Poll: Phone sex.
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SexyAmber
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good question
Usually it takes me a long a time before I will do that...but sometimes there is just an undeniable chemistry and it happens sooner than you expect...I look forward to seeing the results though should be interesting.
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Usually it takes me a long a time before I will do that...but sometimes there is just an undeniable chemistry and it happens sooner than you expect...I look forward to seeing the results though should be interesting.
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badmatt
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I'll get us started...
Okay...so I'll admit to having done the less than one day phone call once or twice. But that's all. Usually a few days....
And whether you all believe it or not, I've only done phone sex with 1 lady from lit (talked to a few, but only phone sex with just that one gorgeous, scrumptious, sexy lady), and she will remain nameless unless she wants to speak up.
Okay...so I'll admit to having done the less than one day phone call once or twice. But that's all. Usually a few days....
And whether you all believe it or not, I've only done phone sex with 1 lady from lit (talked to a few, but only phone sex with just that one gorgeous, scrumptious, sexy lady), and she will remain nameless unless she wants to speak up.
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I'd say it's a little different for guys and girls. It could be extremely dangerous for a woman to give out her phone number to a guy she barely knows. For a guy, it's still dangerous but not necessarily to the same extent.
I once did the phone sex thing after just meeting someone. I was single at the time and she was submissive, so I had a weak spot. That time turned out quite well.
Normally I'd wanna get to know each other a bit online first, so that you know you won't be wasting your/her time and/or money on the phone call if the chemistry isn't there.
I once did the phone sex thing after just meeting someone. I was single at the time and she was submissive, so I had a weak spot. That time turned out quite well.
Normally I'd wanna get to know each other a bit online first, so that you know you won't be wasting your/her time and/or money on the phone call if the chemistry isn't there.
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Great Idea, badmatt!
I voted 2-3 days. . . I think that seems like a fair warm-up period if you're chatting or emailing reguarly during that period. Of course, I find myself doing things lately that I wouldn't normally do, so who the hell knows how long I'd wait!!
badmatt said:
I voted 2-3 days. . . I think that seems like a fair warm-up period if you're chatting or emailing reguarly during that period. Of course, I find myself doing things lately that I wouldn't normally do, so who the hell knows how long I'd wait!!
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It would depend on the person(s), but I have a few I would like to on Lit. I gather I have secretly known others' by their posts, but taking it on the phone is another matter. Online I get so wordy, but on the phone I just drop the pretense and just want to share.
On Lit the safety factor is more comforting. To some they have posted a great deal and have known others' from that. Some can be referenced and some realize that respect and discretion is part of this community *we* would hate to make the very things that are a part of our lives unsteady.
On Lit the safety factor is more comforting. To some they have posted a great deal and have known others' from that. Some can be referenced and some realize that respect and discretion is part of this community *we* would hate to make the very things that are a part of our lives unsteady.
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wildtiger60
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not sure
I ticked off at least a week, but I think it would be more then that, all depends. I have a really good friend that i met on the net, he is so incredibly hot, and he turns me totally on. Right now, hes in the US army so I don't get to talk to him on the net, so he calls me whenever he can, or he snail mails me.
But there is one other guy I gave my number too, I only new him for a day or so, and he really started to creep me out, he was calling me constantly. If I wasn't at home he would look up my friends numbers to call me. He even found my work number and started calling me at work. He kept telling me he was coming over to meet me in person, and he was going to track me down no matter what.
Then one day he e-mailed me my own living address and told me he was on his way in a month. Finally I told him that I had enough. He was creeping me out. Its emazing how much information a person can find out in just knowing a name.
Anyway, I am willing to try it again, but much more concious about it though.
WildTiger
I ticked off at least a week, but I think it would be more then that, all depends. I have a really good friend that i met on the net, he is so incredibly hot, and he turns me totally on. Right now, hes in the US army so I don't get to talk to him on the net, so he calls me whenever he can, or he snail mails me.
But there is one other guy I gave my number too, I only new him for a day or so, and he really started to creep me out, he was calling me constantly. If I wasn't at home he would look up my friends numbers to call me. He even found my work number and started calling me at work. He kept telling me he was coming over to meet me in person, and he was going to track me down no matter what.
Then one day he e-mailed me my own living address and told me he was on his way in a month. Finally I told him that I had enough. He was creeping me out. Its emazing how much information a person can find out in just knowing a name.
Anyway, I am willing to try it again, but much more concious about it though.
WildTiger
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I voted 2-3 days but I could see it happening sooner if I really felt comfortable with someone. I will usually offer the girl my number so that they won't have to worry and can relax a bit...God knows I am not here to cause anxiety.
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luv it
surprised?...luv phone sex...could be cum addicted....I voted 2-3 days though...the proper thing you know...
surprised?...luv phone sex...could be cum addicted....I voted 2-3 days though...the proper thing you know...
on_the_verge
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Sex On The Phone
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
C'mon, just let me fly, just let me cry
Just let me come, I'm gettin' high
Baby, baby number one and we'll have a lot of fun
Baby, baby number two and I'll tell you what to do
Baby, baby nnumber three feel my hands up on your knee
Baby, baby just relax next we'll give you time for sex
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
c'mon, and cool
Sex on the phone so I can see
Your sex on the phone it's really real
Your touch I want it so much
I want sex on the phone
Just make me fly
Just make me cry
Just make me come, make me high
Baby baby number four
Put you flat up on the floor
Baby baby number five make your dreams come alive
Baby baby number six and I know you know the tricks
Don't want you to play perplex
Just enjoy the fun from sex.
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
c'mon, and cool
Sex on the phone so I can see
Your sex on the phone it's really real
Your touch I want it so much
I want sex on the phone
Just make me fly
Just make me cry
Just make me come, make me high
Refrain : Ad Libitum to Fade
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
C'mon, just let me fly, just let me cry
Just let me come, I'm gettin' high
Baby, baby number one and we'll have a lot of fun
Baby, baby number two and I'll tell you what to do
Baby, baby nnumber three feel my hands up on your knee
Baby, baby just relax next we'll give you time for sex
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
c'mon, and cool
Sex on the phone so I can see
Your sex on the phone it's really real
Your touch I want it so much
I want sex on the phone
Just make me fly
Just make me cry
Just make me come, make me high
Baby baby number four
Put you flat up on the floor
Baby baby number five make your dreams come alive
Baby baby number six and I know you know the tricks
Don't want you to play perplex
Just enjoy the fun from sex.
Sex on the phone I'm so alone
Some sex on the phone I need it so
Ok, I do what you say
c'mon, and cool
Sex on the phone so I can see
Your sex on the phone it's really real
Your touch I want it so much
I want sex on the phone
Just make me fly
Just make me cry
Just make me come, make me high
Refrain : Ad Libitum to Fade
tigerjen
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My average wait time before having phonesex has been
at least 1 day......though there have been time where I've
talked to someone online and then we talk on the phone
for a while, then it leads into phonesex......
I believe in the power of the voice......and I get turned
on my a man's voice....esp. if its deep
tigerjen
at least 1 day......though there have been time where I've
talked to someone online and then we talk on the phone
for a while, then it leads into phonesex......
I believe in the power of the voice......and I get turned
on my a man's voice....esp. if its deep
tigerjen
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Vinny
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It depends
Phone sex could be very intimate and wonderful with a lovely woman that I have known for a while. Or there are time I know then for a few hours and it happens. There is even one time I met a woman on line and later that night we met and had great sex. Tonight is a night I wish I could meet someone and do it like now.
Phone sex could be very intimate and wonderful with a lovely woman that I have known for a while. Or there are time I know then for a few hours and it happens. There is even one time I met a woman on line and later that night we met and had great sex. Tonight is a night I wish I could meet someone and do it like now.
SoftPanda_2001
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The person is more important than the orgasm
I voted at least a week, as I feel I would need that much time with email to know enough about the woman to be comfortable enough to share intimacy. I have only shared phone sex twice, almost all the time it has been voice on the computer and sometimes with webcam. I don't see a difference, really, in voice on the computer and the phone: in fact, there is an increased safety dimension to the computer as no phone numbers need to be shared.
I voted at least a week, as I feel I would need that much time with email to know enough about the woman to be comfortable enough to share intimacy. I have only shared phone sex twice, almost all the time it has been voice on the computer and sometimes with webcam. I don't see a difference, really, in voice on the computer and the phone: in fact, there is an increased safety dimension to the computer as no phone numbers need to be shared.
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Love to Let it Build
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The length of time I have waited allowing a phone call has depended on my mood and what I want. Do I want just sex? Am I attracted to this person in another way, i.e. possible friend? I have waited as little as an hour when I was horny and wanted to listen to a man talk dirty with me. I have waited as long as a month before letting someone just "call" me. Motive determines the time. Why? It finally clicked with me that (1) sex doesn't need love to be good (2) physical intimacy aborts (more often than not) emotional intimacy
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Awwwwwwwww "Ms. O'Lust, interesting analysis. For me, I love a slow build to phone sex. I love to tease a woman's mind, creating images, scenario's, until they overtake her mind. After that, "she" becomes the one on edge, waiting, needing, and wanting........then and only then......can she truly feel the heat....and that takes longer than an hour to attain....SMILE
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The length of time I have waited allowing a phone call has depended on my mood and what I want. Do I want just sex? Am I attracted to this person in another way, i.e. possible friend? I have waited as little as an hour when I was horny and wanted to listen to a man talk dirty with me. I have waited as long as a month before letting someone just "call" me. Motive determines the time. Why? It finally clicked with me that (1) sex doesn't need love to be good (2) physical intimacy aborts (more often than not) emotional intimacy
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Awwwwwwwww "Ms. O'Lust, interesting analysis. For me, I love a slow build to phone sex. I love to tease a woman's mind, creating images, scenario's, until they overtake her mind. After that, "she" becomes the one on edge, waiting, needing, and wanting........then and only then......can she truly feel the heat....and that takes longer than an hour to attain....SMILE
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Smiles.....of course "I" have
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On the other hand, if you meet someone who is a great conversationalist and who intrigues you; a slow build is just the thing. "
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Sighs, guilty on both ends. We Gemini's tend to react differently each moment. However, without having a clue as of now of the tones and sounds, the lilts and nuances, the meritage of laughter and huskiness of a certain "woman's" voice sounds like over the phone, it would be indeterminable of which reaction I might have. SMILE
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On the other hand, if you meet someone who is a great conversationalist and who intrigues you; a slow build is just the thing. "
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Sighs, guilty on both ends. We Gemini's tend to react differently each moment. However, without having a clue as of now of the tones and sounds, the lilts and nuances, the meritage of laughter and huskiness of a certain "woman's" voice sounds like over the phone, it would be indeterminable of which reaction I might have. SMILE
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Re: Re: Love to Let it Build
I understand the lack of desire for pretense and to become consumed in wanting that "fix." It's almost the spontaneity of meeting a stranger and feeling this inner lust to just *fuck* and get it out of your system—to enraptured in that raw animalistic desire with no recourse, but to be fulfilled and suppress that aching tinge that had been eating you all day. You want to feel that rush and adrenaline of *hot* and *sexy* rolling in sweat and inhaling the scent of sex that is created by two–or more.
Other times, you want that slow draw of seduction. Where you gather each other’s likes, dislikes, and begins to spin a web of comfort and knowledge about each other. Where you build levels of your episodic life that can be massage and oiled into your inner workings. The mind is very powerful and it can stimulate much more than the nether regions, but all the things that can equate and discard it in the same breath. Sometimes it is very sensual to know each other and develop a repertoire and knowing what really singes each other or inspires…
Scarlet O'Lust said:
Have you ever been so ready to just "do it" and you met a willing partner who would just "do it" with you right then? You didn't want to talk, you didn't want a long relationship, you just wanted to "do it". Who needs a dissertation for that?
On the other hand, if you meet someone who is a great conversationalist and who intrigues you; a slow build is just the thing.
I understand the lack of desire for pretense and to become consumed in wanting that "fix." It's almost the spontaneity of meeting a stranger and feeling this inner lust to just *fuck* and get it out of your system—to enraptured in that raw animalistic desire with no recourse, but to be fulfilled and suppress that aching tinge that had been eating you all day. You want to feel that rush and adrenaline of *hot* and *sexy* rolling in sweat and inhaling the scent of sex that is created by two–or more.
Other times, you want that slow draw of seduction. Where you gather each other’s likes, dislikes, and begins to spin a web of comfort and knowledge about each other. Where you build levels of your episodic life that can be massage and oiled into your inner workings. The mind is very powerful and it can stimulate much more than the nether regions, but all the things that can equate and discard it in the same breath. Sometimes it is very sensual to know each other and develop a repertoire and knowing what really singes each other or inspires…
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Ohhhh Scarlet
Your quote "physical intimacy aborts (more often than not) emotional intimacy."
May these also be possibilities
developing emotional intimacy demands a physical expression of the growing bond......
physical intimacy enhances the emotional connection......
Your quote "physical intimacy aborts (more often than not) emotional intimacy."
May these also be possibilities
developing emotional intimacy demands a physical expression of the growing bond......
physical intimacy enhances the emotional connection......
whspr
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Beautifully said OTV...
I tend to find that animalistic desire does not fulfill the needs
for more than a fleeting moment. Then there is an emptiness
left behind.
I'll take that nurturing and massaging of the senses. Let me
look deep inside you. Build up to the moment when I hear
your voice and I can tell each and every emotiong lying
within you. Then with you, the phone sex will be complete.
The passion will roll...the thunder will sound....and we will
become one over the miles. We can bask in the afterglow,
fully understanding what the silence means.
soft kisses,
whspr
I tend to find that animalistic desire does not fulfill the needs
for more than a fleeting moment. Then there is an emptiness
left behind.
I'll take that nurturing and massaging of the senses. Let me
look deep inside you. Build up to the moment when I hear
your voice and I can tell each and every emotiong lying
within you. Then with you, the phone sex will be complete.
The passion will roll...the thunder will sound....and we will
become one over the miles. We can bask in the afterglow,
fully understanding what the silence means.
soft kisses,
whspr
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How Deep would you like "it"?
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The gentleman smiles.......so how deep of a level do you prefer? Your mind, your heart or your soul........or would it just be in both YOUR and Nike's words to "JUST DO IT? wink
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Perhaps you should register and send me a pm so we could continue this discussion on a deeper level
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The gentleman smiles.......so how deep of a level do you prefer? Your mind, your heart or your soul........or would it just be in both YOUR and Nike's words to "JUST DO IT? wink
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Always eager to learn
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I suppose the depth would depend on the lilt, intonation, and depth of your voice. <cof> And, your marital status.
Scarlet O'Lust
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........chuckles........hands "Ms. Lust" a cough drop.....and asks aloud ......ummmmmmm does one's voice change depending on their maritial status?
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I suppose the depth would depend on the lilt, intonation, and depth of your voice. <cof> And, your marital status.
Scarlet O'Lust
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........chuckles........hands "Ms. Lust" a cough drop.....and asks aloud ......ummmmmmm does one's voice change depending on their maritial status?
