Pre-wedding sex

[CelticTiger88]

I have heard stories about people who cheated the night before their wedding.

Is this fantasy stuffy, or has it ever happened?

I'm curious.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

A woman came on to me the night before my wedding. She said all the last night of freedom stuff.

I didn't do it.

It just didn't feel morally right.

I still don't think that I would do it now.

If I cheat, my wife has to be with me or grant her blessing.

Kinda square, I know.

 

[CelticTiger88]

A woman came on to me the night before my wedding. She said all the last night of freedom stuff.

I didn't do it.

It just didn't feel morally right.

I still don't think that I would do it now.

If I cheat, my wife has to be with me or grant her blessing.

Kinda square, I know.

No, I understand what you mean.

I have heard all sorts of stories about pre-wedding cheating, but I haven't heard of anyone who has done it.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Ha ha, I came close. Are you Irish?

 

[CelticTiger88]

Ha ha, I came close. Are you Irish?

You did!

Yes, I'm Irish.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

Mise go, is as Laighean mé.

 

[CelticTiger88]

Mise go, is as Laighean mé.

What - same here!

What a coincidence!

Irish women have gone wild and I hear stories of cheating all the time!

 

[KidSpectacular]

Wasn’t the night before my wedding, but during my engagement a couple college buddies came to visit me for a weekend. Friday night we go to a bar and see a great band and my fiancé is with us. We have a great time. Saturday we go to a couple of night spots without her. I’m driving and thinking I’m just gonna be a kick ass wingman for my two bros. They are looking for chicks and I’m just having a great time having the boys in town. They start chatting up this group of three girls. Oh jeez. Any other number is fine but there are three of us and three of them. They are all pretty and fun and flirty but I let them know early in the conversation that I’m engaged. The hottest one couldn’t be more thrilled to hear that and she tells me she is too.

Fast forward and they both sorta pair up with the other two. I’m talking with this complete fox who is obviously ready to play. I’m in love with my fiancé. Deeply so. I want nothing to do with this babe beyond being nice because my friends like her friends and want to have sex with them. My one buddy is not really closing the deal with the one he’s paired up with. I’m not sure why because he’s a pretty successful dude when it comes to girls. We’re at the bar much later than I prefer (I had a high stress job with a stupid amount hours so the weekends were important to recharge and rest). My buddy then invites everyone back to my apartment. Fuck.

We get back there. It’s a small one bedroom apartment. After some conversation, the other buddy takes one girl into my bedroom and they do their thing. Mr. non-closer and his target start getting comfortable on the couch. What the hell am I supposed to do now? I invite the hot one onto the balcony because I’m trying to give the ones on the couch some privacy. I’m really irritated that I committed to being a great wingman. Fortunately, I think Ms. Hottie sees that I’m sorta struggling with what to do. She tells me how awesome it is that I’m so faithful to my fiancé. She says she hopes my fiancé knows just what a great guy she’s getting and lots of stuff like that. I return the compliment and she kinda giggles and says there’s no comparison between the two of us because she would easily have cheated on him with me tonight. She‘s glad that I didn’t press her at all and she cant remember ever being this immediately attracted to someone she didn’t actually “get with” (remember she’s really attractive and I’m just guessing she’s not had a ton of guys turn her down). That conversation tested my resolve even more but I managed to resist until it was safe to go back inside.

A short time later the girls leave. We walk them out to their car. I got a great hug and a kiss on the cheek and a last word of thanks for being a gentleman. I’ve been married to the fiancé for over 30 years. I’m still deeply in love with her. I coulda banged the hot chick. I‘m glad I didn’t.

 

[CelticTiger88]

Wasn’t the night before my wedding, but during my engagement a couple college buddies came to visit me for a weekend. Friday night we go to a bar and see a great band and my fiancé is with us. We have a great time. Saturday we go to a couple of night spots without her. I’m driving and thinking I’m just gonna be a kick ass wingman for my two bros. They are looking for chicks and I’m just having a great time having the boys in town. They start chatting up this group of three girls. Oh jeez. Any other number is fine but there are three of us and three of them. They are all pretty and fun and flirty but I let them know early in the conversation that I’m engaged. The hottest one couldn’t be more thrilled to hear that and she tells me she is too.

Fast forward and they both sorta pair up with the other two. I’m talking with this complete fox who is obviously ready to play. I’m in love with my fiancé. Deeply so. I want nothing to do with this babe beyond being nice because my friends like her friends and want to have sex with them. My one buddy is not really closing the deal with the one he’s paired up with. I’m not sure why because he’s a pretty successful dude when it comes to girls. We’re at the bar much later than I prefer (I had a high stress job with a stupid amount hours so the weekends were important to recharge and rest). My buddy then invites everyone back to my apartment. Fuck.

We get back there. It’s a small one bedroom apartment. After some conversation, the other buddy takes one girl into my bedroom and they do their thing. Mr. non-closer and his target start getting comfortable on the couch. What the hell am I supposed to do now? I invite the hot one onto the balcony because I’m trying to give the ones on the couch some privacy. I’m really irritated that I committed to being a great wingman. Fortunately, I think Ms. Hottie sees that I’m sorta struggling with what to do. She tells me how awesome it is that I’m so faithful to my fiancé. She says she hopes my fiancé knows just what a great guy she’s getting and lots of stuff like that. I return the compliment and she kinda giggles and says there’s no comparison between the two of us because she would easily have cheated on him with me tonight. She‘s glad that I didn’t press her at all and she cant remember ever being this immediately attracted to someone she didn’t actually “get with” (remember she’s really attractive and I’m just guessing she’s not had a ton of guys turn her down). That conversation tested my resolve even more but I managed to resist until it was safe to go back inside.

A short time later the girls leave. We walk them out to their car. I got a great hug and a kiss on the cheek and a last word of thanks for being a gentleman. I’ve been married to the fiancé for over 30 years. I’m still deeply in love with her. I coulda banged the hot chick. I‘m glad I didn’t.

Thanks for sharing that. You did the right thing - but many wouldn't and don't.

 

[screwher]

My wife and I want to renew our vows one day. I would be all for her having her “last night of freedom”. I’m thinking a wild night of getting her brains fucked out in a hotel room with a big cock stud!

Or two!

 

[StrongMaster7]

I guess it depends on how serious you are about your marriage. To me, marriage a making a life-long commitment to put one person above all others for the rest of your life. It's an expression of deep emotional connection and represents a pledge of honor. A 'fling' doesn't seem consistent with that, IMO.

But to each his own.

 

[CelticTiger88]

When I was escorting, me and another girl were hired for a stag do. The stag do was on the Saturday night, the wedding on the Bank Holiday Monday (a bank holiday is a national day off for anyone outside of UK). The people at the stag do thought we were just strippers... apart from the best man, who set it up and hired us. We went to a hotel suite and stripped and interacted together for about 45 minutes before I knelt down in from of the Groom and started unzipping his jeans... once I got his cock out, the place went wild, the Best Man explained what was going on and I took the soon to be married guy's cock in my mouth.

A night of crazy, no holds barred fucking between me and the other girl and these 12 guys then took place. Coke and booze and wild sex... we finished up at about 6am... I was £2500 richer, a little sore but wow... what a night!


Lots of love, Sara xxx

Thanks Sara! Great story!

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[Andreinasstud]

My husband arranged for my brothers, cousin, and nephew to gangbang me just before I walked down the aisle

 

[FL30]

I have heard stories about people who cheated the night before their wedding.

Is this fantasy stuffy, or has it ever happened?

I'm curious.

Of course, it's happened. Sometimes it's even happened on the day of the wedding or even after the wedding. And both female & male spouses/fiancés' are guilty of this.

It's been happening since man has existed.

 

[CelticTiger88]

Of course, it's happened. Sometimes it's even happened on the day of the wedding or even after the wedding. And both female & male spouses/fiancés' are guilty of this.

It's been happening since man has existed.

I think you are right!

 

[stiv837]

Many years into our marriage my wife admitted to me she had had a fling with an old boyfriend a few days before our wedding.

 

[Strixaluco]

Of course it has happened. Most people just don't talk about it.

There was a time when one wasn't truly committed before the wedding, that's where the "last night of freedom" comes. Now, the relationship, even living together starts way before that for most couple, and getting married only makes it official. So you aren't actually free anymore, and doing it when you are about to say your wows makes it worse than, say, years before or after.

 

[CelticTiger88]

Many years into our marriage my wife admitted to me she had had a fling with an old boyfriend a few days before our wedding.

Are you still married to her?

 

[stiv837]

Yes , we are still married.

 

[Sigmund7]

I wouldn't call it cheating, as my wife has always been free to enjoy whatever activities she wants, but a day or so before our wedding she did have sex with a friend who was leaving town and would be unable to attend the ceremony. I guess she didn't want him to miss out entirely.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Wow. Imagine how smug that guy was, drinking your beer at your wedding reception. amazing that she admitted this to you.

I hope you’re just being a little flippant.

Maybe the guy she slept with that night was someone very special to her? Maybe it was a last goodbye between two people who cared for each other very deeply and just grew apart and moved on with their lives?

I’ve shared this before here, but to put a fine point on it…

I had a GF I dated very seriously for five years. We loved each other very much but came to the conclusion that we couldn’t go forward together. We’d been split up around a year when I came back to town. She had met a guy and they were engaged to be married a month later.

We bumped into each other on that trip home, had drinks, shot pool, and enjoyed each others company and got busy catching up with each others new lives. This conversation ended up back in her bed.

I felt very honored and grateful we were able to share each other one more time before both of us got on with life and careers. Had I been invited to the wedding I‘m sure I’d of never felt smug. If anything I might have questioned my letting such a great woman slip through my fingers…

 

[HampshireBoy]

I know a couple of people who had a fling on their stag/hen night, not with each other I might add, but this was a week before the weddings. I was on the stag do and saw the guy sneak off outside with a woman. My first wife was at the hen do and told me, apparently the bride-to-be was all over this guy on the dance floor and then went home with him.

I went to my normal pub, in our village, the night before my first marriage for a couple of drinks. One of the girls that I knew asked me if I fancied a bit of fun on my last night of freedom but I said no, too moral that's my problem lol

 

[scposteel]

I'm sure it has happened, but personally it never did.

 

[Abbafan]

A woman came on to me the night before my wedding. She said all the last night of freedom stuff.

I didn't do it.

It just didn't feel morally right.

I still don't think that I would do it now.

If I cheat, my wife has to be with me or grant her blessing.

Kinda square, I know.

The reasoning behind that makes zero sense to me.

Like, it wouldn't be cool to cheat on a boyfriend, girlfriend, other that you were monogamous with. Yet you somehow rationalize that it's OK to do that if your engaged when it's the last night before you go through with a wedding ceremony? If you're in a monogamous relationship, it's cheating, whatever kind of relationship it is.

 

[OlderFitterWiser]

The reasoning behind that makes zero sense to me.

Like, it wouldn't be cool to cheat on a boyfriend, girlfriend, other that you were monogamous with. Yet you somehow rationalize that it's OK to do that if your engaged when it's the last night before you go through with a wedding ceremony? If you're in a monogamous relationship, it's cheating, whatever kind of relationship it is.

Read my post again, It doesn't mention me rationalising that it's ok to cheat at all. I don't know how you came to that conclusion.