Phone Sex - Give Me Your Opinion

[cutie pie]

Personally, I'm a relative virgin when it comes to phone sex. (Certainly, subject to change. . .) I've only had one phone partner, and we had already established a comfortable relationship before talking on the phone. Looking forward, I'm not sure that I could jump right into it with someone I barely know. Typing an email, or in a chat window, permits one time to think through what you want to say, or edit that which sounds really lame. Talking is a once and done deal. I guess my biggest fear is that I'll sound really corny. However, once sufficiently stimulated, I guess I wouldn't really care how stupid I sounded!

So, tell me. . .can you just jump right in. .?. .or do you need a get-to-know-you phase first. . .?. . .

Certainly, any other comments/stories on phone sex are welcome. Cutie is always taking notes. . . .

 

[SallyIsHere]

slow but sure

I like to get comfortable with the person and go slow and enjoy the build up. In the end, I like to just let go and lose control and get totally nasty. But I have to feel comfortable to do that.

Sally

 

[silencer]

I've found that talking to the person on the phone a few times so that you bolth are comfortable with just talking to each other is helpful.If you're afraid of what you say might sound corny or silly,what you can try is,start with cbyering on IM for a while first and when things start to get hot and heavy,finish on the phone.
Eventually you'll find you will be able to do the phone thing from start to finish.

If you bolth have web cams,try useing them while on IM to start then go to the phone.It's even more exciteing watching the other person while on the phone with them.


Silencer

 

[RawHumor]

Oddly enough, I've had women ask me to take online stuff to phone after talking online for less than 10 minutes twice.

Once I did it and it turned out pretty well. The other time I couldn't...

Personally, I think it's better (not to mention SAFER) to take the time to get to know each other for a bit before taking it to phone.

When done properly though, it can be VERY intense... I was once told I should be a phone sex operator. he he...

 

[Guest]

first

I like to IM first, then move to the phone........

and on the phone, I am usually slow to warm up, so I need some small talk, get to know him.

But once we get going........ it is very hot, and can last a long time, for a few orgasms (at least for me).

 

[bfine]

Such fun

I like to start with IM........ get a feel for my partner. When I am turned on........ move onto the phone when we are both ready.

It has been great with long term lovers, and also with newbies when the energy is flowing back and forth.

I have had short conversations and long ones, but they all start with small talk, I need to warm up again after connecting.... but that may just be me!

 

[Ed2k68]

Phone is fun!

I tend to agree with all posts. Start with IM -- to get to know ya... But the phone is WAY more intense than just watching words appear on a screen. I get totally turned on by hearing her pleasure on the phone -- which heightens mine and causes me to become even more creatively naughty LOL.

 

[bfine]

Re: Phone is fun!

But the phone is WAY more intense than just watching words appear on a screen. I get totally turned on by hearing her pleasure on the phone -- which heightens mine and causes me to become even more creatively naughty LOL. [/B]

Absolutely! Hearing the quickening breathing.... the moaning... even a few groans as he cums........... very exciting!!

 

[LipstickKitten]

What everyone has said so far is right up there as far as I'm concerned with one exception.

I get dozens of PMs from here daily. My rule of thumb is that unless I've interacted with someone for awhile on these boards, I don't even respond (unless it's obvious they've been here awhile, or someone is inviting me to participate in an SRP). I don't answer people with few posts.

Before even IMing with someone, I need to have interacted with the on the boards. That gives me an opportunity to get a little background on what kind of person they are first.

Then I'll progress to PMs (sometimes straight to AIMs) and play there. I'm very, very picky about who I talk to on the phone. Once on the phone, especially for the first time with someone, as others have said, I need to talk with them awhile and get comfortable, warm up, before I can even begin to feel sexy. Getting rid of the jitters is key.

 

[badmatt]

Personally, I'm a relative virgin when it comes to phone sex. (Certainly, subject to change. . .) I've only had one phone partner, and we had already established a comfortable relationship before talking on the phone. Looking forward, I'm not sure that I could jump right into it with someone I barely know. Typing an email, or in a chat window, permits one time to think through what you want to say, or edit that which sounds really lame. Talking is a once and done deal. I guess my biggest fear is that I'll sound really corny. However, once sufficiently stimulated, I guess I wouldn't really care how stupid I sounded!

So, tell me. . .can you just jump right in. .?. .or do you need a get-to-know-you phase first. . .?. . .

Certainly, any other comments/stories on phone sex are welcome. Cutie is always taking notes. . . .

well...
usually I do go with the gradual build up...get to know a person first...but then again, there have been times when you get an animal attraction to a person's personality....and wow was she wild on the phone....was so glad I didn't wait...

 

[Ohiomale]

I think alot for Me has to do with the fact that... its a hell of a turn on factor to hear one moaning and panting... sounds of pleasure and animalistic growling... *shuders just thinking about it*

but I will have to agree with Badmatt... I have talked to people for 5mins and start to get into it... I have talked to some for 5 days and gradually build up to it...

its how turned on are you and they... what are each others needs... thou I usually talk for a little bit... find the comfert level... and if it goes there great... twist My rubber arm... haha.. if it dont great... I have met a new friend! *bs*

 

[Lance Hardrock]

I agree

with most of the others here. I have to know my partner. Just like in real life, I don't go up to some girl and say, hey ya wanna fuck? That is not my style.
Phone sex is incredibly intense, the next best thing to being there. So for that to happen for me, I have to know the lady. I want to email her, read her posts here, IM with her, even trade pics (and they don't have to be revealing). I like having some idea of who she is before we take it to the phone.

When all that is done, then whoopie, it is party time.

 

[SexyAmber]

Re: Re: Phone Sex - Give Me Your Opinion

well...
usually I do go with the gradual build up...get to know a person first...but then again, there have been times when you get an animal attraction to a person's personality....and wow was she wild on the phone....was so glad I didn't wait...

I agree gradual build up but sometimes the chemistry is just there to go for it

 

[badmatt]

Re: Re: Re: Phone Sex - Give Me Your Opinion

I agree gradual build up but sometimes the chemistry is just there to go for it

chemistry huh??? *starts mixin' chemicals*

 

[whspr]

I definitely have to know the person before I can get to
phone sex. I'm kinda quiet at first so I need a feel of
what they are all about. Phone sex can be very intense
though. Once I have some feelings for the person...
WOOO HOOO HOOOO!!!!



Soft Kisses,
Whspr

 

[pennynam]

I've never had phone sex, so I can't answer as to how good it is, but I would say that I would consider it, IF I knew that person well enough Male OR Female.

Penny

 

[Trippychik]

Personally, I'm a relative virgin when it comes to phone sex. (Certainly, subject to change. . .) I've only had one phone partner, and we had already established a comfortable relationship before talking on the phone. Looking forward, I'm not sure that I could jump right into it with someone I barely know. Typing an email, or in a chat window, permits one time to think through what you want to say, or edit that which sounds really lame. Talking is a once and done deal. I guess my biggest fear is that I'll sound really corny. However, once sufficiently stimulated, I guess I wouldn't really care how stupid I sounded!

So, tell me. . .can you just jump right in. .?. .or do you need a get-to-know-you phase first. . .?. . .

Certainly, any other comments/stories on phone sex are welcome. Cutie is always taking notes. . . .

I often call my boyfriend on the phone at work and we have passionate chats where I usually masturbate til orgasm, panting and moaning loudly!
When he gets home he's hard and ready and so am I!
Poor boy at work tho, he must have trouble hiding that huge package of his all day.

I think I'll go call him his next break (wink)

 

[barebear]

For me, I could dive right in, with the right lady, under the right circumstances, doesn't take long for the horniness to take over.... then watch out, the wires will be burnin'.....

 

[SexyAmber]

For me, I could dive right in, with the right lady, under the right circumstances, doesn't take long for the horniness to take over.... then watch out, the wires will be burnin'.....

go bear go...15 more posts and you can have an avatar!

 

[Lance Hardrock]

amber, may I?

Amber you are so sexy, may I dive right in?

 

[Angelofsex]

I have to agreed with everyone else start on the iam then move to the phone. Only one time when I was talking to this guy for the first time, that I ask did you ever have phone sex. Well, he said no and I say you are now. I needed the phone part so he call. I have to say he like it and it was great.

 

[darkscribe]

I agree with what just everyone is saying here. The first call is tough because you have to get to know the person. Once you settle down and get to know the person it can be a great experience

 

[1sexylady]

I don't mind cybering.....

you get to think about what your saying for a min or two...I have never phone sexed and I think I would be a bit shyer....but then...maybe not....I do have to know the person somewhat even for cyber sex....

1sexylady.......

 

[Desdemona]

When the chemistry and relationship is right, its amazing.

 

[Elvenspell]

I enjoy phone sex a lot. Mind you, I agree that there has to be some chemistry going on first, but so long as that's there, I am very forgiving if the medium causes my lover to misstate something, and usually we're both having too much fun to notice!