Please Help!

MsMuffet

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I am trying to reel in a very good catch... except I am afraid I am not much of a challenge for him. How do I find the stictuitiveness to play "Hard To Get?"
 
Re: Re: Please Help!

Emerald_eyed said:

you could run away, turn around and put your thumbs in your ears, wiggeling your fingers yelling" Nannee nannee nanee, you cant get me"

My line is, "nanie nanie boo boo, you can't catch me!"

LOL

Seriously, (do you know what that word means? ... Me neither)
You simply need to be proud of who you are. There shouldn't be games. Games get you no where, but a playing field. Just be who you are, and if that isn't good enough, neither is he.

Moon
 
hard to get....isn't every good woman??
:)

first thing my friend always told me she did was forget that she was interested in the guy...act completely like nothing was there with him..then he came around...I dunno if it works...i asked her out though :)

skitch
 
skitch said:
hard to get....isn't every good woman??
:)

that is so true, took me forever, untill i found out InnocentAngel wanted to be with me,after we meet and started to hang out, but it was well worth the wait
 
msmuffett66 said:
I am trying to reel in a very good catch... except I am afraid I am not much of a challenge for him. How do I find the stictuitiveness to play "Hard To Get?"
For some of us guys, myself especially, play hard to get and we loose interest real fast. Nothing turns me off faster than mind games (run! run away! fast! :eek: ), and if a woman acts like she is not interested, I take that at face value and look elsewhere. I don't have time to waste on such games - there are plenty of other women out there that feel the same way.

It's your choice, you pays your money and takes your chances.
 
All such GREAT advice! Thankyou -- but in actuality, I am NOT a game player. I have been searching my whole life for this one and he has his head buried too far into his work-related ass... I have had and used my own ideas to distract him.... perhaps they are getting stale... any suggestions????

Somehow, I know you will not let me down. (winks)
 
Heres a novel idea

Ask him out. Make sure hes clear its a date. I married one that did that
 
Why don't you just tell him? A little honesty goes a long way with me.
 
Hi, ms

What are your own ideas, maybe we can start with that? Find something that feels right for you.:rose:
 
I have known (and felt this way) about this 'boy' for over a year now. I think he KNOWS how I feel, and I believe the feeling to be mutual. Was thinking about interrupting part of what is distracting him from me... sending something to his office perhaps?

As for your quote, weed?

"here's another one, you are what you eat (enjoy yourself) "

I enjoy myself always! (winks)
 
That's what I was thinking....send him a little note or a suggestive card just to say your thinking of him.

Something as old fashion as a hint of your favorite scent might even help to distract him.:rose:
 
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