phone sex/cybering and "etiquette"

[INeedLove]

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

 

[nyrjmk]

etiquette

congrats on starting your own thread, and to answer your question i think that you really have to establish your own etiquette guidelines individually with the people that you meet online since they are all so diverse, people are on different schedules and have different issues, so defining follow up etiquette guidelines could be a toughie, but i am curious to know what others do

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

There is no question that etiquette, not to mention human consideration, dictates that one follow up on such a session with some sort of message. I won't claim that 've been perfrect good about this, but I know it is the decent thing to do, and you have a right to expect it.
Now,
in our liberated world, it would seem that the same would apply to the woman, don't you think?
Mike

 

[Laughing Tiger]

This is a very good question, INeedLove. I've only managed to hook up with a phone partner from Lit three or four times, and in each case it was mutually satisfying. Naturally I followed up with an email--nothing too mushy or desperate-sounding, but a friendly "Hey, that was great--I'd be glad to do it again sometime."

So call it etiquette or just basic human decency--if there was a fun connection, a follow-up is in order. If it was a disaster, probably not. Anything in between, I'd err on the side of good manners and send a note.

That said, I invite you to PM me. Rrrrrowwwl.

 

[sharingfantasies]

This is a very good question, INeedLove. I've only managed to hook up with a phone partner from Lit three or four times, and in each case it was mutually satisfying. Naturally I followed up with an email--nothing too mushy or desperate-sounding, but a friendly "Hey, that was great--I'd be glad to do it again sometime."

So call it etiquette or just basic human decency--if there was a fun connection, a follow-up is in order. If it was a disaster, probably not. Anything in between, I'd err on the side of good manners and send a note.

That said, I invite you to PM me. Rrrrrowwwl.

I agree Tiger. It is a common courtesy, whether you had a good time or not, to just acknowledge the other person.

"Thanks, it was great, let's do it again some time. "

'Thanks for last night, take care. "

An acknowledgement that on the other end of the phone or the computer is a live human being who took the time to engage in an activity with you.

And yes, both parties should acknowledge each other.

At least that is my opinion.

 

[Darkknight2010]

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

Hey there. And congrats on your first thread.

And I second the opinion of everyone else; you should follow-up with SOMETHING. Sure, 'it's just sex', but if you really did enjoy it and you and your partner did have some connection, it's not simply courteousy, it's a decent thing to do.

Hope to see more threads and posts from you, milady.

 

[herdman]

Experience

It's just like the real thing if you have "happy fingers" I mean....Yes a msg the next day would be fine, but more cyber would be better.....

 

[Butterflybaby04]

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

Before reading further at other's answers, like I do that anyway. In my experianceand preferance it is nice to just talk a bit at first to get to know the person.

I have cybered alone and with my spouse, ones with my spouse have been most enjoyable because we got to know the people a little before the "act".
not you adam

I want to talk to a man for a freaking second before he is waving his freaking cock in my fucking face. jeez, give it a rest. LOL, take a minute and ask how they are, fuck your dick is not going to fall off.

LOL, ok there is my speach for the day.

And don't worry I'm still a pervert

 

[Sun Tan Guy]

Courtesy is #1

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

Zeph
Glad your feelin brave. The more you chat the more you will get involved here! Go for it gal!!
Common courtesy absolutely would be PM or email the next day. Hun, actually for me, its the next few hours thanking them for a great xperience! Even if it wasnt good, a decent person will respond back in some manner!! I hate hearing stories of people that dont show respect. GEEZZ, its not like your going to see them all day long the next day!! OMG.. why do people have to be jerks in cyber land???!!!

If a person has the guts to try it, I bet they are pretty good and both parties are enjoying it. You deserve some kind of polite response back! Thats the way I handle it. My experiences have been if we were both willing and able to once, chances are we cant wait to try it again!! wahooooo!!

I agree too, that general social chatting is critical to getting the mood right first. If you arent compatable, its not something that should go on.. I had one gal that we did phone and cyber for over a year. It was awesome each time. A few times i ran up 2 hours on my phone!!! After that long our needs changed and we moved on but are still very good friends. I wish you luck in your search for polite guys.. Ps.. feel free to pm me if you want to chat anytime!!!

STG

 

[Doctor Joe]

My Momma always told me to say Thank you! When I cyber or phone, I always express my appreciation to my partner who has taken the time and the risk of being with me (usually for a very HOT satisfying session). If you like this person you're with, of course you would say thanks and can we meet again!

Doctor Joe

 

[Guest]

no. i don't. But i do IM them the next time i see them.

 

[krazeekat]

no. i don't. But i do IM them the next time i see them.

hey you

 

[MarkSand]

I think an acknowledgement of some kind is less a matter of common courtesy than it is of emotional sensitivity and taste. Certainly it would help to build the trust and rapport that would make the experience even better the next time.

 

[tonyp]

umm its all so diplomatic

I think if its not good then walk away if its good and you really connect your mad not keeping it going ..

 

[MarkSand]

Good morning

 

[krazeekat]

Good morning to you, Mark.

 

[hmcneil_fc]

You always try and say Hi or something after a call/cam session. The women that partake in the joy that is phone/cam are rare and awesome so I always show my appreciation. It's only polite after being exxxxxtremely nasty.

 

[MarkSand]

Hi, Krazee. Nice to meet you

 

[krazeekat]

Hi, Krazee. Nice to meet you

Nice to meet you too.

 

[MarkSand]

Your AV is terrific, Krazee. What's your take on this topic?

 

[krazeekat]

Your AV is terrific, Krazee. What's your take on this topic?

Thank you for the compliment, I kind of like this AV and will probably keep it for awhile.

As for my take on this subject. If the end result was mutually satisfying then a message from either party would be a nice follow up. Even if you're a girl you don't have to wait and hope for the bloke to message you

 

[crushedice]

Always

So, here's my question:
After a really good phone sex or cyber experience, do you PM or email the next day? I know, I know... its just sex but do you follow up?

In my experience, if I have a great session with a guy and he (seems) to also, then I *hope* for a message. Also, if he wants it again, it sure paves the way.........

Just curious (this is my first intiated thread-I'm getting brave)


PS Zeph

I just read your post and can say that the experiences I have had have been more than a one timer. Following up not only the next day with emails is quite exciting to relive your experience.