Pop The Anal Sex Question

[EmperorKhagan]

A rather complex question.

Let us say a couple was about to do anal sex between a man and a woman, what are the beginning stages of teaching the woman on how to take the cock in the assshole and how long will it take to get the woman comfortable enough for anal sex the first time?

 

[ericalauren]

The first stage, I hope, is communication and consent.

 

[EmperorKhagan]

The first stage, I hope, is communication and consent.

Well, obviously yeah. Duh.

 

[Carnevil9]

Why do you assume that the woman is the one being anally penetrated? A couple could just as easily have the man being the receiver, with a strap-on. And it could possibly make for a more interesting story.

 

[sirhugs]

Why do you assume that the woman is the one being anally penetrated? A couple could just as easily have the man being the receiver, with a strap-on. And it could possibly make for a more interesting story.

Think about it....hubby suggests anal to wife. She thinks about it and says "Sure, but if it is so much fun, why don't you go first?"

 

[Carnevil9]

Think about it....hubby suggests anal to wife. She thinks about it and says "Sure, but if it is so much fun, why don't you go first?"

Him: "Sweetie, I really love you and love your body. I'd like to spice things up by trying some anal!"

Her: "Hell yes, darling! Assume the position and let me strap on this strap-on!!"

Him: "Giddyap!!!"

 

[sirhugs]

Him: "Sweetie, I really love you and love your body. I'd like to spice things up by trying some anal!"

Her: "Hell yes, darling! Assume the position and let me strap on this strap-on!!"

Him: "Giddyap!!!"

Ride'em cowgirl.... though not in cowgirl position. That is another night.

 

[BoundaryWaters]

As a woman being penetrated anally as opposed to vaginally offers a slightly different set of pleasurable sensations. It's slower, taking longer to build up, but also more powerful once it comes, since the alternating compression and tension waves have to transit a greater amount of the females flesh.

Women and men have on average, proportionate to their body mass, the same amount of nerve recptors and the same amount of erectile tissue. Mine is just inside me where it cannot be seen except by its effect on overlying structures.

Think of a vagina as a double walled balloon. As I get excited warm blood rushes in and fills that balloon, making it expand both in diameter and length. As it does it pushes on thousands of nerve receptors. Vaginal in a missionary position stimulates the top half of the structure. Anal in a doggy position stimulates all of it but at half the intensity. Vaginal in a doggy position is in-between.

Lets play by Lit rules: Before I was 18 I misheard "sex" as "six" and wondered what all the fuss about "five plus one" was. Didn't seem interesting to me. So after my eighteenth birthday when I started to explore, everything was new and untried. More importantly I had not heard the misinformation and outright lies about sex that ill-informed or malicious people spewed.

My first times were not "the best," mostly because I was inexperienced. The first time that I have done anything in life has not been the best time. But it wasn't terribly painful. I cannot say that the first time I had a penis in my butt it was any more painful than the first time having it in my vagina. But my lover was caring, wasn't in a hurry, and we had plenty of foreplay and lube in each case.

One way that anal was SO much better than vaginal was psychological. It's impossible to get pregnant by way of anal sex if he comes inside of her and you both keep it there. (People do intentionally ejaculate outside the rear orifice and then manually direct the sperm into the vagina. Being deposited just inside it's less effective, but it just takes one.)

You don't really want the bacteria which are beneficial in your colon to take up residence elsewhere. So, front to back, not vice versa at the same "session." I never liked the idea of hormonal birth control, so I only did vaginal the half-a-month I was perfectly safe*. But I did oral and anal whenever...

*Not an issue anymore, but, the mechanics of pregnancy are simple: sperm live seven days (the slower but more robust "female" sperm living a bit longer. An egg is viable for 24 hours between exiting the ovary and exiting the uterus. The trick is that a red bulb doesn't light on our heads when we ovulate.

We can predict when we ovulate from recordable menstral events. Then add a buffer for variation. I knew that I could only get pregnant within 24 hours after ovulating or if sperm was waiting for the just released egg (meaning from up to six days before) I didn't do vaginal for ten days before the expected date, that day and three after. We called it "14-14."

To make it kinkier I used a light purple highlighter (Violet=vagina) to mark off the 14 "front door" days on the calendar that hung on my refrigerator door. Everyone saw it; only my lovers knew what it meant.

 

[Wonderer67]

Why do you assume that the woman is the one being anally penetrated? A couple could just as easily have the man being the receiver, with a strap-on. And it could possibly make for a more interesting story.

I like this take. My wife does not enjoy anal, but I sure do. I keep on telling her how great it feels, but she hasn’t cum around yet. (It’s been years so I doubt if she ever will)

 

[sirhugs]

is there really any question?

 

[Jay142]

A rather complex question.

Let us say a couple was about to do anal sex between a man and a woman, what are the beginning stages of teaching the woman on how to take the cock in the assshole and how long will it take to get the woman comfortable enough for anal sex the first time?

I've submitted a story that should be published in the next couple of days that might help with this question. It's called PAWG for Phat Ass White Girl and it will be in the Anal category.