Pleasurable Utterances During Sex?

[jenai88]

I am drawn to communication in a myriad of forms. My graduate work centered in health related communication and finding ways providers and patients can communicate to satisfy both parties in the process. I find communication weaves its way into all situations for me. This caused me to think more fully on how we communicate during sex. I have had a partner that remained completely quiet through the entire sexual experience leaving me wondering what he liked, didn't like, turns out he was just not comfortable 'expressing himself.'

I have been told on occasion that I need to be less expressive during the sexual foray, but this came from the partner that was stoically quiet during the event. I myself want to hear pleasure, want to hear when I have lit upon a spot of pleasure that bears repeating into explosive orgasmic proportions. I have even read that increased moaning heightens arousal and pleasure.

When I am in the heights of near orgasmic explosion I am wanting to verbalize my pleasure as I fall off the cliff into blissful oblivion. I want to hear my partner as he reaches toward and engages in copulatory communication to let me know what knocks his socks off!

What say you lit world, do you communicate, do you talk dirty, what do you say or do when heading toward orgasmic heaven?

The pleasurable communicator in me wants to know!

 

[Loveitdady]

I am very vocal while having sex....sometimes too much...I love to talk dirty and had the lady doing the sane...if it ain't worth shouting about it is not good enough...

 

[Loveitdady]

I am very vocal while having sex....sometimes too much...I love to talk dirty and had the lady doing the same...if it ain't worth shouting about it is not good enough...

 

[mythicman62]

I am vocal and love my lady to be vocal.

 

[HornyProf]

I love to talk dirty during sex and very much appreciate when my partner does as well.it has to be spontaneous.... but i don't really get why any man or woman would want their partner quiet...unless its some BDSM thing with a gag. I really goes against the essence of wanton free eros.

 

[TennebYzzil]

I am drawn to communication in a myriad of forms. My graduate work centered in health related communication and finding ways providers and patients can communicate to satisfy both parties in the process. I find communication weaves its way into all situations for me. This caused me to think more fully on how we communicate during sex. I have had a partner that remained completely quiet through the entire sexual experience leaving me wondering what he liked, didn't like, turns out he was just not comfortable 'expressing himself.'

I have been told on occasion that I need to be less expressive during the sexual foray, but this came from the partner that was stoically quiet during the event. I myself want to hear pleasure, want to hear when I have lit upon a spot of pleasure that bears repeating into explosive orgasmic proportions. I have even read that increased moaning heightens arousal and pleasure.

When I am in the heights of near orgasmic explosion I am wanting to verbalize my pleasure as I fall off the cliff into blissful oblivion. I want to hear my partner as he reaches toward and engages in copulatory communication to let me know what knocks his socks off!

What say you lit world, do you communicate, do you talk dirty, what do you say or do when heading toward orgasmic heaven?

The pleasurable communicator in me wants to know!

I'm very vocal during sex, and I love it when my man is the same. I love dirty talk; when I'm getting closer to cumming I may say "Fuck me harder" or "Make me cum all over your cock", things like that. When I do have an orgasm during sex I can cry out quite loud, whether or not my lover is vocal or not, it's just the way I am.

And it's not just that. If I'm with a new lover, I'm not afraid to tell him where I like to be touched, licked or kissed, especially if he's missing those spots.

BTW I love the phrase "copulatory communication."

 

[jason28053]

I'm very vocal during sex, and I love it when my man is the same. I love dirty talk; when I'm getting closer to cumming I may say "Fuck me harder" or "Make me cum all over your cock", things like that. When I do have an orgasm during sex I can cry out quite loud, whether or not my lover is vocal or not, it's just the way I am.

And it's not just that. If I'm with a new lover, I'm not afraid to tell him where I like to be touched, licked or kissed, especially if he's missing those spots.

BTW I love the phrase "copulatory communication."

I love that you are vocal and open! I have to remind myself to be vocal but I’m getting better.

 

[Cutie100]

My biggest disappointment in the bedroom, is when a man does not vocally affirm that he’s cumming. I want to feel like I’ve rocked his world.

I’m very vocal myself, and expect the same.... I realize that not everyone is vocal, but I wouldn’t stay in a relationship that I’d be constantly disappointed ... it’s just my thing, and I know what makes me happy.

 

[TennebYzzil]

My biggest disappointment in the bedroom, is when a man does not vocally affirm that he’s cumming. I want to feel like I’ve rocked his world.

I can't agree more. I certainly don't want the strong SILENT type when it comes to sex.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I'm not sure that my words can convey my feelings on this but here goes...

I want our minds to be in contact at least as much as our bodies. Hopefully the things I say during sex trigger responses that heighten her pleasure.

 

[Escierto]

If it was up to me I would be very vocal while my girlfriend is fucking my ass. Unfortunately she says it distracts her from her orgasm if I say anything lol. So I am restricted to moaning and groaning while she fucks. Sometimes I sneak in a “Fuck me hard” or a “Give it to me”. One time I moaned “Oh baby” and then after she had finished filling me with her cum, she said, “What was that about? You never call me baby?”. I said, I couldn’t help myself, it just came out!

 

[Leodad22]

Communication

Communication during only magnifies the experience! When a woman vocally cums the damn earth stands still!!!!