Polygamy

Hard_Rom

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The forced marriage of underage girls is most definitely evil and should never be allowed. Same with planned marriages. If the couple join at a legal age and are not forced then I see no reason against planned marriages either.

But consenting age polygamous marriages should be allowed. Polygyny, polyandry and group marriages.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy

Polygamy involves marriage with more than one spouse. When a man is married to more than one wife at a time, it is called polygyny. When a woman is married to more than one husband at a time, it is called polyandry. If a marriage includes multiple husbands and wives, it can be called a group marriage.

Polyandry is the practice wherein a woman has more than one husband at the same time. Polyandry is much less popular than polygyny and is illegal in virtually every state in the world. It occurs only in remote communities.

*which would indicate a bias against women considering that polygyny is legal in some places, debateable in others and illegal in some*

Group marriage is a marriage wherein the family unit consists of more than two partners, any of whom share parental responsibility for any children arising from the marriage.[21] Group marriage is a form of non-monogamy and polyamory.

In an October 2004 op-ed for USA Today, George Washington University law professor Jonathan Turley "argued that, as a simple matter of equal treatment under law, polygamy ought to be legal. Acknowledging that underage girls are sometimes coerced into polygamous marriages, Turley replied that banning polygamy is no more a solution to child abuse than banning marriage would be a solution to spousal abuse."

*things get a bit more complicated in the modern welfare state involving tax and child benefits*
 
Polygamy - the only one on your list common enough to be worth addressing - leads to violence. It isn't a coincidence that the vast majority (if not all) of suicide bombers come from countries with legal polygamy.
 
This is one of those places where church and state overlap. What's to prevent a man from living with four women? He won't have a problem unless he tries to get a marriage license for more than one.

If he can find four willing women, more power to him.

The problem with polygamy appears in closed societies, where older men hold most authority, especially over their daughters. This causes two problems. First. the younger men must be obedient and compliant, or be denied a wife by the older generation. This drives young men out of the society and creates an imbalance where women outnumber men by a considerable amount. Second, the older mean trade daughters in order to cement economic alliances. This also leaves the younger men without prospects.

For myself, I really don't see the appeal of having a house full of women. There maybe some fantasy of endless group sex, but I can't believe that's the reality.
 
This is one of those places where church and state overlap. What's to prevent a man from living with four women? He won't have a problem unless he tries to get a marriage license for more than one.

If he can find four willing women, more power to him.

The problem with polygamy appears in closed societies, where older men hold most authority, especially over their daughters. This causes two problems. First. the younger men must be obedient and compliant, or be denied a wife by the older generation. This drives young men out of the society and creates an imbalance where women outnumber men by a considerable amount. Second, the older mean trade daughters in order to cement economic alliances. This also leaves the younger men without prospects.

For myself, I really don't see the appeal of having a house full of women. There maybe some fantasy of endless group sex, but I can't believe that's the reality.

Said far better, great explanation.
 
The Lancecastor Home for Wayward Swimsuit Models is about as close as any sane moment could get to marrying more than one woman.
 
Four mother in laws, four idiot brother in laws.

Thanksgiving would be a nightmare.
 
Polygamy - the only one on your list common enough to be worth addressing - leads to violence. It isn't a coincidence that the vast majority (if not all) of suicide bombers come from countries with legal polygamy.
I never fail to notice how hard a time people have understanding what "consenting adult" means. :rolleyes:
 
I never fail to notice how hard a time people have understanding what "consenting adult" means. :rolleyes:

Limited intelligence goes with limited understanding. Hatred and ignorance are leading factors too. Like the argument the racist have that being black is the reason for being poor and tending to violence and crime.
 
Is it too much to ask to be married to a handsome billionaire and have a few lovely-sister wives? Maybe one could be like a Victoria's Secret model? And another one could be a former Olympic gymnast? And the other one could be that cute girl from the AT&T commercials?
 
Is it too much to ask to be married to a handsome billionaire and have a few lovely-sister wives? Maybe one could be like a Victoria's Secret model? And another one could be a former Olympic gymnast? And the other one could be that cute girl from the AT&T commercials?

I want in on that. I'll be the one that cooks.

Polygamy? Assuming it's not some cult, I don't have a problem with. I can't picture how it works though. I have a hard enough time dealing with one spouse.
 
I want in on that. I'll be the one that cooks.

Polygamy? Assuming it's not some cult, I don't have a problem with. I can't picture how it works though. I have a hard enough time dealing with one spouse.

Sorry, the cook position is already taken by Giada.
 
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