Post masturbation orgasmic truth.

I have this sometimes, when im extra horny some weird stuff gets me going them im like what the hell :confused:

But if it gets the job done.....!
 
Yep, we've all been there my friend...
 
I have this sometimes, when im extra horny some weird stuff gets me going them im like what the hell :confused:

But if it gets the job done.....!

It's true for women too... once the orgasm has receded, there are some times when I don't even want to think about what got me there.
 
I don't know who said it, but this fits:

"In the morning I have morals again".

I know that when I am seized by the clutches of rampant lust (into which I have purposefully and willingly placed myself), I will immerse myself in whatever is on offer to further the process!
 
Most of us probably have a variety of different things that are our personal sexual fantasies, and I'm no different. I have three different sexual fantasy orientations/scenarios and without going into details, they are quite distinct from one another; now, they all get me off but with two of them I tend to mentally distance myself immediately from them once I have cum, even wondering why the hell I went there...until the next time, lol, but with the other one I don't feel this. Which confirms to me that is my "main" fantasy, that it is the orientation that defines what I truly am and that the other two are just secondary.

Am I making sense?

You did mention sexual orientation: You seem to be saying that you have fantasies beyond what you perceive as your "usual" orientation.

That's extremely common I'm sure. I've had fantasies of that nature even though I probably would never do them in real life. Or when I have the fantasy I imagine myself as much younger than I am now (I can only guess why that would matter). I may event submit a story or two based on such scenarios.
 
The older I get, the more comfortable I've gotten with fantasies that might once (post-orgasmically) have shamed or even repelled me.

At the same time, I've also noted that some of the fantasies that were once the most compelling for me have gradually faded away and get very little attention anymore
 
Most of us probably have a variety of different things that are our personal sexual fantasies, and I'm no different. I have three different sexual fantasy orientations/scenarios and without going into details, they are quite distinct from one another; now, they all get me off but with two of them I tend to mentally distance myself immediately from them once I have cum, even wondering why the hell I went there...until the next time, lol, but with the other one I don't feel this. Which confirms to me that is my "main" fantasy, that it is the orientation that defines what I truly am and that the other two are just secondary.

Am I making sense?

Totally makes sense. I constantly require variation and this lends itself sometimes to overblown scenarios in my head that I would never indulge beyond pure fantasy.
 
When I was younger, like from when I started masturbating through go say my mid 20's I can recall feeling shame and disgust with myself after masturbating. My recollection is that this was felt in respect to the act of masturbation itself, not the actual fantasy that stimulated the act.
I don't recall when I stopped having those feelings. Also, I never had these feelings after having sex, whether it be adulterous or gay or deviant.
 
Most of us probably have a variety of different things that are our personal sexual fantasies, and I'm no different. I have three different sexual fantasy orientations/scenarios and without going into details, they are quite distinct from one another; now, they all get me off but with two of them I tend to mentally distance myself immediately from them once I have cum, even wondering why the hell I went there...until the next time, lol, but with the other one I don't feel this. Which confirms to me that is my "main" fantasy, that it is the orientation that defines what I truly am and that the other two are just secondary.

Am I making sense?

Total sense. I used to be the same with regards anal play, panties and solo edging. Now I just embrace it.
 
Most of us probably have a variety of different things that are our personal sexual fantasies, and I'm no different. I have three different sexual fantasy orientations/scenarios and without going into details, they are quite distinct from one another; now, they all get me off but with two of them I tend to mentally distance myself immediately from them once I have cum, even wondering why the hell I went there...until the next time, lol, but with the other one I don't feel this. Which confirms to me that is my "main" fantasy, that it is the orientation that defines what I truly am and that the other two are just secondary.

Am I making sense?

Totally understandable.

As fantasies go... it is not even about extreme kink or morals, for me it rather about ethics. Most of the actual acts I think about are usually pretty vanilla, but very little would really gross me out in the right context. Scenarios and contexts are different beast altogether. Some fantasies bring feelings of guilt that I have allowed such ideas to ever develop. It can be as simple as fantasizing about the wrong person in the wrong way, or involve scenarios that shouldn't exist in principle, or at least be seen as sexy at all ever, things that may look like serious mind bugs, or just extremely dark fantasies. Usually even the most extreme can be dissect as simple exaggerations, but some left myself wonder.
 
For some reason (ok I created the fantasy) the fantasies come true. It takes some effort and a willing partner. Thank Bejebus for the like minded.
 
I can relate to this post. The feeling of guilt that replaces the feeling of pleasure after the act.
 
The older I get, the more comfortable I've gotten with fantasies that might once (post-orgasmically) have shamed or even repelled me.

At the same time, I've also noted that some of the fantasies that were once the most compelling for me have gradually faded away and get very little attention anymore

I too have gotten more comfortable, way more comfortable, with my fantasies as I have gotten older. My fantasies haven't changed much though.
I no longer feel the shame or guilt I once did after I orgasm. My sexual interest is gone almost immediately after I cum.
 
I haven't felt guilty after a session in many years, like never. I feel rewarded and relaxed and wish that I could repeat it again.
 
I can relate to this post. The feeling of guilt that replaces the feeling of pleasure after the act.

It used to be that way for me, but in the last few years, the after-feeling is one of immense relief, satisfaction, and exhaustion. No room for guilt nowadays. Of course, I would probably not feel that way if my extended masturbation sessions were 'public knowledge'. ;)
 
I often had the opposite experience growing up. I could get very excited by homosexual fantasies (is that the right term for a man fantasizing being a woman, taken by a man?), but I would always have to snap back to heterosexual imagery in order to cum. The one thing that is completely like that for me is cum eating. I could take a full bukake session in the moments before I cum, but after, I can't even take a snowball.
 
Most of us probably have a variety of different things that are our personal sexual fantasies, and I'm no different. I have three different sexual fantasy orientations/scenarios and without going into details, they are quite distinct from one another; now, they all get me off but with two of them I tend to mentally distance myself immediately from them once I have cum, even wondering why the hell I went there...until the next time, lol, but with the other one I don't feel this. Which confirms to me that is my "main" fantasy, that it is the orientation that defines what I truly am and that the other two are just secondary.

Am I making sense?

This does make sense to me. I had an ex that could really push my buttons, sexually. I would tell her she could do anything she wanted, to me or with me. I have an exhibitionist tendency. It's the thrill that I could be seen or caught more than actually showing.
She loved to give me hand jobs when I was driving or make me jerk off for her while we where on the road.
I would get so wound up as the point of no return approached that she could have stopped, drug my naked ass out of the car and finished me where the whole world could see and I told her this.
At that very moment I will do anything to cum.
We never quite went there and I was always so scared after the fact, because I would not have made any attempt to stop.
The repercussions could have been very bad.
I'm not sure if this is what you're asking.
 
I used to feel guilt (or more like "what the heck was that?!") but no longer. Whatever jumps into my mind, I embrace it.
 
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