Premature ejaculation!

[MrsThomas30]

How can I make my Husband last longer???

 

[ericbluesch]

make him last longer

There are some condoms on the market with a numbing gel or somthing on the inside of them.............makes me last a very long time

 

[TJX]

How can I make my Husband last longer???

You could try engaging him in rounds 2 3 and 4.

 

[glBock]

How can I make my Husband last longer???

How about not wanting to make him last longer the first time, on the contrary. Enjoy together his first orgasm, maybe even compliment him on the way he ejyáculated. So his orgasm most likely will take place outside your pussy, for both of you to enjoy it. And also because you know, his first round will not turn you on much anyway.

And then, when he has a happy smile on his face, make him aware of your needs. Ask him, how he prefers attending to those, telling him all the while, how hot you are for him.

And then go with the flow; if he wants to "go down on you" and cunnilinguine you, then enjoy it just like you would a good fucking. And once you have come from what he did to you, maybe he will feel ready for other experiences with you as well.

The main idea is not to demand anything, but to enjoy to the utmost, what he has in store for you.

And when you discuss your shopping list for next week, you tell him also what you crave most in bed. Maybe ask him also, whether he'd prefer inviting a male friend to your bedtime activities. If he loves you dearly, he will tell you, and show you later, that there's no need for a 3some.

And possibly he will have the idea of a 3some in mind anyway, and fuck you all the more vigorously then.

What do you think, Ms. Thomas, enough suggestions for today? If not feel free to contact me by PM.
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[gtnlynn]

I had that problem when we first started having sex. We had dated 7 years with no sex, just hand jobs and fingering. You can imagine how turned on I was when I was finally able to screw her. I came in an instant after fairly short foreplay. Then we discovered our solution of getting me almost to the point of orgasm and stopping, more foreplay, then repeating the intercourse to the edge, pulling out and more attention to her needs, and finally, when she was ready to cum, letting myself go. After while I was able to control myself, and everything has been fine, even to the point of her being a bit concerned that I was lasting so long. Good luck!

 

[Klinkster]

You could try engaging him in rounds 2 3 and 4.

Yes....this is what we do.
Of course, you have to put up with the sad fact that you will cum that many times too....

 

[Jada59]

Have you tried a cock ring?

Have you tried edging him? You will probably have to restrain him in some way to do this. You will then give him a hand job that is pleasantly stimulating but not stimulating enough to make him cum. You may have to remove your hands from his cock and balls and use your hands elsewhere on his body. Continue the stimulation, just elsewhere.

The edging might drive him nuts but it can teach him how to control his ejaculations.

 

[Jada59]

How about not wanting to make him last longer the first time, on the contrary. Enjoy together his first orgasm, maybe even compliment him on the way he ejyáculated. So his orgasm most likely will take place outside your pussy, for both of you to enjoy it. And also because you know, his first round will not turn you on much anyway.

And then, when he has a happy smile on his face, make him aware of your needs. Ask him, how he prefers attending to those, telling him all the while, how hot you are for him.

And then go with the flow; if he wants to "go down on you" and cunnilinguine you, then enjoy it just like you would a good fucking. And once you have come from what he did to you, maybe he will feel ready for other experiences with you as well.

The main idea is not to demand anything, but to enjoy to the utmost, what he has in store for you.

And when you discuss your shopping list for next week, you tell him also what you crave most in bed. Maybe ask him also, whether he'd prefer inviting a male friend to your bedtime activities. If he loves you dearly, he will tell you, and show you later, that there's no need for a 3some.

And possibly he will have the idea of a 3some in mind anyway, and fuck you all the more vigorously then.

What do you think, Ms. Thomas, enough suggestions for today? If not feel free to contact me by PM.
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Or this could have the opposite effect. Although I was with one guy who was bisexual, most of the others had no interest whatever in other guys and would have been offended if I suggested we try that. The subject did come up when some suggested adding another woman. That would be a turn off to me. They did tell me that having another guy would be just as much of a turn off to them. One guy might have been okay with it. Not sure. We never discussed it.

I think most men would not want want to have a premature ejaculation and that in and of itself could make them feel insecure or at least not very confident about having sex. Suggesting bringing in another man would be like a slap in the face to them. Like... Well, you're not doing it for me so let's just add another guy! Not a good thing.

Do most people discuss shopping lists? I never did. Actually I'm the one who always did the shopping. I buy what I want or need and if others need or want something, I tried asking them to write it on the list. They never did so I would usually ask before I went to the store.

It also seems weird and rather clinical to discuss sexual needs with your partner. That to me would be a major turn off. I rather think it would be for the guy too.

I don't really know the parameters of premature ejaculation as how fast his ejaculation occurs. And I myself can cum very quickly but... I have been with guys who did cum faster than me, at least the first time.

I never made a big deal about it, thinking to myself that I just made him so horny that he couldn't help it. We didn't discuss it at all unless he brought it up. And then I would just tell him that it was okay. From there, we just went on to something else. Whatever we were in the mood for. Maybe a snack, maybe just cuddling and/or talking. And of course I would always initiate round 2 and beyond.

What I really would not like is having a guy cum quickly and then immediately launching himself into something else with the goal being to bring me off as quickly as possible. And that is generally what the guy will try to do. Like it's his goal or something. That to me isn't fun or natural or even pleasant. Because I can see/hear him getting more and more frustrated, especially if he is attempting to do something that I know isn't likely to bring me to a quick orgasm. And the more frustrated he gets, the harder he tries and the worse he feels.

So probably the best thing to do with a guy like that is not to have a quickie unless both people are okay with that. I know that I can always give myself an orgasm so my having one while with a guy isn't my goal. Thankfully it is very rare that I don't have one but if for example, I gave him a blow job and he came very quickly, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would still enjoy it and I would know that later that day or maybe the next day or whenever...we could take more time to enjoy each other.

 

[hotcpu]

Or this could have the opposite effect. Although I was with one guy who was bisexual, most of the others had no interest whatever in other guys and would have been offended if I suggested we try that. The subject did come up when some suggested adding another woman. That would be a turn off to me. They did tell me that having another guy would be just as much of a turn off to them. One guy might have been okay with it. Not sure. We never discussed it.

I think most men would not want want to have a premature ejaculation and that in and of itself could make them feel insecure or at least not very confident about having sex. Suggesting bringing in another man would be like a slap in the face to them. Like... Well, you're not doing it for me so let's just add another guy! Not a good thing.

Do most people discuss shopping lists? I never did. Actually I'm the one who always did the shopping. I buy what I want or need and if others need or want something, I tried asking them to write it on the list. They never did so I would usually ask before I went to the store.

It also seems weird and rather clinical to discuss sexual needs with your partner. That to me would be a major turn off. I rather think it would be for the guy too.

I don't really know the parameters of premature ejaculation as how fast his ejaculation occurs. And I myself can cum very quickly but... I have been with guys who did cum faster than me, at least the first time.

I never made a big deal about it, thinking to myself that I just made him so horny that he couldn't help it. We didn't discuss it at all unless he brought it up. And then I would just tell him that it was okay. From there, we just went on to something else. Whatever we were in the mood for. Maybe a snack, maybe just cuddling and/or talking. And of course I would always initiate round 2 and beyond.

What I really would not like is having a guy cum quickly and then immediately launching himself into something else with the goal being to bring me off as quickly as possible. And that is generally what the guy will try to do. Like it's his goal or something. That to me isn't fun or natural or even pleasant. Because I can see/hear him getting more and more frustrated, especially if he is attempting to do something that I know isn't likely to bring me to a quick orgasm. And the more frustrated he gets, the harder he tries and the worse he feels.

So probably the best thing to do with a guy like that is not to have a quickie unless both people are okay with that. I know that I can always give myself an orgasm so my having one while with a guy isn't my goal. Thankfully it is very rare that I don't have one but if for example, I gave him a blow job and he came very quickly, it wouldn't bother me at all. I would still enjoy it and I would know that later that day or maybe the next day or whenever...we could take more time to enjoy each other.

Can we make a copy of you?? So Sexy in the way you feel toward not having the orgasm being the GOAL!! But just enjoying the time together and the O will cum (pun intended)

 

[Jada59]

Can we make a copy of you?? So Sexy in the way you feel toward not having the orgasm being the GOAL!! But just enjoying the time together and the O will cum (pun intended)

Indeed! That is generally what happens. But for me, bottom line is... Sex should be fun!

 

[too_bold]

Have you tried a cock ring?

Have you tried edging him? You will probably have to restrain him in some way to do this. You will then give him a hand job that is pleasantly stimulating but not stimulating enough to make him cum. You may have to remove your hands from his cock and balls and use your hands elsewhere on his body. Continue the stimulation, just elsewhere.

The edging might drive him nuts but it can teach him how to control his ejaculations.

I don't need any help on the subject, but I have to say that regardless your suggestion sounds very arousing!

 

[Nidan]

How can I make my Husband last longer???

Be less sexy.