Planning my Husband's Fantasy

[Kerali_Tan]

My husband - I want to give him an unbelievable sexual experience, but I don't really know what to do. Anything you can suggest would be great. I know I should just "go for it" and see what happens, but I just can't seem to do that. Thanks.

K

 

[trask9]

check your pm, I sent you a msg.
TJ

 

[neon_noodle]

First off, your husband is one lucky stud to have such an open-minded wife, who wants to make his fantasy come true. A few pointers:

You said he wants you to take charge, and make him your bitch, so that's what you need to do. You don't have to start at all once - the mood will grow on you as you use him for your pleasure. Start by having him get dressed up for you, telling him what a pretty slut he is, and how you're going to love making him your toy.

Since you've already had him suck your strap on, and both seemed to like it, do that again to get the mood on. Rub it over his face, make him beg for your cock, and so on. Lot of women seem to be hesitant to take charge in bed, and be a bossy bitch, but when the do, the role change is a lot of fun. You'll get more comfortable, and will enjoy having him be your toy.

If you are comfortable enough, you can give him what he really wants, your strap on up his virgin ass. Just get him very hot and excited before, and work his ass with a lubed finger first, rubbing it against his hole to loosen and relax him. Then slip one finger, then two inside, using lots of lube. When he's ready, both of you are going to be as excited as you've ever been. Lube the cock, press it against his ass, and slowly work it in, then pull out for some more lube.

After all that, fuck his tight ass and make him moan like a slutty whore. Lucky bastard. Good luck. I'm stiff thinking about how good it's going to be for him.

 

[little cletus]

You need to say things to him that he would be embarrassed to say to you. On Sunday my wife brought out the bag o' tools and said that I was going to get fucked. She called me "slut", "cockwhore" and "bitch". It is nice to be wearing panties and getting fucked in the ass, but being made to "beg for cock" and being made to say that "you need it in the ass" make it all the better. Dont forget the reach around, and try different positions. Definitely make him suck the strap on and play with it. Make him lube it up.

Sunday was a good day.

 

[bimori]

My husband is a crossdresser. I want to give him an unbelievable sexual experience, but I don't really know what to do. We've talked some about what he likes when he's dressed up, but mostly what he wants is to take a passive role in sex when he's Alex, and I don't really know what to do.

I feel awkward with dirty talk or being bossy, and I don't really want him to have to spell it out for me -- but I want to give Alexandra the time of "her" life.

Can you help me? I just get really self-concious about expanding our sex life, and can't stop worrying about "getting it right". I think that if I had a plan of what do to and what to say, I would feel more comfortable.

He bought us a strap on dildo, and I know he likes it when I wear it. We had a really fun time once recently when he used his hands on me while going down on the dildo - it was surprisingly erotic to watch him do that while bringing me to orgasm (it surprised me that *I* found it erotic, anyway) and I'm pretty sure that he'd like me to use it on him, you know, from behind, but I don't want to hurt him.

Anything you can suggest would be great. I know I should just "go for it" and see what happens, but I just can't seem to do that. Thanks.

K

Well Love I could come over and we cold really have some fun with him . I just love to play with Gurls . I would turn her into my cum slut while you hammered him tight ass .

 

[DerelictionOfSanity]

He bought us a strap on dildo, and I know he likes it when I wear it. We had a really fun time once recently when he used his hands on me while going down on the dildo - it was surprisingly erotic to watch him do that while bringing me to orgasm (it surprised me that *I* found it erotic, anyway) and I'm pretty sure that he'd like me to use it on him, you know, from behind, but I don't want to hurt him.

K

Too much lube is probably just the right amount. Take it slow and start with something small. Good luck!

 

[Irony_Sinclair]

How sweet of you. Keep in mind it will be tough for any of us to give exactly what would be considered fantastic as we don't know you and this is a very personal and individualistic thing. So what we can give is some general stuff and ideas tainted by our own experiences and desires. But I'm sure they will get your mind turning. And honey, don't be embarrassed or feel awkward. This is a FANTASTIC opportunity you have. You have a loving, desiring, willign husband whom you also obviously love and that is the greatest platform you could ever hope for. Life is too short so dive in there.

Now, as to the fantasy...If you can make a day of it I think it would be awesome to wake him the morning with teasing loving strokes. Being somewhat playful but in control and when he starts to become aroused and excited you advise him that today is going to be your (meaning you not him) day. Today you are in charge and he will do what you say at all times. Kiss him on the cheek and leave the bed. It'll have his mind whirling and making him horny will most certainly make him a much more willing participant. Men will do almost anything when they're horny.

Tell him to follow you to the shower and both of you get in. Have him wash you slowly and thoroughly. Then you in return wash him, keeping him horny but never letting him go over the edge. Don't be shy, remember you're in charge! Talk to him. Tell him what a cute boy he is, what naughty boy he is, tease him about how his boy-clit is getting hard, that kind of thing.

After the shower while you relax in a towle or robe, have him make breakfast for the two of you. Eat in the living room. You sit on the couch or in a favorite chair and have him sit on the floor just beneath you. You don't even have to talk to him during this time. Maybe read a magazine while you eat or whatever. But feel free to pet his head. The idea is to be reinforcing that he is subserviant to you.

Then have him bring out all your colors of nail polish and have him paint your toenails. Maybe have him kiss and massage your feet before he starts. Tell him to be very careful and not make a mess. When he's done, pick out another color and tell him to now paint his own toenails while you watch. Tell him what a naughty sexy boy he is and that kind of thing.

Afterward, tell him the two of you are going shopping. If you can afford it, shop for antire outfit for him from shoes to blouse. Make him help pick things out. It doesn't mean you two have to be obvious about what you're doing, you can be very discreet, but force him to be involved and keep it playful and exciting. If you can't do the whole deal, then take him panty shopping. Take him to a few places and whisper in his ear how hot he's going to look in his panties, and use the word panties, decidely feminine and unmistakable. It also lets him know you're into it and that will help you both. And remember, the whole time he'll be wlaking around with painted toenails. Then if you're really feeling adventurous, have him take you by a pet store and pick out a dog collar for him. A nylon one would do just fine but whatever suits your fancy.

When you get back home, tell him to take another shower and to wash VERY well, inside and out. And tell him to shave himself well, both face and privates. Tell him you want his clit and pussy smooth and sparkling for you. If you can swing it with your lives, make him shave his legs (not feasible for everyone but if you can do it). Let him shower alone and you stay dressed. Go look at porn or read a hot story or whatever while he's in there...lol. When he's done, he has to stay naked. No towel or anything. Inspect him, feel and examine and even lick or whatever his private areas and tell him how nice it is.

Then do his makeup for him. Have him sit on the toilet or in a chair or whatever works and you make him up. The whole deal, foundation, mascara, eye liner, all of it. If you bought him an outfit, help him get into it. If you bought him a collar, put it on him. You doing all this will further cement your role and his and I think you'll both find it an exceptional turn on.

From there it become more and more up to you as individuals as you are progressing to the sex portion of the day. Tell him how beautiful he is, how naughty he is, how slutty he is. Tell him how hot you are and turned on you are. Make him eat your pussy the way YOU want it done and chastise him if he slips into bad habits. If you enjoy it, or can allow yourself to try it, make him lick your ass. There is little that is as purely and simplisticaly subservian as licking another person's ass! And it feels great too. Make him do the things YOU want, the things that please YOU. The way YOU want them done. Be encouraging but firm.

When the time finally comes for you to take him, make him put your cock on you. Have him stroke it and suck it and tell him how hot it is and what a good slut he is. Put him on all fours with his ass and lube him up extremely well! Play with and tease his ass, there are tons of nerves on the outside that feel great to have stimulated. Push your finger into him and let him relax and get used to it. Then give him a second finger. Feel for his prostate and massage it. Read his body and do what he seems to enjoy. You're both getting him excited and prepared. Give him a third finger if you feel he can take it (you'd be surprised how easily a relaxed ass can be accomodating). Then feed your cock into his slutty ass. And tell him you're doing it and making him acknowledge it. Make him tell you what a slut he is and how bad he wants your cock. Go slow and add lube. Then fuck him. Grab his hips, slap his ass, pull his hair, whatever, but make sure he knows he's being fucked!

Don't be surprised if his dick doesn't stay hard as that is very common and NOT necessarily a sign of being turned off. We can just get so into what is going on that we lose focus on our cocks. A rather exciting idea in itself if you think about it. Being able to get a man so engrossed in something that he forgets about his dick.

Anyway, I think that would be an awesome experience.