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[charliegirl0404]

I have never been a sub i just play one when i'm alone with my toys LOL.. so ( i have no clue ) what does that say about me?

 

[Trajal]

I have never been a sub i just play one when i'm alone with my toys LOL.. so ( i have no clue ) what does that say about me?

It says... that you have sub fantasies? Most normal people do on some level *shrug*. Doesn't mean you have to take it further you can enjoy the fantasy as it is if you like.

 

[charliegirl0404]

It says... that you have sub fantasies? Most normal people do on some level *shrug*. Doesn't mean you have to take it further you can enjoy the fantasy as it is if you like.

I was hopeing someone would say that lol. I dont think people who do that kind of thing are weird or anything ( my friend and her b/f do this stuff ) but i just cant see my self doing some of the stuff i have read about. LOL but then again some of the stuff i have been told about and have read about is kind of a turn on LOL. i'm just going around and around with this LOL

 

[Trajal]

I was hopeing someone would say that lol. I dont think people who do that kind of thing are weird or anything ( my friend and her b/f do this stuff ) but i just cant see my self doing some of the stuff i have read about. LOL but then again some of the stuff i have been told about and have read about is kind of a turn on LOL. i'm just going around and around with this LOL

Just keep it as a fantasy for now I'd say.

I have a friend who confided in me that he'd been having fantasies about being taken by another guy. He was married and terrified that he was suddenly realising he was gay. Turns out he was... simply having a healthy fantasy life.

Perfectly normal. I have fantasies about raping jennifer aniston. It's not something I'd ever act upon but when i'm having a good five knuckle shuffle it's good wank-fodder. Enjoy the fantasy.

 

[charliegirl0404]

Just keep it as a fantasy for now I'd say.

I have a friend who confided in me that he'd been having fantasies about being taken by another guy. He was married and terrified that he was suddenly realising he was gay. Turns out he was... simply having a healthy fantasy life.

Perfectly normal. I have fantasies about raping jennifer aniston. It's not something I'd ever act upon but when i'm having a good five knuckle shuffle it's good wank-fodder. Enjoy the fantasy.

thanks hun HUG

 

[the captians wench]

Just keep it as a fantasy for now I'd say.

I have a friend who confided in me that he'd been having fantasies about being taken by another guy. He was married and terrified that he was suddenly realising he was gay. Turns out he was... simply having a healthy fantasy life.

Perfectly normal. I have fantasies about raping jennifer aniston. It's not something I'd ever act upon but when i'm having a good five knuckle shuffle it's good wank-fodder. Enjoy the fantasy.

I know what you mean.

I'm not really into chicks, but if Angilena Joilie ever came up to me with a bullwhip in her hands I'd sooo be there. *giggles*

And I hope she'll forgive me for hacking her name to bits....or punish me...both are cool

 

[catalina_francisco]

Just keep it as a fantasy for now I'd say.

I have a friend who confided in me that he'd been having fantasies about being taken by another guy. He was married and terrified that he was suddenly realising he was gay. Turns out he was... simply having a healthy fantasy life.

Perfectly normal. I have fantasies about raping jennifer aniston. It's not something I'd ever act upon but when i'm having a good five knuckle shuffle it's good wank-fodder. Enjoy the fantasy.

LOL, I had a friend who had a similar fantasy, and who was also married with children. Knowing I had a bit of experience in this area, and we both had chosen to advocate for the gay community personally and professionally, he asked my advice. He was kinda shocked when I told him a lot of people who didn't realise he was married etc., had already assumed he was gay...even more horrified when I suggested he may need to explore it further if only with a sexuality counsellor. The outcome was, 5 years later, after trying to prove to himself and the world just how straight he was by having an affair with a woman he met on a plane, he finally came out and admitted that though he had not had any remotely gay or bi experiences, he had finally accepted he was gay and was ready to embrace that reality. Last I heard, he had divorced, continued to progress professionally, and embarked on making up for all the time he had lost.....and he is very happy. Sometimes fantasies are so strong you just know they are meant to be more than pure fantasy only.

Catalina

 

[Trajal]

LOL, I had a friend who had a similar fantasy, and who was also married with children. Knowing I had a bit of experience in this area, and we both had chosen to advocate for the gay community personally and professionally, he asked my advice. He was kinda shocked when I told him a lot of people who didn't realise he was married etc., had already assumed he was gay...even more horrified when I suggested he may need to explore it further if only with a sexuality counsellor. The outcome was, 5 years later, after trying to prove to himself and the world just how straight he was by having an affair with a woman he met on a plane, he finally came out and admitted that though he had not had any remotely gay or bi experiences, he had finally accepted he was gay and was ready to embrace that reality. Last I heard, he had divorced, continued to progress professionally, and embarked on making up for all the time he had lost.....and he is very happy. Sometimes fantasies are so strong you just know they are meant to be more than pure fantasy only.

Catalina

Oh i agree. But I would like you to note and agree that by far the majority stay (and should stay) as fantasy. I dread to think how many other guys out there have the same "holding jennifer down and fucking her in the ass until she screams out the biggest orgasm she's ever had" fantasy that I enjoy, but I truly hope NONE would act upon such (at least unless she had expressed a personal desire... jenn - if you're reading, feel free to PM me ).

 

[charliegirl0404]

thanks to all who posted in answer to my question luv ya

Charlotte

 

[Etoile]

five... knuckle... shuffle ... *writing it down*

That's a new one on me, thanks!