I'll give you the preface: attached man seeks clever and naughty woman for writerly exchanges of fantasies.
Maybe it's the spring, maybe it's everyone feeling isolated, but I'm in a certain mood right now, and it seems like everyone else is, too. Call it potency, call it potential. Everyone has fantasies, some of them really naughty, even forbidden. And most of them will not play out in real life; they'll remain fantasies, and that's fine. That state of carrying around secret fantasies through your day is beautiful. This is what turns me on: not the idea of a student fucking her professor, but the idea of a student who's carrying around a fantasy of her professor - where did it come from? Was it the time she met her professor's eight-month pregnant wife and felt a little disappointed, envious even, and now can shake the fantasy of him cumming inside her? Or perhaps let's take the guy at a coffee shop, who can't get his mind off the barista. She seems so nice and sweet and innocent, and yet he can't help imagining doing the nastiest things to her; if she were less innocent, would he be less interested in corrupting her? He wonders what that says about him, and how far he can take watching her from across the coffee shop before it crosses some line to perversion. This extends to taboo themes, which I'm particularly drawn to. Describing a father and daughter, mother and son, or siblings having sex doesn't quite do it for me. But inhabiting the mind of a father feeling the deep conflict of desiring his daughter, or a son lusting for his mother, those are descriptions that I'd love to explore. Some scenarios can be one-offs, some maybe we go back and forth, taking turns describing the changing perspectives of a pair of not-yet-lovers over time.
So the woman I'm looking for reads this paragraph and gets excited by the idea of exploring this: excited about inhabiting another woman's mind and writing out those fantasies. She's more interested in taking her time to craft a passage of writing in an email, rather than the back and forth of messaging. She likes finding ways to embed elements of herself in these fantasies, while also exploring beyond what she would ever do, and sometimes into territory that she's never fantasized about before. She gets excited about reading passages of male desire, and wants to feel the dopamine rush of anticipation of each new message. We'll share our own desires, understand the way that each other's minds work, and better tailor these fantasies to hit all the little details that trigger each other in the best possible way. I don't need all of your fantasies to match my own; if there's something you're craving to read, I'll do my damnedest to explore it for you. I tend to lean more towards dominance, although in a way that's generous and respectful, but it's easier for me to write fantasies that come from a position of dominance than submissiveness, although I have no hard rules about that. In addition to writing, I'm also really aurally stimulated, and I'd love it if we occasionally recorded audio for one-another exploring favorite fantasies.
If this were a commercial, it would be the point where I'd say, 'but wait, that's not all!' I know I've already narrowed things down to a very small sample of prospects, so perhaps I should already sign off. But I'd ultimately like to find all of the above, plus an element of friendship in our correspondence. I don't need to know who you are, and I don't need to see a photo of you, but I'd love you to honestly tell me about yourself and I'll do the same. You'll realize by now that I'm a literary type, and you can add the adjectives geeky and crafty. I like keeping active and being out in nature. I'm also socially-liberally minded and definitely get on best with others from that perspective. If sometimes you're more in the mood to just talk about other things that are on your mind, that's cool. Ideally I imagine writing a couple times a week, maybe more or less depending on how schedule allows. Quality over quantity.
Right now this is all potential. Hopefully there's a woman out there who reads this and finds it potent as well. If that woman is you, now is the time; let's see what comes of this.
Maybe it's the spring, maybe it's everyone feeling isolated, but I'm in a certain mood right now, and it seems like everyone else is, too. Call it potency, call it potential. Everyone has fantasies, some of them really naughty, even forbidden. And most of them will not play out in real life; they'll remain fantasies, and that's fine. That state of carrying around secret fantasies through your day is beautiful. This is what turns me on: not the idea of a student fucking her professor, but the idea of a student who's carrying around a fantasy of her professor - where did it come from? Was it the time she met her professor's eight-month pregnant wife and felt a little disappointed, envious even, and now can shake the fantasy of him cumming inside her? Or perhaps let's take the guy at a coffee shop, who can't get his mind off the barista. She seems so nice and sweet and innocent, and yet he can't help imagining doing the nastiest things to her; if she were less innocent, would he be less interested in corrupting her? He wonders what that says about him, and how far he can take watching her from across the coffee shop before it crosses some line to perversion. This extends to taboo themes, which I'm particularly drawn to. Describing a father and daughter, mother and son, or siblings having sex doesn't quite do it for me. But inhabiting the mind of a father feeling the deep conflict of desiring his daughter, or a son lusting for his mother, those are descriptions that I'd love to explore. Some scenarios can be one-offs, some maybe we go back and forth, taking turns describing the changing perspectives of a pair of not-yet-lovers over time.
So the woman I'm looking for reads this paragraph and gets excited by the idea of exploring this: excited about inhabiting another woman's mind and writing out those fantasies. She's more interested in taking her time to craft a passage of writing in an email, rather than the back and forth of messaging. She likes finding ways to embed elements of herself in these fantasies, while also exploring beyond what she would ever do, and sometimes into territory that she's never fantasized about before. She gets excited about reading passages of male desire, and wants to feel the dopamine rush of anticipation of each new message. We'll share our own desires, understand the way that each other's minds work, and better tailor these fantasies to hit all the little details that trigger each other in the best possible way. I don't need all of your fantasies to match my own; if there's something you're craving to read, I'll do my damnedest to explore it for you. I tend to lean more towards dominance, although in a way that's generous and respectful, but it's easier for me to write fantasies that come from a position of dominance than submissiveness, although I have no hard rules about that. In addition to writing, I'm also really aurally stimulated, and I'd love it if we occasionally recorded audio for one-another exploring favorite fantasies.
If this were a commercial, it would be the point where I'd say, 'but wait, that's not all!' I know I've already narrowed things down to a very small sample of prospects, so perhaps I should already sign off. But I'd ultimately like to find all of the above, plus an element of friendship in our correspondence. I don't need to know who you are, and I don't need to see a photo of you, but I'd love you to honestly tell me about yourself and I'll do the same. You'll realize by now that I'm a literary type, and you can add the adjectives geeky and crafty. I like keeping active and being out in nature. I'm also socially-liberally minded and definitely get on best with others from that perspective. If sometimes you're more in the mood to just talk about other things that are on your mind, that's cool. Ideally I imagine writing a couple times a week, maybe more or less depending on how schedule allows. Quality over quantity.
Right now this is all potential. Hopefully there's a woman out there who reads this and finds it potent as well. If that woman is you, now is the time; let's see what comes of this.
