Pleasing my boyfriend....

[liloleme]

Hi. I'm a 20 year-old female in a loving relationship with a wonderful man.

His exes have all loved anal sex, but I've only done it once or twice with a man of much smaller statue than my current lover.

He has voiced that he would love to feel me cum while he is fucking my ass. And I'm not one to let my man down.

To come to the point here... how can I make this a more enjoyable experience for myself... i.e. decrease the pain... increase the pleasure?

We currently use lotion, and that helps some.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks guys.

 

[huskie]

Sorry Liloleme.... I can't help you. I'm suprized no one has answered you yet?? They'er probably all over on the General Board. But if do a good search back some I think you will find some help. If you don't mind reading a bunch of post.

You can PM MarksGirl. I'm certin she would help you, or HotAzJuly.

 

[Weird Harold]

To come to the point here... how can I make this a more enjoyable experience for myself... i.e. decrease the pain... increase the pleasure?

We currently use lotion, and that helps some.

These are just the first ten threads with "anal" in the title:

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=84026&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80240&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81527&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80766&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67578&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77980&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75132&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=71985&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68627&highlight=Anal
http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=68266&highlight=Anal

The search button is your friend -- especially for one of the most common questions in this forum.

 

[liloleme]

Thanks!

Thanks guys! Looks like I found what I need. Take care.

 

[huskie]

Re: Thanks!

Thanks guys! Looks like I found what I need. Take care.

I for one am to lazy do all that back resurch. If you do find the answer you are looking for please pm me and let me know what it is so I can pass this info on to a girl I know

 

[SXCRgirl]

Here's my 0.02.

To enjoy sex, you have to be in the right frame of mind, which I see that you are. You say that you don't want to let your man down, I hope he feels the same way about you.

Okay, here is what works for me. Ask your man to use his finger to stretch you out. Use it as part of your foreplay, when he's going down on you and flicking your clit with his tongue. First one finger, then perhaps two. When you're fully stretched, have him slowly enter you. Then, when you get used to the sensation... mmmmm... ENJOY!



Hope that helps!

 

[Guest]

To come to the point here... how can I make this a more enjoyable experience for myself... i.e. decrease the pain... increase the pleasure?

We currently use lotion, and that helps some.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

1.) Don't use lotion. Stick with a water baised "natural" sex lube. There are many on the market for various prices.

2.) Do NOT use "Analeze". It is a lube/cream that is supposed to numb the walls of your asshole. Problem with this is, pain is nature's reminder that something is "wrong". If you're numb, you cannot feel pain. Therefore, your partner may go too hard too fast and end out hurting/damaging you later.

3.) GO SLOW!! Start with one finger in foreplay (or a small anal toy). Have him use lots of lube and slowly "stretch" you open some. Move to two fingers or a slightly large toy before he tries his cock.

4.) Play with your clit, pussy, or nipples. (Whichever you prefer when masturbating.) The added pleasure will take your mind off of any potential pain that could come to you.

5.) For beginners, I recomend SPOONS position or "Woman on Top" (if you have strong legs/knees). Both of these positions gives the woman more control of the sex act, and therefore she can control the penetration.