longshot18
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- Jan 6, 2001
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Hi,
we are a married couple in our mid 30's. We are attractive, but not Ken and Barbie (meaning we are not over weight and have attractive faces).
We have been married 13 years and have never done any form of swinging or soft swing before. What we are looking for, quite honeslty, depends on the individual or couple and how comfortable we become.
In general, you should be 25-45 years old. You should be attractive but no need to be a super model. We are not interested in helping single men cheat, so if that is what you are looking for please do not bother us. You should be non-smokers, and not the type to get drunk for fun. We are a professional couple next door type and expect similar type individuals. We expect safe play. We would want to start with e-mail chat and photos, and if everyone agrees proceed forward.
Like I said, it is difficult to say exactly what we are looking for because we have never done this and, quite honestly, are both a little scared about moving forward. However, here is a range of what may happen (or wont happen) based on you:
Men- Like I said, if you are married looking to fool around don't bother. My wife has a huge fantasy of having multiple men at once. Now, whether or not we do this is, as I said, dependent on our comfortability. The range of possibilities goes from having a guy come and film us and not being able to participate (but, of course could relieve himself) all the way up to all out 3-somes or more-somes. We have a few kinky things that we do in bed ourselves, but probably would not explore with other men. Also, I am not bi or inclined that way in the least bit.
Couples: We know 100% for sure we would like to do soft swing (ie- each of us having sex with our own partners in front of each other). We have some kinks that we may explore if the other couple shared similar things (anal sex and pee play). These are not part of every time we have sex and do not need to be shared as couples, but depending on your interests we might be willing to explore in front of you while you do the same. We understand these might not be for everyone and understand you may have some interests that are not ours- but that respecting what we each want is key.
My wife is very apprehensive about me having sex with another woman, in fact, I don't think that is in the realm of possibilities. However, I would love to see her with another man (not woman- she is not oriented that way). So the concept of full swing may be a bit difficult, unless the woman in the other couple is willing to watch her husband with my wife while either filming or playing with her self.
I am not sure if we are looking for a 1 time sex only kind of thing or more of a relationship. Again- I think that depends on the chemistry once we proceed. Ideally you (or both of you) would also be relatively new at this- we are not looking for an experienced couple or man to "show us the ropes" so to speak. We are looking for people who can respect the limits I have mentioned while exploring sexuality. Interested- send is a message at longshot18@cox.net. Let us know who you (and your partner) are. Let us know what you are looking for, and what limits you need respected. Let us know if you are willing to share pictures and spend some time finding compatibility through e-mail before proceeding as we will not rush into this.
Finally, if you just cant wait to see a picture, there is one of my wife at yahoo profile azcouple1818. Not sure of the direct link, but you more advanced computer users can find it.
Again- males looking to cheat please do not bother. If you are not willing to let us see your house, call you, or otherwise indicate you have something to hide we will not waste our time.
we are a married couple in our mid 30's. We are attractive, but not Ken and Barbie (meaning we are not over weight and have attractive faces).
We have been married 13 years and have never done any form of swinging or soft swing before. What we are looking for, quite honeslty, depends on the individual or couple and how comfortable we become.
In general, you should be 25-45 years old. You should be attractive but no need to be a super model. We are not interested in helping single men cheat, so if that is what you are looking for please do not bother us. You should be non-smokers, and not the type to get drunk for fun. We are a professional couple next door type and expect similar type individuals. We expect safe play. We would want to start with e-mail chat and photos, and if everyone agrees proceed forward.
Like I said, it is difficult to say exactly what we are looking for because we have never done this and, quite honestly, are both a little scared about moving forward. However, here is a range of what may happen (or wont happen) based on you:
Men- Like I said, if you are married looking to fool around don't bother. My wife has a huge fantasy of having multiple men at once. Now, whether or not we do this is, as I said, dependent on our comfortability. The range of possibilities goes from having a guy come and film us and not being able to participate (but, of course could relieve himself) all the way up to all out 3-somes or more-somes. We have a few kinky things that we do in bed ourselves, but probably would not explore with other men. Also, I am not bi or inclined that way in the least bit.
Couples: We know 100% for sure we would like to do soft swing (ie- each of us having sex with our own partners in front of each other). We have some kinks that we may explore if the other couple shared similar things (anal sex and pee play). These are not part of every time we have sex and do not need to be shared as couples, but depending on your interests we might be willing to explore in front of you while you do the same. We understand these might not be for everyone and understand you may have some interests that are not ours- but that respecting what we each want is key.
My wife is very apprehensive about me having sex with another woman, in fact, I don't think that is in the realm of possibilities. However, I would love to see her with another man (not woman- she is not oriented that way). So the concept of full swing may be a bit difficult, unless the woman in the other couple is willing to watch her husband with my wife while either filming or playing with her self.
I am not sure if we are looking for a 1 time sex only kind of thing or more of a relationship. Again- I think that depends on the chemistry once we proceed. Ideally you (or both of you) would also be relatively new at this- we are not looking for an experienced couple or man to "show us the ropes" so to speak. We are looking for people who can respect the limits I have mentioned while exploring sexuality. Interested- send is a message at longshot18@cox.net. Let us know who you (and your partner) are. Let us know what you are looking for, and what limits you need respected. Let us know if you are willing to share pictures and spend some time finding compatibility through e-mail before proceeding as we will not rush into this.
Finally, if you just cant wait to see a picture, there is one of my wife at yahoo profile azcouple1818. Not sure of the direct link, but you more advanced computer users can find it.
Again- males looking to cheat please do not bother. If you are not willing to let us see your house, call you, or otherwise indicate you have something to hide we will not waste our time.
