positions... submissive/slave

[Impish]

I maybe expected to learn some positions soon, equivilant to yoga postures... submissive positions... on my knees hands to the side, a collaring position and more. I've looked online and found a few "slave positions" but I thought I would ask here as well.

Dominants do you require your submissive to assume certain positions?

Submissives do have certain positions that you have learned, and do you like/diskile them or are some uncomfortable...physically and mentally as well?

 

[il mio angelo]

I used to have to practice positions daily in my former relationship. I had certain positions that were "default," such as waiting, inspection and butterfly. I didn't find any of them to uncomfortable, unless I was in them for a very long time (more than 10 minutes).



Edited. link won't work... sorry.

 

[MissTaken]

I love positions as they get me into the D.s headspace. They help to transition my thinking from the chaotic vanilla world I am in to that of my role and find the clarity of mind and peace that I seek in D/s.

Enjoy !

Oh, and go get your av now, impish!

 

[bunny517]

position's

I have position's that Mistress wants me to know and to be in at certian times.Such as when I first greet her.This is a required position and to tell the truth I like having to do this for her.It really helps to get me into the head space I need to be in to give her my total submission.It also helps me to feel closer to her when we are apart.When I go to bed each night I will first go into this position and think about my sweet Mistress knowing that we will be together again soon.
I still practice all of these positions each night so I maybe able to do them as gracefully as Mistress want's me to.As I said before they give me that close feeling of being with Mistress.

 

[Justina123]

Ditto Miss Taken and bunny517- positions get me into submissive headspace quickly, as does inspection. I believe positions vary from Dominant to Dominant- the way Sir wants me to sit, wait, etc. are not exactly the way it is described as "correct" on some sites.

- justina

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Submissives do have certain positions that you have learned, and do you like/diskile them or are some uncomfortable...physically and mentally as well?

hmmm there are only a few positions i have ever been required to use...my Ex always wanted me in a *kneel up*when He came home: shoulders up, breasts thrust out, head bowed, hand placed on my thighs. And *table-ing*(that's His word) for when i was rude or naughty...hands and knees on the floor, perfectly straight back, head up...staring at the wall...he used to put a saucer and coffe cup on my back...(thus table-ing)..or mayhap an ashtray...usually though each Top/Dom/me is different...and what works for Some ...might not work for All..as for the positions themselves...*kneeling up* only hurts your knees if you are there for a while...same with *table-ing*(though table-ing is very rough on your emotional stability...you *become* a piece of furniture)
PET

 

[MissTaken]

My favorite positions involve me being on my on my knees. Kneeling up or down, respect position and the collaring position. I enjoy them all.

Incorporating them into rituals was a wonderful way to learn them and to become comfortable with them, but now, using them at will (understanding when they are appropriate, of course!), I find comfort in them.

Some positions were slowly "given to me" wiht a direction that said, "You may use this position whenever you wish."

Keep me on my knees, baby!

 

[WriterDom]

It simplifies things to have one word commands instead of having to explain how you want her. It's a bit of a power rush also.

 

[MissTaken]

It simplifies things to have one word commands instead of having to explain how you want her. It's a bit of a power rush also.

Yes and yes.

 

[Impish]

on bended knee

Well thank you. I think I'm really starting to like the thought of this. Now I just have to wait patiently to find out what they are. It's certainly sounding more erotic to me and I can (if not in practice yet) imagine that head space you all talk about. Very nice link il mio angelo. Thanks!

 

[le_kinklet]

RE: sub/slave positions

Love em all, but mainly as some one else has said, i like the "Default" ones the best! i like being shown my place in the way of things, and kneeling to my Mistress is for me saying, ' i give myself to Her, and trust in Her judgement', but in saying that, i will not kneel to just anyone, they have to earn that from me! i see it as the my last step to total submission!
~*HuGs*~

 

[Etoile]

I'm not familiar with these sorts of things - from the posts here, though, it sounds like something to try.

 

[Impish]

me either yet

I'm not familiar with these sorts of things - from the posts here, though, it sounds like something to try.

I'll post back and let you know how it goes. I'm looking forward to them now. Just wish I knew what they were going to be.

 

[Master_Vassago]

These are Gorean positions but I like them. By the way, I am currently not really here, just couldn't sleep and wanted to check something so now I'm back off to bed. Just thought I would provide a link for those seeking them.

http://geocities.com/Area51/Hollow/3264/slaves/picposition.html

 

[TwistaFate]

one of my favorites

kneeling is always one of my favs, but bound in a chair works just as well. it depends

 

[mitchell67]

re: flesh

These are Gorean positions but I like them. By the way, I am currently not really here, just couldn't sleep and wanted to check something so now I'm back off to bed. Just thought I would provide a link for those seeking them.

http://geocities.com/Area51/Hollow/3264/slaves/picposition.html

along this same theme, the images of these positions are of a living model. Please take what you will from them. I am not a big Gor fan, myself, but I do like the idea of calling out a position and having my sub know exactly what I expect from her. Handy..

http://www.angelfire.com/journal2/positions/

 

[MissTaken]

Positions can extend beyond kneeling up, kneeling down, slave greeting etc.

How you are expected to position yourself in your Dominant's presence can be equally important.

For example, unless it is impossible, my submissive is expected to never be seated higher than I am. She spends much of her time with me, on the floor at my feet etc.

I have had Dominants who have stools, pillows or shorter chairs that they put in front of the couch etc for the submissive to be seated on. Again, her head is expected to be lower than his at all times.

It becomes natural after a while.

 

[Arden]

Positions can extend beyond kneeling up, kneeling down, slave greeting etc.

How you are expected to position yourself in your Dominant's presence can be equally important.

For example, unless it is impossible, my submissive is expected to never be seated higher than I am. She spends much of her time with me, on the floor at my feet etc.

I have had Dominants who have stools, pillows or shorter chairs that they put in front of the couch etc for the submissive to be seated on. Again, her head is expected to be lower than his at all times.

It becomes natural after a while.

There is only one 'position' that we use...

We've utilized a pillow or cushion when I kneel before him, but it has little to do the level of my head compared to his. What it has a lot to do with is old age, and knees that can't last long on bare floors...

God, what a beautiful view I have from that pillow *grins*