Chewbaccasaurus
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Ok, the idiots on the general board chased me here...hopefully ill get some mature advice and not a bunch of morons.
Ok, here is the situation...and ill start from the beginning....
Around December i started going out with a girl. I liked her for quite awhile and we were together for roughly 6 months. The whole time, she was screwing my friend, whom she liked because he was a emo-poser, played guitar in a band, and acted like a hardass rather than a nice guy like i am. She eventually left me for him and he has put her in the hospital due to domestic violence.
2nd girlfriend, which kinda picked me up while i was on the "rebound", said she had strong feelings for me while we were in high school and ended up cheating on me as well, and went for someone who beats her. Almost like the last one, but she moved to california with him.
Now, you will see why i need advice on my troubles. I have been talking to this girl who has been going through some rough relationships as well, and my friend who is not my friend anymore, was cheating on her, and eventually went gay. Well, she came to me first hand because we met through him and she said that i was really cool because i acted like who i was, and i didnt need to pose for acceptance, that i was a truthful person as well.
Well, we have been talking alot lately, and over the weekend, i went to a local event with her and stayed the weekend with her. Nothing happend, so don't think that. Anyways, while there, her best friend was kinda felt up on and almost raped, and since the guy was younger than me, i couldn't hit him or anything. Though we told the officials, i still felt the need to slash his tires, drain his car battery and throw his keys into a nearby bin in the flea market area...she was happy with my form of justice and we are now good friends...i'm kinda her keeper.
Anyways, Vanessa (the girl im talking to now) Thought it was really sweet what i did for Rosey (Her friend, who kinda reminds me of my sister,age, and all...RIP). So, the whole day we kinda hung all over each other and while we were sitting near each other, she kinda leaned on me, i put my arm around her and she started holding my hand...Ok, i think thats a good thing, right?
Anyways, after all that, i went home after a long day of us time. I called her and we talked for about an hour or 2. I asked her out and she said no. She said she liked me but she was confused about us right now, and said i needed to wait awhile on an official answer, but it wasnt a definite "No".
After i told her i wasn't going to rush anything because i felt great just being with her and i will wait for her to give me an answer to prove that it is love and not lust, she hung up. An abrupt hang up. No bye, no words, just "Click".
I saw her in class today (we take cisco classes at college together) and she said that she lost her phone in her closet and she tried calling me back but couldn't. While she still didn't comment on what i said, she called me right after getting home. She said that it was sweet that i wanted to wait for her and that it will show whether or not i really do care for her.
We then talked for awhile as it took me time to get home and she started talking "dirty" to me. I wasn't really complaining, but it was confusing all the same, because she was saying the things we COULD do when i go to her place this weekend for a "chinese food movie night".
anyways, i talked to her today, and she reached out and hugged me and such. The way her friend and my friends tell me, they say she is kinda treating it like we are going out but not yet...
Also, he friends are telling me that i am all she talks about...and for the time being, im going to treat that as a good thing.
So, im still up for this weekend. Im going to hang out at her place, watch Blood and Chocolate (anyone seen this? i havn't...is it good?) and order some chinese takeout, and then watch some anime, probably FLCL or Cowboy Bebop, then, as she said "after the movies, we will go from there..."
Now, im not sure what that last half meant, but im not letting the "guy" speak for me...im just going to suppose it means play chess or something..
Anyways, i will keep this thread updated, and i am requesting that some people take a look, read a bit, and let me know what they think of this whole dilema. I am really tired of going into relationships only to be hurt the same way or similar ways, and to top things off, i really like this girl. I just need some kind of advice on what i should do, or if she really does like me from the sound of things, or is she just playing with my heart...
Thanks ahead of time, and if you would like to see a video version of this, i might make a episode of it via my online web series.
Ok, here is the situation...and ill start from the beginning....
Around December i started going out with a girl. I liked her for quite awhile and we were together for roughly 6 months. The whole time, she was screwing my friend, whom she liked because he was a emo-poser, played guitar in a band, and acted like a hardass rather than a nice guy like i am. She eventually left me for him and he has put her in the hospital due to domestic violence.
2nd girlfriend, which kinda picked me up while i was on the "rebound", said she had strong feelings for me while we were in high school and ended up cheating on me as well, and went for someone who beats her. Almost like the last one, but she moved to california with him.
Now, you will see why i need advice on my troubles. I have been talking to this girl who has been going through some rough relationships as well, and my friend who is not my friend anymore, was cheating on her, and eventually went gay. Well, she came to me first hand because we met through him and she said that i was really cool because i acted like who i was, and i didnt need to pose for acceptance, that i was a truthful person as well.
Well, we have been talking alot lately, and over the weekend, i went to a local event with her and stayed the weekend with her. Nothing happend, so don't think that. Anyways, while there, her best friend was kinda felt up on and almost raped, and since the guy was younger than me, i couldn't hit him or anything. Though we told the officials, i still felt the need to slash his tires, drain his car battery and throw his keys into a nearby bin in the flea market area...she was happy with my form of justice and we are now good friends...i'm kinda her keeper.
Anyways, Vanessa (the girl im talking to now) Thought it was really sweet what i did for Rosey (Her friend, who kinda reminds me of my sister,age, and all...RIP). So, the whole day we kinda hung all over each other and while we were sitting near each other, she kinda leaned on me, i put my arm around her and she started holding my hand...Ok, i think thats a good thing, right?
Anyways, after all that, i went home after a long day of us time. I called her and we talked for about an hour or 2. I asked her out and she said no. She said she liked me but she was confused about us right now, and said i needed to wait awhile on an official answer, but it wasnt a definite "No".
After i told her i wasn't going to rush anything because i felt great just being with her and i will wait for her to give me an answer to prove that it is love and not lust, she hung up. An abrupt hang up. No bye, no words, just "Click".
I saw her in class today (we take cisco classes at college together) and she said that she lost her phone in her closet and she tried calling me back but couldn't. While she still didn't comment on what i said, she called me right after getting home. She said that it was sweet that i wanted to wait for her and that it will show whether or not i really do care for her.
We then talked for awhile as it took me time to get home and she started talking "dirty" to me. I wasn't really complaining, but it was confusing all the same, because she was saying the things we COULD do when i go to her place this weekend for a "chinese food movie night".
anyways, i talked to her today, and she reached out and hugged me and such. The way her friend and my friends tell me, they say she is kinda treating it like we are going out but not yet...
Also, he friends are telling me that i am all she talks about...and for the time being, im going to treat that as a good thing.
So, im still up for this weekend. Im going to hang out at her place, watch Blood and Chocolate (anyone seen this? i havn't...is it good?) and order some chinese takeout, and then watch some anime, probably FLCL or Cowboy Bebop, then, as she said "after the movies, we will go from there..."
Now, im not sure what that last half meant, but im not letting the "guy" speak for me...im just going to suppose it means play chess or something..
Anyways, i will keep this thread updated, and i am requesting that some people take a look, read a bit, and let me know what they think of this whole dilema. I am really tired of going into relationships only to be hurt the same way or similar ways, and to top things off, i really like this girl. I just need some kind of advice on what i should do, or if she really does like me from the sound of things, or is she just playing with my heart...
Thanks ahead of time, and if you would like to see a video version of this, i might make a episode of it via my online web series.
