Personal story of control

[ukcouple4play]

Not sure this is the right forum to post this to, but here goes anyway...

I know my fiance fantasises about being dominated, up to and including restraint, spanking and mild verbal abuse/humiliation. Sexually I am not the most dominant of guys and feel a little awkward taking on this role.

Anyway, next week is her birthday and I have struck on an idea to give her a littke treat - write, or maybe even record a story describing in detail a scenario in which she is dominated. I'd ask her to read/listen in private and then the idea would be for me to 'make the story come to life' by acting out the scenarios described.

I'm posting here because I have next to no experience writing erotic literature. I want to initial story to be captivating, graphic, convincing and above all to drive her wild. So I was wondeeing if anyone here might have any hints, tips or advice to help me on my way?

A feed back much appreciated, thanks in advance.

 

[Strangebuddy]

Well, give us some details about your girlfriend (what type of personality, physical characteristics, etc.). A week isn't much time but maybe we can come up with something.

For example, you say mild abuse/humiliation, what are the limits on that and has she expressed what she would like to see? Is there anything specific she's given you? (like maybe she wants to be dominated in a changing room or wants you to spank her with a specific item).

 

[ukcouple4play]

Thanks for replying. My fiance, Claire, is 5'3, a petite size 8, 32b bust and gorgeous hour-glass figure. Personality wise she is quite shy and quiet, but that masks quite an adventurous personality underneath, she never balks at tring new things and sexually has a huge appetite. She is incredibly kind, generous and passionate, but very much a private person.

She hasn't given me any hints as to location or other specifics as she finds it difficult to express her fantasies. She has however told me clearly she enjoys name calling, spanking and being used assertively and roughly, even up to having a non-consensual element. The limits to this would be the same for most beginners Im guessing, anything beyond mild pain or that crosses the line into gratuitous abuse would be an instant turn off. What excites her is not having control and anticipation

Hope that helps.

 

[Strangebuddy]

I got ya. So what do you all normally do on her birthdayor when you are having a date? Do you go out or do you have a fun night in? I'm trying to get a picture of where you might act out your fantasy. If you go out first there could be some teasing and light humiliation (like maybe giving her butt a squeeze while you wait to be seated or maybe you order her to go to the bathroom and take her panties off and hand them to you) followed by maybe a some light acts like teasing her with your fingers while you're in the parking lot or maybe pulling over and making her climb out so she can get a quick roadside spanking.

If you want things kept at home maybe you have her dress in as provocative of a number as possible and have her answer the door in it (you would be at the door...while amusing, might not be the best idea for your neighbors or a delivery guy to get some up close ogling...though you could tease her by not going in right away and keeping some distance from the door frame, all the while teasing her with thoughts of being put on full display), then making her strip for you...stopping her to give critiques and ask questions.

 

[ukcouple4play]

We're as equally likely to go out or stay in. She has done things like hand me her knickers in a club before, that's very hot. Id like to tease/fondle her in public more.

I like the idea of her being on display for me, dressed like a slut, made to show herself off as I view and touch her like an object.

 

[Strangebuddy]

In that case, you could keep her in the doorway, fondling her as you ask questions and not going inside until she answers all of them.

I'd be tempted to suggest a bit with a remote control vibrator/vibrating panties, though that's something that should probably just remain in fiction (they're a bit costly vs their failure rate). For instance, after she gives you her underwear, you tease her for a bit then give her a present and tell her to go back and put it on. She does so and when she comes back, the waiter sings happy birthday (if it's that kind of place) and that either triggers the sensor or you dial it up...making her have to hide her reaction or mask it as embarrassment. You then go to a club and as you both dance, with you openly touching her and feeling her up, you dial it up as the music swells and then turn it off right before she climaxes.

 

[ukcouple4play]

We have a remote control vibrating egg that would be perfect for that.

 

[HeyAll]

Read my story "the bondage professor" which is posted below. Hopefully that will help.