Pet peeves

[mattdchef]

ok not sure if this has been covered here or not so giving it a shot!

If it has i'll appologize and let it die out...

Mine: taking the time to post something nice to a persons thread and they dont give you the courtesy of a response...now i know the occasional multi response is neccessary, however not to acknowledge a post is rude!


Ok everyone let them rip

 

[DaddysAngel23]

Oops

I know I've done that to you, though I swear I didn't mean to.


My pet peev:

Just because I posted pics does not mean I want to talk dirty to every dude thats bored at work

 

[mattdchef]

I know I've done that to you, though I swear I didn't mean to.


My pet peev:

Just because I posted pics does not mean I want to talk dirty to every dude thats bored at work

its all good......once even twice is cool we all miss, but everytime..blah

i can agree that you wouldnt want to...some guys...sheesh

 

[DaddysAngel23]

its all good......once even twice is cool we all miss, but everytime..blah

i can agree that you wouldnt want to...some guys...sheesh

I try to respond to everyone with at least something.

But you try to come up with polite responses to some of these messages

 

[mattdchef]

I try to respond to everyone with at least something.

But you try to come up with polite responses to some of these messages

i can only imagine how hard it would be...there are some pretty interesting folks here. and yes i mean that in the politest of ways!

 

[monique1971]

I've been guilty of this too. I feel badly about it. Sometimes, if I had not checked the thread for a few days, it seemed silly to reply to a comment that had been made 3 or 4 days ago. At other times, I was just plain being inconsiderate. If I ever have a thread again, I would make more of an effort to talk to everyone personally.

 

[mattdchef]

I've been guilty of this too. I feel badly about it. Sometimes, if I had not checked the thread for a few days, it seemed silly to reply to a comment that had been made 3 or 4 days ago. At other times, I was just plain being inconsiderate. If I ever have a thread again, I would make more of an effort to talk to everyone personally.

its all good babe!
so what is one of your pet peeves???

 

[monique1971]

its all good babe!
so what is one of your pet peeves???

I didn't post my face or pussy, and I didn't like it when people would PM out of the blue and ask for special pictures including those features. It seemed to suggest a certain arrogance, as if they thought that all I needed was to be asked to show what I clearly had decided not to show.

But then, given that I did show quite a bit, perhaps I am being too hard on others. And I didn't mind if people asked for such pictures after getting to know me a little. (That doesn't mean that I said "yes, here ya go" but I wasn't in the least offended by the request. Context and tone matter greatly in such matters.)

 

[mattdchef]

I didn't post my face or pussy, and I didn't like it when people would PM out of the blue and ask for special pictures including those features. It seemed to suggest a certain arrogance, as if they thought that all I needed was to be asked to show what I clearly had decided not to show.

But then, given that I did show quite a bit, perhaps I am being too hard on others. And I didn't mind if people asked for such pictures after getting to know me a little. (That doesn't mean that I said "yes, here ya go" but I wasn't in the least offended by the request. Context and tone matter greatly in such matters.)

no you didnt post those features, and i can totaly understand on basis of annonymity why you wouldnt show your face...as for down below...as much as you post pics of yourself for whatever reason...that is something special that not everyone feels can be shared...not that i am saying those who do share should be shunned...i totally agree context and tone matter...

 

[Lorali82]

Yeah, I'm sure I'm guilty of it too. Sorry, matt! *makes puppy dog face*

monique, I'm with you on the requests for face, etc. I mean, it's not as if I'm going to go, "Oh yeah! I guess I haven't thought of showing my face yet and I've somehow managed to crop it out of every single one of my pictures! Thanks for enlightening me to that fact, guy!"

 

[mattdchef]

Yeah, I'm sure I'm guilty of it too. Sorry, matt! *makes puppy dog face*

monique, I'm with you on the requests for face, etc. I mean, it's not as if I'm going to go, "Oh yeah! I guess I haven't thought of showing my face yet and I've somehow managed to crop it out of every single one of my pictures! Thanks for enlightening me to that fact, guy!"

ok...so i didnt say that to get everyone to appologize, but....no worries or hard feelings...just something i wanted to get off my chest...

lorali you are so funny...your wit matches your beauty

 

[Lorali82]

I know I've done that to you, though I swear I didn't mean to.


My pet peev:

Just because I posted pics does not mean I want to talk dirty to every dude thats bored at work

yep. I had a disclaimer on my index that said I would ignore any incoherent PM that clearly indicated the guy had his dick in one hand and was typing with the other.

And I got the rudest PM from some troll that quoted it and asked, "if you're going to act like a spoiled little bitch then why even bother in the first place?"

Ok, so apparently I'm not allowed to post naked photos of myself if I'm not willing to do cyber as well.

Jeez, it makes me so mad everytime I think about that PM!

 

[Lorali82]

ok...so i didnt say that to get everyone to appologize, but....no worries or hard feelings...just something i wanted to get off my chest...

lorali you are so funny...your wit matches your beauty

thank you matt!

 

[mattdchef]

yep. I had a disclaimer on my index that said I would ignore any incoherent PM that clearly indicated the guy had his dick in one hand and was typing with the other.

And I got the rudest PM from some troll that quoted it and asked, "if you're going to act like a spoiled little bitch then why even bother in the first place?"

Ok, so apparently I'm not allowed to post naked photos of myself if I'm not willing to do cyber as well.

Jeez, it makes me so mad everytime I think about that PM!

the nerve...seems unfortuate that the few take the joy out of it for you so that the many have to suffer...its hard for some to understand the the female body is an art form...something to be worshiped and not used souly for sexual gratification

 

[Lorali82]

the nerve...seems unfortuate that the few take the joy out of it for you so that the many have to suffer...its hard for some to understand the the female body is an art form...something to be worshiped and not used souly for sexual gratification

Don't get me wrong, I like a nice horny PM, but when I get stuff like, "I jus wann fuck that hott pssy all nite looooonnnnnnggg," what am I supposed to say? "Oh yeah baby, type me more"? And I feel kind of rude just deleting a PM with no response (though I've done it plenty with these types of messages). I'd just rather not have messages like that clogging up my inbox in the first place.

 

[mattdchef]

Don't get me wrong, I like a nice horny PM, but when I get stuff like, "I jus wann fuck that hott pssy all nite looooonnnnnnggg," what am I supposed to say? "Oh yeah baby, type me more?" And I feel kind of rude just deleting a PM with no response (though I've done it plenty with these types of messages). I'd just rather not have messages like that clogging up my inbox in the first place.

absolutely...just like mon said...context and tone...get to know me a little before you come out and say hey babe wanna fuck??? you wouldnt use that line in a bar so why use it here...hmmm a horney pm with lorali??? lol j/k sweetie

 

[Lorali82]

absolutely...just like mon said...context and tone...get to know me a little before you come out and say hey babe wanna fuck??? you wouldnt use that line in a bar so why use it here...hmmm a horney pm with lorali??? lol j/k sweetie

Yes, I absolutely agree with her. A few witty/naughty banter PMs then we can get to the really dirty stuff.

 

[mattdchef]

Yes, I absolutely agree with her. A few witty/naughty banter PMs then we can get to the really dirty stuff.

right...none of this wham bam thank you maam

 

[Lorali82]

right...none of this wham bam thank you maam

Just plain rude, is what that is.

 

[mattdchef]

Just plain rude, is what that is.

implied sarcasm....we guys want to be loved for our minds too....sometimes the ladies get a lil over zealous too

 

[bluebell]

A pox on him

yep. I had a disclaimer on my index that said I would ignore any incoherent PM that clearly indicated the guy had his dick in one hand and was typing with the other.

And I got the rudest PM from some troll that quoted it and asked, "if you're going to act like a spoiled little bitch then why even bother in the first place?"

Ok, so apparently I'm not allowed to post naked photos of myself if I'm not willing to do cyber as well.

Jeez, it makes me so mad everytime I think about that PM!

I'm sorry you had that happen, Lorali.
It's not a fun headspace to be in when things like that get caught inside.
Let's hope his weenie gets caught in a meat grinder

One of my pet peeves is when books I read and enjoyed years ago get made into movies. Then every person who bothers to read has now read the book and wants to push it on me.
It's not the movie that bothers me, or the people who used the movie as a prompt to read the book. It's just the people who feel compelled to over-gush about what they read.

 

[monique1971]

yep. I had a disclaimer on my index that said I would ignore any incoherent PM that clearly indicated the guy had his dick in one hand and was typing with the other.

And I got the rudest PM from some troll that quoted it and asked, "if you're going to act like a spoiled little bitch then why even bother in the first place?"

Ok, so apparently I'm not allowed to post naked photos of myself if I'm not willing to do cyber as well.

Jeez, it makes me so mad everytime I think about that PM!

Oooh. Now I'm mad too. I hate that kind of attitude. God forbid that his little porno fantasy be disrupted by something like a woman who can think and talk.

 

[Lorali82]

I'm sorry you had that happen, Lorali.
It's not a fun headspace to be in when things like that get caught inside.
Let's hope his weenie gets caught in a meat grinder

thanks, bluebell!

Given that as well some of his previous behavior on the boards and in PMs to me, I'm pretty sure he has a, er, mental defect or two.

 

[Lorali82]

Oooh. Now I'm mad too. I hate that kind of attitude. God forbid that his little porno fantasy be disrupted by something like a woman who can think and talk.

Precisely. Jerk-off.

That's another pet peeve, guys who "suggest" things that you should do to "improve" your pictures. I'm not talking about suggestions for themes for a photo series (e.g., a setting, a particular type or lingerie, etc.), but something that is clearly a personal preference or fetish (a suggestion to grow or shave one's pubic hair for example) that will help him personally get off to your pictures better.

Once you post pictures on a public board, some people think they own you.

(matt, thanks for creating this thread. It's helping me blow off a lot of steam )

 

[DaddysAngel23]

I must share

Since we are discussing the nasty PM's that can so piss us off I have to share the strangest I got.
It went something like this:

"I have a neighbor who is just so cute but she is a tease so I came in her shampoo, where should I cum next?"

My response was "Get the hell out of her house you pervert!"
Sure hope some one catches that guy one of these days