???Personal question - just curious???

[Sparky Kronkite]

As you all know, I'm relatively new her. And you know, I don't really know squat. Especially about computers and how they work and also the folks who do know how they work. I know no one who knows how computers work - except some of you. And you know that I really don't care about numbers of posts or titles. I'm simply curious, that's all. And lately maybe, I think I becoming addicted (though harmlessly) to, well, communicating with you all.

So first off, pardon me if I may ask something that's been asked before (which the heart of this thread will eventually get to) and secondly, pardon me if I get a bit personal with the following question. But.....

I was thinking - about the "General" board (my obvious favorite) - and the other boards here too, to which I have only, briefly peeked into a couple of times - and in considering that this is after all an erotically tied board and considering our often sexual charged banter, I began to wonder.......... hmmmmmmmmmm???????????

Q: How many of us, you/me - are capable of "getting off" via this sexual medium? "That medium," I would loosely describe as "personal, interactive, sexual communications via the Internet." How many of us can cum, doing this?

Me first.....

A: Don't think I can. And I've never tried, for that very reason. I don't think I could. And, I've tried phone sex before and even though it worked, I was less than thrilled. Call me an impotent internet sex partner (Well I guess I wouldn't be a sex partner if I couldn't have sex now would I?) call me limp dick - but I simply don't think that the lack of physical feeling, seeing, touching, etc., could be manufactured in my mind - real enough - to turn the trick.

But then again, I don't know, never tried.

And I don't plan to by the way. I think I'm addicted enough - to this simple spewing factor.

So, if you're not too embarrassed, I'm very curious as to how many of you "can do it."

 

[Cheyenne]

Q: How many of us, you/me - are capable of "getting off" via this sexual medium? "That medium," I would loosely describe as "personal, interactive, sexual communications via the Internet." How many of us can cum, doing this?

Clarification please. Are you asking if people can cum just by reading with no physical stimulation at all? Or are you asking if people can cum using the "personal, interactive, sexual communications via the Internet" as the instigation but still needing physical stimulation to reach orgasm? Answers would be "no" to the first version and "yes" to the second.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

I'm talkin' bout -

The equivalent of phone sex - only Internet sex.

Do you people get off, literally, communicating sexually to each other, over the Internet?

No, don't think I can.

 

[Bliss]

Can you get off on it? Huh? Huh? Can ya?

The verb you're looking for is cybering, Sparkster.

*whaps Spinkle on the nose* That's a personal question!

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Thank you Bliss -

For filling my ignorant void. Now a little clearer. Is Cybering just sexual or is it any kind of conversation on the Web?

If it were sexual I think I'd like the word "cyberation" or "cybergasim" or phrase "cybering off."

 

[Savage Kitten]

hey Sparky baby

you want an honest answer... here ya go.. i'll do my best

When I first got online (abt 3 yrs ago) I was literally scared to death to go to chat rooms, i had heard so many stalker stories etc. But eventually, maybe after 3 months, curiosity got the better of me and i went to a very small chat board. I was very shy and I thought it was funny how people flirted with one another ... and the vulgarity of some of the private messages i recieved embarrassed me.

then i started talking to this older guy.. who was a writer... and he explained to me that he liked to find people with vivid imaginations to create fantasies with... i told him i had never tried that... he said it was like reading a book except you were making up the story as you went along. So we tried it.. and for a long time there was no sexual content... we took long romantic walks on the beach... turn of the century carriage rides.. flew our magic carpet all over the world.. it was awesome... and i was addicted to him and our story time (it feels like that was a lifetime ago even tho i remember it like it was yesterday)

it couldn't help but turn sexual after awhile.. snuggling and kissing under thick wool blankets during our carriage ride on a blustery winter morn.. at first i didn't touch myself.. but i did get wet.. and my body tingled.. i was amazed to find my nipples hardening.. his words were electric.

eventually i got bold enough to tell him what his words were doing to me... how they left me feeling flusterated... he said 'why be flusterated? give yourself what you need to feel better' and i did exactly that

eventually we went seperate ways, another story for another time... but i was hooked... i was the biggest Cyber Slut that ever roamed the i-net.. the more i did it the better i got.. it was like a victory every time i got a man off.. i got a power rush that i can't describe

through cybering .. i became bolder.. i learned a lot about sex and how it can variate.. i learned a lot about men.. and about myself

i don't do it much any more.. it got old.. stale... hard to find anybody that can match my imagination (haha) maybe I have reverted a bit... I am more into the story telling aspect of it now.. it's still a small victory for me to know my words can 'get someone off'

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

My story runs a lot like SK's. I visited the chat room's a while after I learned my way around the 'net, and found them a little lacking in imagination, too... they were boring, to say the least. I could always get the guy off (really well ), but then I'd be left there... not turned on at all. Then I met an author here and fell for him in every way. He painted the most beautiful pictures for me... about me... and most of all WITH me. The first time, I let myself get so turned on that when I finally relieved myself, I think it took all of about 2 seconds to actually bring on one of my best orgasms ever.

So, in answer to your question, yes. I can. But it has to be the right person, not just some random chat room guy.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

WOW!!! Thanks!!!

Thanks you two. My guess is that you two are fairly daring in that you even responded to this. So bravo!

Fascinating too - just kinda like real life - only not. And of course safe.

You'll have to tell me though - more about stalkers. To me, a web know nothing, stalkers must be physical - you know looking in your windows. But how would they get your address? So I presume you're talking about web stalkers, which I believe I read allusion to but don't even come close to understanding. How can this happen?

Also, I guess I'm a little jealous. Not only do I believe that I could not succumb to cybering - just not real enough. (Weird too in that I don't think I lack imagination - just don't think I can use it there.) But also jealous that I don't think I could ever seduce and produce these "lush, vivid pictures," either. I guess those guys were a hell of a couple of writers. And I would presume that I'm not - yet anyway.

Oh well - wonderful for you to share. Thanks again.

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

PS to last -

Got an idea. Thinking that "those guys" you mention - you know, get off - not only get off but enjoy the seduction and all.

Well, I think it would be great if, only upon your recommendations, that you might direct them to me for the purposes of seducing my wife - you know - as a birthday present. I'd let her know something special this way comes - don't want to cyber rape her or anything. Just bring her some fun - turn her one and reap the rewards later in the evening.

I'm also bringing in a sexy masseuse - so why not this too?

What do ya think? Bad idea. Let me know. Thanks.

BTW - she's a professional writer by trade and fun.

 

[Savage Kitten]

*sly grin* Well Spark Munster

you never know until you try huh??

by stalkers I am talking about real live people who gather bits and pieces of information from you that you ... knowingly or unwittingly .. give out

i have read actual police reports of a guy who pretended to be a young boy to befriend a 13yr old girl.. they talked about everything... school.. ball practice.. her friends.. etc... all seemingly harmless stuff that kids would talk about.. then one day as she was walking home from school she thought she noticed someone was following her.. she took a short cut through the park.. and lost him.. her parents were still at work but it scared her enough that she called them... her dad assured her everything was alright and that she should go home and lock the doors and wait for him to get home.. when she got close to her house she noticed the guy sitting on her porch steps.. but he didn't see her.. so ran to a neighbors house and called her dad once again... when he got home the man was gone... the girl reported seeing the man a few more times at her school.. the police decided to put a watch on her.. and logged every action that man made .. he was stalking her.. one night he tried to break into their house and thats when the police nabbed him... he confessed to posing as the boy

believe me when i tell you there are a lot of people out there doing that on the internet.. and there are a lot of police officers out there pretending to be children to try and snag them b4 they hurt anyone

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Yeah - no doubt....

That ugly shit happens. It's easy to stretch it from children to adult women too. I just wanted to make sure I was thinking the same stuff - it's a combo of cyber and actually physically stalking someone. You know - being a stupid guy - well I just think I walk up to my stalker and fuckin knife him - no witnesses of course and who could pin him to me? Ooops! Stupid guy again - the cops could - through the Internet. Shit! I'm outta here.

Please let me know about seducing my wife though.

The dick is mightier than the sword, the pen or the damn PC.

 

[Guest]

 

[Guest]

Yes, Sparky, I am addicted to Literotica too, I spend a lot of time reading the stories, looking at the amatuer photos, out of sheer boredom in my life, and my own compulsiveness to play when I should be working. I am a married business owner who has become addicted to my computer, and my wife is a great woman who tries to understand when I stay late working so many nights. I don't have any love affair going with anybody on the web or anywhere else, but I can't come into the office without checking the boards. sometimes, they are so intriguing, I leave the work on the desk and "correspond" for long periods of time. This is not good for business, but it seems like it's gotta be good for something.

Ahh, the chatrooms. Log in as Fred Flintstone and ramble endlessly about things you can't talk about in real life. I found this to be interesting and stimulating. No, I never got off right here in front of my computer, but I did get very horny at times. It seems the females get all the action in chatrooms, so logging in as one and describing things the way I would like to "hear" it was just as interesting. I'm sure some guys got off, don't think about it much, I just have a strong need to express myself, and this was entertaining for a while. This is probably weird to some people, but I can't be the only male that has done this.

Unlike a chatroom, this BB has postings by interesting people. After playing this masquerade for a while and reading a lot of posts, I've come to realise that a lot of board members here are refreshigly unguarded. Some of them have websites, pictures, tell where they live, what they do, it's like a community of free-spirited people. This seemed odd to me at first, and now I'm becoming comfortable with it. I haven't been around very long, I'm not a Guru yet, but I've been here a while posting under a registered name, and for now I feel better telling these secret things through an unregistered identity. This may seem like a chicken-shit cop-out to some, but I've said things here that I wouldn't say anywhere else, and as time goes on, my registered identity will open up as I feel more comfortable and more accepted. As for now, you asked a very personal question and I gave you a very truthful answer.

Oh yeah, my wife and I have fantastic sex, not as often as I would like, but I think I'm hornier than most.

I really need to get some work done around here.

 

[Cheri]

Sparkman, aren't you just full of questions! As for moi, no I usually don't get off, but that is a personal preference. I love working myself in to a absolute sexual frenzy by chatting (icq usually) and then logging off to finish business. Only visited the chat room on here once and was more shy than I am here. Maybe in the future...

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Double Wow!

Thanks Fred and Cheri. It takes courage, even it you can't be ID'd to relate some of these things. And really I don't mean to ask hard questions for any perverted purposes - it's simply the reporter in me.

C'mon others be brave - I had a hunch about fellows like Fred, pretending to be females - any horny guy would think of that. I of course wonder about adult men pretending to be young girls. A little out there for sure.

What about young girls though, pretending to be older men? It must happen. What about guys like me? Hell in real life I could be a priest. Sparky could be my made up character. As could any of our web personas.

Very interesting, very strange, very real, very unreal. Ya never know.

 

[teresafannin]

When I first got on-line, I got way addicted to a few chat rooms. Never did much of the cyber stuff, but got lots of good ideas to use on my sweetie. Would get all hot & bothered on-line, then go practice on him. I need a real life partner, but love to talk to others & if they get off, that is fine. This is about the only board I come to anymore, other than some hobby boards that are nonsexual. I was very careful when I first got online & continue to use a different name when I am on the boards. Being cautious, I use a hotmail or literotica email rather than my regular one. I have a few ways to find out if someone is pretending to be who or what they aren't. It is very difficult for most guys to pretend to be a woman for very long, there are just some things only a woman can answer. Same with kids, they tend to be over-eager & usually ask obviously juvenile questions. There are things you can pick up on to have a good idea who you are talking to.

 

[Melody_lane]

And, I've tried phone sex before and even though it worked, I was less than thrilled.

Well, you just aren't doing it with the right girl, apparently!

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

Hey Sparky!

You're definitely welcome!

As for turning you on to my guy for your wife...
I'll ask

It might be better (and more fun!), though, if you somehow managed to seduce her yourself through anonymous email or letters, etc. Try to get her to respond back... or maybe you could write one every day, like a serial "love letter" and then make all those fantasies come true on the night of your anniversary?!?

 

[Alyrahh]

Sparky-
I'll step up to the plate to answer your question honestly. There have been times during the course of conversations I've had with others online when casual sexual banter has turned a little heated. Yes, there have been times I've gotten excited, but, I'm not sure if I could actually 'get off' this way. I can't say that with certainty, as I've not exactly tried. It most definitely isn't out of the realm of possibilities though, afterall, the most intense sexual 'organ' we have is our mind.

 

[Always]

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Q: How many of us, you/me - are capable of "getting off" via this sexual medium? "That medium," I would loosely describe as "personal, interactive, sexual communications via the Internet." How many of us can cum, doing this?


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i'm not sure about the realistic aspect, but many of the stories have evoked that response... maybe a few threads on the SRP board, but other than that, nope!