probably a stupid question but i have to ask

[lorddragonwolf]

i have been into bdsm for a few years a former girlfriend got me into this. i have heard the terms french and greak and have not been able to find out what they mean. can someone please help?

 

[SexySusan]

there are no stupid questions ...

... every question is legitimate imho.

I know the terms, but only in a non-BDSM-specific sense.
French = oral
Greek = anal
(Spanish = breast-fuck)
I might be totally mistaken, though. Being a German gal. We might use them in a different sense.

It would be easier if I knew in what context these words are used.

Hope I could help.

Susan

 

[P. B. Walker]

I always heard that it goes like this:

greek = anal

french = oral

i.e., she spoke french to me (gave me oral) or we spoke french to each other (69).

Russian = titty-fuck

asian or pacific rim = rim job.



- PBW

 

[lorddragonwolf]

thank you

thank you for the info... and the other terms as well

 

[MzChrista]

You all, left off Roman and thats probably for the best.

 

[Ebonyfire]

You all, left off Roman and thats probably for the best.

Luckily I swallowed the mouth full of water before I read this! Taking about a spit take!

LOL. Ebony

 

[morninggirl5]

Mz Christa or Ebony, would one of you please let the clueless among us in on the joke?

 

[Ebonyfire]

YOu are not clueless...

Mz Christa or Ebony, would one of you please let the clueless among us in on the joke?

I was laughing cause it was the combination of all the countries and the sexual practices attrbuted to them.

It is not that the romans are funny, it is that they are probably the most perverse and the most violent.

Homosexuality between men of equal classes was looked down upon, but sexual relations between a (powerful) older man and a (weaker) younger man was encouraged. In other words older guys were having sex with boys.

Also, they were kinda violent in their sexual practices. there has been a documented relationship between the violence of roman sports (gladiator games) and sex.

I almost spit up my water, at Mz Christa's statement "probably for the best" cause it struck my funny bone. It seemed to be a very apt understatement.

I hope that clarifies things a bit.

Ebony

 

[morninggirl5]

Thanks for the explanation, Ebony. That bit of info was buried deep in my unconscious along with everything else i learned in 3+ years of Latin.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Thanks for the explanation, Ebony. That bit of info was buried deep in my unconscious along with everything else i learned in 3+ years of Latin.

One of my hobbies (am I boring or what?) is reading history books, Ancient civilizations like Egypt, Roman, and Greek are my faves.

Ebony

 

[MzChrista]

Actually, Ebony, there really is something called "Roman showers", which is when a Domme throws up on a sub as a kind of humiliation play.
Definitely not my style, but hey, it takes all kinds.

 

[CarolineOh]

Christa, thank you for this new addition to my list of hard limits!

 

[P. B. Walker]

Actually, Ebony, there really is something called "Roman showers", which is when a Domme throws up on a sub as a kind of humiliation play.
Definitely not my style, but hey, it takes all kinds.

that would definitely be humiliating... learn something new here everyday it seems

I seem to remember that there's also a name for peeing on someone... can't seem to remember what it is at the moment. How would you like to be that country? LOL

- PBW

 

[JusticeLupus]

Actually, Ebony, there really is something called "Roman showers", which is when a Domme throws up on a sub as a kind of humiliation play.
Definitely not my style, but hey, it takes all kinds.

*gasps* how awful.. That is more than humiliating... Ummm.. I was eating but I think I lost my appetite?

 

[big salami]

i know this has probably been covered but,

i haven't read all the threads, questions, comments, who would have the time to do that but, i need some guidance! can anyone talk me through this scenario please?

i met a very lovely lady, through another site, which i won't go into here! we were both looking for sex, she with an older man and me, with a younger woman! and we got together and did that thing, we talked and we discovered that we had certain fantasies and we discussed them at length and we even helped each other to fulfil some of them. by now, we had become good friends and then, she told me that she had always wanted to be dominated! i had, for some time, a bit of a fascination for dominating somebody but, in my ignorance, i had the idea that this was of neccesity something which involved "hurting" another person! i am not into that at all, i am a person who respects everybody, until they show me that they are unworthy of that respect! but, even then, i could not bring myself to physically hurt someone!
i have recently come to the conclusion that, if a person wants to be spanked,(say) this may be a hurt which is really a pleasure for them and i now feel that, under those circumstances, i COULD do that, as long as i did not REALLY hurt them!!
i spoke with my "friend" (she is much more than that to me but, not i to her i think!) and i told her that i would like to learn about domination! she laughed at me and told me that she would never be able to be submissive to me, she would, she said, only laugh if i tried to dominate her as she couldn't see me in that light!
so, the help i want is to know if i might be able to,1. become dominant over somebody at my advanced age,(i'm nearly a pensioner) 2, if i would be able to become dominant over my "friend" and if she would, given the above circumstsances, be likely to be able to submit to me?
if you don't think that i would ever be able to convert her to an acceptance of my dominance, can you tell me a. if it is likely that a would ever be able to learn enough to be able to dominate anybody? and b. if i did attain such a level, would i be likely to be able to find somebody that would be willing to submit to somone of my longevity, bearing in mind my predeliction for younger women!

i am sorry if this appears to be simplistic to all of you experienced people, this has never been something that has ever occurred to me before, i was married for nearly 35 years in an entirely conventional relationship with my late wife and such things just never occurred to either of us but, since it was mentioned to me, i have come to the conclusion that this is something for which i am now ready to learn about and embark upon! dominating somebody that i care deeply about, that i would never like to really hurt, in a serious sense but, who would find pleasure in being dominated, again, without really being hurt, seems to me to be a thing that would give me/us great pleasure! how do i learn? how do i persuade my friend that i can be a viable dom?
i have so much to give her, i don't want her to go and find someone to dominate her that may not feel for her as much as i do and who therefore may hurt her, i would never forgive myself if she was hurt because i had failed her!
this is VERY important to me...... PLEASE help me, somebody!

 

[MzChrista]

that would definitely be humiliating... learn something new here everyday it seems

I seem to remember that there's also a name for peeing on someone... can't seem to remember what it is at the moment. How would you like to be that country? LOL

- PBW

Golden Showers. Dont know that Ive ever heard it named for a country though.

 

[P. B. Walker]

Golden Showers. Dont know that Ive ever heard it named for a country though.

Yeah, heard that one before... but I swear I've heard one named after a country... oh well... if I ever think of it... I'll know where to post it now... LOL

- PBW

 

[tassie]

i've never heard it described as greek before this thread then someone said it at work today. weird huh?

 

[Ebonyfire]

*gasps* how awful.. That is more than humiliating... Ummm.. I was eating but I think I lost my appetite?

It is a new one on me, and frankly I am glad about it!

Ebony

 

[tassie]

it fits in with the idea of roman opulance i imagine, plenty of wine and good food, gorging yourself on what your slave brings you until you throw up on them, but it is certainly something i've never heard of, and dont think i'll be practicing.

mzchrista, your knowledge never fails to astound (and horrify!) me.

 

[lorddragonwolf]

Actually, Ebony, there really is something called "Roman showers", which is when a Domme throws up on a sub as a kind of humiliation play.
Definitely not my style, but hey, it takes all kinds.

i dont think i could throw up on someone on purpose or want them to throw up on me on purpose.

but to each their own...

 

[WillowPuss]

Re: i know this has probably been covered but,

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how do i learn? how do i persuade my friend that i can be a viable dom?
i have so much to give her, i don't want her to go and find someone to dominate her that may not feel for her as much as i do and who therefore may hurt her, i would never forgive myself if she was hurt because i had failed her!
this is VERY important to me...... PLEASE help me, somebody!

I read your post with interest big salami, but, unfortunately, I don't think I have the knowledge to help you much.

The only thing I can suggest is that you visit a site such as CastleRealm and read as much as you can about being a Dom and all that means.

Being a Dom does not necessarily mean you must 'hurt' your submissive - far from it.

I do hope some of the Dom/mes here see your question and answer it. They will do a much better job that I am able to do.

 

[MzChrista]

it fits in with the idea of roman opulance i imagine, plenty of wine and good food, gorging yourself on what your slave brings you until you throw up on them, but it is certainly something i've never heard of, and dont think i'll be practicing.

mzchrista, your knowledge never fails to astound (and horrify!) me.

Honey, spend some time as a pro Domme and you'll learn about shit you could never have imagined!