PM Chatting ettiquette...?

[Kalamain]

Ok...First off, this is going to sound like a whining rant and for that I have to apologise.

I almost can't believe I have to make this post.

Since I came here a couple of weeks ago I have met and chatted with quite a few wonderful people and had some great PM sexy chats. But one thing has started to get to me. Cutting off a conversation when YOU are finished.

Now...I understand that sometimes people are in a rush or they suddenly have to leave and can't help it. This is find I totally understand this. But of late I have had a number of people simply disappear in the middle of a PM conversation. Did they finish off? Did they have to rush out to work? Is the PM just taking its time? I dunno, but I am often left hanging wondering what is happening, one minute we are chatting and the next....Nothing.

If I got you off and you are satisfied, great!! Seriously, if you are happy that you got off then I am happy too, but PLEASE TELL ME! Don't just stop responding!

If you have had a PM chat with me you will know that I am a enthusiastic talker...Quite graphic and eager to please. I don't mind that sometimes others arn't as open in their language, and that is fine....I don't expect it, honest!

What I mean to say is that what we do is a conversation...It goes two ways...I'm happy that you got off...But what about me? If you responded and said that you had gotten off and "Thank you" then I would be happy and go watch a vid or something... But, honestly would you act like that with your SO's? If you came and then just left the bed how would they feel...How would YOU feel if it happened to you?

Thats it...You get what I mean and I am starting to sound like a whiney moron. I told you I would.

Thank you.

 

[eric60red]

Dont worry

It happens all the time, to most of us, I do agree with what you say, but I have a theory, I need to proof is right or wrong. A guy when he cums has to clear up his mess, a woman can do it later, and can even cum again. A guy has to recover, so my theory is that they are guys pretending to be girls, thats why they suddenly disappear. Now proof me wrong

 

[Kalamain]

I chat with both males and females.

I must admit that in the main its the guys that cut and run... Not sure if I should read anything into that!

 

[gk6h]

I chat with both males and females.

I must admit that in the main its the guys that cut and run... Not sure if I should read anything into that!

So agree

 

[peter49parker]

Another who agrees

I chat with both males and females.

I must admit that in the main its the guys that cut and run... Not sure if I should read anything into that!

Probably the same guys who roll over and fall asleep the moment after they finish with their significant others.

 

[Kalamain]

Probably the same guys who roll over and fall asleep the moment after they finish with their significant others.

Bastards.

 

[yankee13]

love to keep going, hopefully get turned on again and continue on. always have looked for longer term chat partner and think that is the only ay to build that relationship up...

 

[Kalamain]

love to keep going, hopefully get turned on again and continue on. always have looked for longer term chat partner and think that is the only ay to build that relationship up...

I did that to a guy yesterday....
So hot...

I'd got him off and I asked him if we could carry on talking and he went with it and then about 5 mins later he piped up something like "Holy shit, I'm hard again!"

Its things like this that give me a real ego boost. I **LOVE** doing this.

 

[stickygirl]

I'm a stayer - I once I had someone kept me up till 3.30am and had to beg her to let me go to bed ...but she is very special to me *sigh* I don't cyber much because I picky and I have to have a connection with the person, which why I put a line in my profile about it.
I do agree that guys will suddenly disappear when they come - 30 minutes or not at all But it's an old problem - I've seen a few posts about it.

 

[Kalamain]

I'd love to have a lady PM me and take charge on occasion.
Most people seem to want others to carry the conversation. I don't mind to be honest...But on occasion it would be nice to have it the other way around.

Meh...

BTW...What does 'MTF' mean in your profile?
I'm new to this sort of thing and I don't know all the slang words and acronyms yet
.

 

[stickygirl]

I'd love to have a lady PM me and take charge on occasion.
Most people seem to want others to carry the conversation. I don't mind to be honest...But on occasion it would be nice to have it the other way around.

Meh...

BTW...What does 'MTF' mean in your profile?
I'm new to this sort of thing and I don't know all the slang words and acronyms yet
.

Oh sure: male to female - I'm transgender. There's also FTM of course, not to be confused

 

[Kalamain]

Oh sure: male to female - I'm transgender. There's also FTM of course, not to be confused

Ah....Right...I got you.
Thanks..

The problem with being new to all this...Even at my age...Is that I have a LOT to learn!

If ever you want to chat...Pm me.

 

[stickygirl]

Pfft! 39 isn't old you were either wrongly anticipating my reaction ( understandable ) or fishing for compliments Older men... always embarrassing when people assume he's my Dad; great in bed IMO; good listeners but poor advisers; dodgy music tastes
and chivalrous - I just love having doors held open for me and all that gentlemanly stuff *swoons*

 

[Kalamain]

Pfft! 39 isn't old you were either wrongly anticipating my reaction ( understandable ) or fishing for compliments Older men... always embarrassing when people assume he's my Dad; great in bed IMO; good listeners but poor advisers; dodgy music tastes
and chivalrous - I just love having doors held open for me and all that gentlemanly stuff *swoons*

Hey....I'm a bloke...I'll take all the compliments I can get!

Oi!....Whats wrong with my music tastes? *mumblemumbleBloodykidsthesedaysmumblemumble*

 

[lemmesee]

Even though I'm ready to go to sleep ASAP after I ejaculate, I generally tell the person I've been PMing with when I've had my ejaculation....and I thank them for their role in it!

 

[Blazexx]

Men tend to wander off. I've had it happen to me. There have been times I needed to leave b/c hubby or family was home. The next time I chat with that person I do explain the situation and most understand. A few feel like they have to be assholes about it.