pleasing the ladies

[lickher-pie]

Ladies
What is it that turns you on the most and what do u want the most when a man is between your thighs.
What are the best techniques for a good oral session ,

thanks

lickher-pie

 

[yoshimitsu]

Well I am not a lady but mine seems to like what I do. Exact techniques are hard to describe so i will leave you with some words of wisdom.
Try as many different things as you can possibly imagine. Tell her to tell you when it feels good and especially when it doesn't. Listen to her breathing, watch her stomach and other muscles, pay attention to her body. When you do something right there will be signs, her pussy will contract, her breath will change, her stomach muscles will contract. Many of these things can be similar if it feels good or if it's too intense. It's your job to read those signs and if your having a hard time get her to give you updates and use that to get a feel for what her body is telling you.
Don't focus soley on the clit. This is a major nerve center but you will get much better results if you spend time other places too. Lick her asshole (If it's clean and it doesn't bother either of you. Lick the spot between her ass and pussy. Do long light strokes up and down her labia.
The best thing to do is have her hot and wet before you get there. Something that works particularly well for me is starting with some kissing, then move to her ear and light and smoothly move to her neck, kiss suck and nibble for a while before moving down to the breasts. Work the areola untill their about to pop and start slowly working your way down to her belly button. Next move over to that valley right above her hip bone. This area is very sensitive on both myself and my girlfriend I am guessing it's the same for most. With proper techniques you should have her going completley crazy by now. Slowly work your way down to her pubic mound. Tease her genitals. Lightly brush the hairs and lick and apply pressure just outside of the sensitive areas and just above the clit. By now if you have done your job right hopefully she will grab your head and stick it where she wants it.

Oh yeah and whatever you do don't tell her your web name is lickher-pie
You will never get any then.

 

[breezybee]

Yoshimitsu you have a very lucky lady.

I agree with everything said above. It is so much more pleasurable to spend a lot of time exploring each other's bodies and finding all of those sensitive areas before you dive into each other's genitals.

Every woman is different when it comes to oral sex. For instance, if a man licks my clit with soft slow licks of his tongue I will cum very quickly. If a much firmer technique is used, I'll enjoy it but it won't be that same exquisite intense please I get from the soft, slow tongue. But, I would imagine that there are many women out there who are the complete opposite to me so it's very important to watch her responses. I know I do enjoy when a man spends a lot of time licking everywhere but my clit. By the time he gets there, I'm desperate for it.

 

[Eilan]

Every woman is different when it comes to oral sex.

Exactly.

What turns me on the most about oral sex is having a partner who's trying different techniques and paying attention to my reactions so he knows what's worth repeating and what isn't. If you're not paying attention to your partner and adapting accordingly, you might as well not be giving oral at all.

I'm sure you'll get quite a few responses to this thread, but keep in mind that if your partner doesn't like exactly what the Lit ladies like, then that's not going to help you much. In other words, listen to your partner.

 

[EJFan]

I'm sure you'll get quite a few responses to this thread, but keep in mind that if your partner doesn't like exactly what the Lit ladies like, then that's not going to help you much. In other words, listen to your partner.

very true.

in addition, i'd like to point out that there's more to pleasing a woman than what a man does "between [her] thighs" as you put it. there's a whole mind and body to work with. use it.

 

[Eilan]

there's a whole mind and body to work with. use it.

Aural sex, anyone?

 

[EJFan]

Aural sex, anyone?

am that be a fancy word for phone sex?

and while we're talkin' about phone sex, does anyone else wonder what would have happened if alexander graham bell didn't invent the phone??? would we have developed, like, telegraph sex???

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