about how much your life sucks, then be prepared for me to comment about what you are putting out. You throw pity parties for yourself several times a week, and unfortunately you have tons of enablers here to help you wallow in your self-pity.

I have as much right to comment on your threads as you do to make them. Telling me to put you on ignore isn't going to work. You could easily do the same to me.

This board is about free speech, it wasn't designed to be your personal cry-blankie. If you can't handle me commenting about what you post then stop posting personal info about your latest crisis every couple of days...it's that simple.

Quite simply, I'm not going anywhere. Either learn to deal with me or stop looking for sympathy at every turn.

 

[sexy-girl]

PB i don't know exactly what you're referring too here but just be yourself ... i guess i can understand you doing this thread ... but don't let it bother you ... people here will disagree with you and people here will dislike you ... but also people here will like you and people will agree with you ... and in your case it will be more of the latter and less of the former

but its the same here for everyone theres people here that dislike me and don't agree with me

theres nothing wrong with you doing this thread and asking why but just don't let it bother you because its normal ... and just because someone might dislike you doesn't mean they are a bad person maybe you're just to different compared to them

literotica is a big place there is always going to be clashes of personalities but there is also friendships at the same time

 

[TN_Vixen]

Spends most of his time now trying to get others to ignore me so that he can have his domain back

The size of your ego is in opposite proportion to the size of your brain.

 

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[TN_Vixen]

Change your Av...get some class, and education and a decent face


Then come back and hit me up with chit chat

Pretty lame come back, but not surprising.

 

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

Why is it that you consistently jump down my throat each and every time I post something that you don't think is positive or that you don't think is appropriate? Did you become my personal censor and I didn't get the memo?

Yes, I could just ignore you but I'm curious. I considered PMing you but considering you put it out there for everyone to see, I'll return it in kind. Maybe you think people don't listen to what you have to say but they do. Have you noticed that once you bring yourself into it...several other people follow either out here on the board or in PM. How is it not attention for you when you shoot your mouth off? Seems to me you thrive on it.

What exactly is it that I've done to offend you? Why can't you turn away and ignore it if I irritate you so much?

This goes for "the followers"... I am sick and tired of being told what is wrong with me or how I post. Nothing is wrong with me. Nothing is wrong with what I post. I have good days. I have bad days. Just like every other fucking person on the planet. I'm not perfect.

If you can do a search of threads here one of mine labeled "Royal Untouchables" Its either under bobtoad777 or Todd I can't remember which. It will explain everything.

Unfortunately I can't get the search to go past 3 weeks ago, Or I would help you.

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: Re: Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

First off, I think I've made negative comments exactly twice in the last few weeks about you. One or two lines and not what I would call harsh.

Second, you're a whiner. Just like right now. If you persist in constantly complaining about how much your life sucks, then be prepared for me to comment about what you are putting out. You throw pity parties for yourself several times a week, and unfortunately you have tons of enablers here to help you wallow in your self-pity.

I have as much right to comment on your threads as you do to make them. Telling me to put you on ignore isn't going to work. You could easily do the same to me.

This board is about free speech, it wasn't designed to be your personal cry-blankie. If you can't handle me commenting about what you post then stop posting personal info about your latest crisis every couple of days...it's that simple.

Quite simply, I'm not going anywhere. Either learn to deal with me or stop looking for sympathy at every turn.

You are totally ignoring what I'm saying to you. Again. I can deal with you. I'd just like to know why I get to be your target? Apparently, you have no answer for that. Why did you take the negative from my post? Why do you search for the negative in everything I say? Even in this post...you seek the negative.

Yes, this board is about free speech. I agree with that. Did I say my life sucks anywhere in my post? Nope. Sure didn't. Why do you continue to make that assumption? Can people change? Yes. Have you noticed? No.

You missed my point and you will continue to miss my point because you find popularity in being a bully. Instead of realizing that you have a gift for influencing people and using that for positive things, you'd rather walk around and sling crap and then watch all your followers do the same.

In some cases, what irritates us most about others is the very thing we can't stand in ourselves.

 

[Guest]

Hanns is definately a regular here!

Check out who he attacks. He has mental heal;th issues.

But he knows specifics about people, their weaknesses, that he could not possibly know if he were not a former or current regular. Hes only been here a month, but has knowledge that hasn't been posted during that time.


Hanns is..............
Anger
Racism
Fat Phobia
Sex Phobia
Arrogence
Insecurity

Chances are he is overweight, short, smalldicked and unemployed. Not to mention a virgin. Lives with parents. And has probably never kissed a girl.

Yet we all respond to him.

The only way for us to get rid of him is to completely ignore )i know i'm not by saying this) him as Laurel has said. No reply to any thread he makes. No reply to any thread his troll friends/himsself make. No reply to Miles threads.

If you reply in an way to him you encourage and satizfy him.

Challenge yourself. Do not reply to anything he says or any reference to him. See how long he lasts.

 

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[phrodeau]

Re: Re: Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

If you can do a search of threads here one of mine labeled "Royal Untouchables" Its either under bobtoad777 or Todd I can't remember which. It will explain everything.

Unfortunately I can't get the search to go past 3 weeks ago, Or I would help you.

Nope, there's no such thread (searched back to '99).

Why can't you explain it over again?

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Re: Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

If you can do a search of threads here one of mine labeled "Royal Untouchables" Its either under bobtoad777 or Todd I can't remember which. It will explain everything.

Unfortunately I can't get the search to go past 3 weeks ago, Or I would help you.

Yeah, go ahead and do that search.

If you look up Todd's thread, which undoubtedly blames world hunger, povery, nuclear proliferation, child abuse, and genital herpes on me and seven other "popular" people at lit, it will undoubtedly cure you of your problems with your weight, your problems with men, and your problems at your job, and give you the self-esteem that you now so obviously and painfully lack.

You can be like Todd and blame all your problems on me and the "popular kids" but in the end no amount of complaining about how "mean" I am is going to change your life and your need for people here at lit to coddle you and let you believe that your problems are everyone else's fault.

 

[*bratcat*]

 

[TN_Vixen]

Blu, he didn't miss your point at all, and he answered your question very plainly. You want to know why people have a tendency to pick on your posts? It's because most of the time you are complaining about something going on in your life, not going on in your life, your weight, the fact that no one emails you, PM's you, etc etc. After reading so much negativity over time, people tend to either tune you out, or tell you to quit whining and DO something about it.

What's really aggravating here is that it seems that you just enjoy being unhappy and complaining about something all the time. I've had a few experiences with people that exhibit similar behavior and it just becomes tiresome after a while. Turns out that I realized that there's nothing you can do to help someone who wants to live their life that way. Everyone has problems. Everyone has things they wish were just a little better in their lives and everyone is sad, lonely, disappointed and hurt in their lives at one point or another... we just don't make a thread about it every single time.

Now, I'm sure you're going to come back with something like... "I never said anything negative about my life in *this* thread..." or something like that because you always focus on the insignificant part of a post rather addressing the main point - which is that you generally project a "poor me" attitude and that gets old real quick.

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Re: Re: Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

You are totally ignoring what I'm saying to you. Again. I can deal with you. I'd just like to know why I get to be your target? Apparently, you have no answer for that. Why did you take the negative from my post? Why do you search for the negative in everything I say? Even in this post...you seek the negative.

Because you say a lot of negative things. Period.

Yes, this board is about free speech. I agree with that. Did I say my life sucks anywhere in my post? Nope. Sure didn't. Why do you continue to make that assumption? Can people change? Yes. Have you noticed? No.

Honey, don't bullshit me. You say your life sucks in a myriad of ways. You say it a couple of times every week. One doesn't have to be a codebreaker or a psychologist to figure out that when you make a thread titled "why are people so mean?" you're looking for sympathy.

You missed my point and you will continue to miss my point because you find popularity in being a bully. Instead of realizing that you have a gift for influencing people and using that for positive things, you'd rather walk around and sling crap and then watch all your followers do the same.

No, I'm not a bully. If I wanted to bully you and decided to bully you, you'd probably have a nervous breakdown. I'm merely pointing out that your problems aren't going to go away by coming here and getting all the co-dependant support you are looking for. I have never sworn at you or insulted you outright. I'm being honest with you and you can't handle it.

In some cases, what irritates us most about others is the very thing we can't stand in ourselves.

I just find constant whining and attention seeking tiresome. It's that simple.

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: Re: Re: Problem Child and followers...What is the deal?

Yeah, go ahead and do that search.

If you look up Todd's thread, which undoubtedly blames world hunger, povery, nuclear proliferation, child abuse, and genital herpes on me and seven other "popular" people at lit, it will undoubtedly cure you of your problems with your weight, your problems with men, and your problems at your job, and give you the self-esteem that you now so obviously and painfully lack.

You can be like Todd and blame all your problems on me and the "popular kids" but in the end no amount of complaining about how "mean" I am is going to change your life and your need for people here at lit to coddle you and let you believe that your problems are everyone else's fault.

Can't answer the question can you? Didn't think so. Be mean. I don't care. Sling crap until you can't sling anymore. At least have a good reason for it. I've seen or heard none from you yet.

I have a great job, that I love. Is everyday that I go to the office a bed of roses? No, but then again I don't know anybody who has a job like that. 98% of the time, it rocks. I have a dates, with men, on a regular basis, some good, some not so good. Seems pretty normal to me. Who doesn't bitch when they go out with an asshole and wasted their evening? My weight...down, way down after almost a year on weight watchers. Self-esteem...rising and continuing to rise.

Care to shoot your mouth off about something else you know nothing about?

I don't care to "blame" anything that happens in my life on anyone other than me. I can take responsibility for where I was and where I am now. Can you? What positive changes have you made this year?

 

[Summery]

Like it or not, we tend to label people and often judge by what we post. After all, all we have here are our words. I get labeled the flirt, as more often times then not, those are the types of threads I tend to post to. It would be ignorant to think, that's all there is to me. However, it is what I choose to display here. If you have a history of being whiny and complain about life and things of a negative nature quite freqently, some will only view you on that level. While there's other's that probably have taken time to read more of your posts in depth and see other faucets of you. You give PC far too much credit as to influencing other's here. I think for myself, just as I would assume most do.

 

[Spinaroonie]

Whaaaat's the deal with Problem Child?

Who are... these people?

(You KNOW somebody had to do it. And that it was probably me, and that

 

[MissTaken]

The squeaky wheel...

It appears that the squeaky wheel gets the grease.

PB,
there were a number of people who responded seriously to your thread, who didn't pass judgement over your posting style or whatever.

YET, there are no responses from you.
You have made no effort to continue the discussion or redirect it back to the original topic.

I am not targetting only you with this rant, you just happen to have given me the most recent example.

It just appears that some people lie in wait for a rant or an opportunity to stir shit up and ignore the rest of us who are posting as a matter of conversation.

You posted.
We answered.
You went for PC because he pissed in your cyber wheaties.

The rest of us seem to have wasted our time in offering any input into that thread.

 

[Problem Child]

Okay, have it your way. You never whine. You never make threads about how there is no point in meeting people online. You never make threads crying about why you got stood up on your latest date. You're not the most seemingly- pathetic person on this board.

Live in denial. I don't care.

Am I going to change the way I post here?

Take a guess.

 

[Pyper]

Followers?

Reverend Sun Myung Problem Child is the way and the light.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Re: Followers?

Reverend Sun Myung Problem Child is the way and the light.

Ah, sweet child. You have now graduated to "The High Sun Myung Princess." Congratulations are in order.

 

[Shaq]

I like PB far more than PC....he' grossly overrated on this board...

 

[PacificBlue]

1. Miss Taken - I went for PC because I'm tired of it not because I was looking to stir up shit. I did read the responses. I do have a response. At the moment, I'm a little fired up to respond to that thread and redirect in the method or manner I wish too. Think what you will.

2. PC - Done. *Handing over the blue ribbon*