Please mistress, tie me up and fuck my virgin ass!

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I'm looking for a light BDSM encounter; no pain, maybe spanking, and light bondage, where my mistress uses my ass. Whether you're a woman with a natural cock or a plastic one, it makes no difference... break me in!

I'm a large guy, so if that's a problem, that's unfortunate. Also, it would help if you're within driving distance of Minneapolis. PM or email me if interested. Or just post.

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I don't mean to be rude, but you should save up your money and go to a pro. Fulfilling fantasies for their clients - more than their own - is what they do.

 

[Peregrinator]

Oh, c'mon, RS; you could give him the first one free, couldn't you?

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Oh, c'mon, RS; you could give him the first one free, couldn't you?

No free samples. I ain't the Avon Lady.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I'm a low-income college student, and this is a BDSM personals board... why should I dent my budget for sex if there's a chance of finding a like-minded individual online who would help me out just for her personal enjoyment?

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I'm a low-income college student, and this is a BDSM personals board... why should I dent my budget for sex if there's a chance of finding a like-minded individual online who would help me out just for her personal enjoyment?

Because all your ad spoke of is what you want, not pleasing your Mistress.

 

[Peregrinator]

Slippery Slope...

I'd watch my footing, there, Wolf....

"Do not meddle in the affairs of wizards...it makes them soggy and hard to light."

 

[Peregrinator]

Waitaminnit.

"Please do not throw cigarette butts in the urinals for they are subtle and quick to anger."

Ah yes. That was it....

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

Ok, point taken... but it's more of an attention-getter than the usual "Woman w/ Strap-on wanted" thing that I'm seeing floating around with few replies. At least I got someone's attention, even if it's just to point out that I'm using terms wrong.

I'm sure that if a domme looking for a new pet saw this, she would count this impudence as something extra to punish it for, and cause to show it the error of its ways.

 

[SweetDommes]

Actually, most Dommes that I know (who are worth the title) would either dismiss you as a player or a fake ... or ignore you on the grounds that it's the best punishment ...

but maybe that's just me ...

 

[RavenSpirit2k4]

Love the new av, SD.

Wolf, remember these words: "How may I serve, Mistress?" That's the best advice I can give you when it comes to finding a domme. Mistress comes first, in more ways than one.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

That's probably accurate. Point taken, once again (even though it's not the point I was hoping to take ) I may make a different thread later then, with suitably altered tone. If any mods see this, feel free to close it.

 

[SweetDommes]

Thanks Raven

wolf - I wouldn't close this thread, actually. To me, it shows that you are willing to take the advice of others and learn from it - which is a very good quality for a subby to have (as long as you have the discretion to figure out who you should listen to and who you should ignore).

My advice to you now is to make a list of things that you are looking for in a Dominant, for the relationship, and things that you enjoy. Are you looking for online or r/t - part time r/t or full time - long term or one nighter (or inbetween) - some who is sadistic or someone who is more nurturing - any hobbies that you have (especially if you are wanting this to be more of a long term thing) - whatever interests you have in BDSM and D/s besides strapon play and bondage (there are soooo many things out there - you have to have thought of more than just those that you thought you would like)... stuff like that. Show your personality, and someone who likes it (and is looking for someone to do what you would like, at least some of the time) will find you.

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I'm looking for a real-life encounter, to get my feet wet, so to speak, but would be willing to continue further if I like it, and if the domme and I enjoy each other's company (not just the sex).

What do I want in a mistress? I don't want a sadist. Someone who can top me and act stern when she has to, but never to the point where it's not fun for both of us. I know that I'm no masochist, so pain isn't really my thing. It's not that I have no tolerance, it's just that I don't bridge a connection between sex and pain. If my mistress were to need to inflict mild pain in order to enjoy the sex, I could experiment once or twice (say, with spanking, but not with C&B T or the like) to see if it grows on me, but it's not something I would volunteer to try of my own initiative.

As for the things we could do, I'm open to suggestions. Denial, humiliation (although preferably not in front of others... private humiliation... I'm sure a good mistress could think of something), light bondage, role-playing (I rp a lot in a non-sexual setting, so it'd be familiar ground) almost anything from the lighter aspects of BDSM... those not involving (much) pain. I'm a little perplexed currently... first I was chastised for stating my desires, and now I am invited to. Odd. But whatever. Maybe it was the tone that made it wrong. It's somewhat difficult for me to come up with what I want. It's entirely theoretical. I'm a virgin in every sense of the word, so all I know is speculation based on what parts I liked of certain erotic stories I've read here on Lit.

That's enough for one post. Anyone who wants to get to know me personally (hobbies, facts about my life, etc.) can email or PM me.

By the way, SD and Raven, thanks for the guidance and information.

 

[SweetDommes]

I'm a little perplexed currently... first I was chastised for stating my desires, and now I am invited to. Odd. But whatever. Maybe it was the tone that made it wrong.

Yes, it was the tone. If you have just that in your message, then it looks like you are a self-serving fake instead of a submissive. If you have other things, that might invite the proper type of person that you are looking for, then you seem much less a fake. With the other background info, you have a real person instead of a carbon-copy of what the other guys wrote ...

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I consider my honesty, loyalty, and integrity to be keys to my life. I don't suffer acquaintences who don't hold themselves to the same morals. These are principles that every person, of every faith or creed can embrace. I speak my mind in most cases (something I'd have to be... trained... out of ), and don't generally stifle my own opinions for the benefit of others.

Trust is key to any relationship. Whether it's friendly, sexual, professional, whatever. If I should open up to someone and really expose my soul to him or her, I would expect that they would know enough to not spread it around... I certainly don't parade secrets around.

I'm one of those people who will drop everything if a friend needs help, but I'm not quick to bring people to that level; they need to demonstrate the qualities I mentioned above. I sometimes seem aloof or cold because of the distance I usually insulate myself with when dealing with people. Having been betrayed by a few people I thought were friends in the past, I am more cautious now.

Note that if you are a domme who is interested, and want to take me for a spin and see if I am satisfactory for long-term, or if you just want to have no-strings-attached fun, I can handle a one-night thing without too much preamble... but if you are looking for a more permanent thing, I may want to move slower.