permission to cum

[txwife594]

We were having sex last night and hubby told me I couldn't cum without his permission...had to beg him to orgasm...was very hot...Anyone else do this?

 

[MissJW]

Anyone else do this?

We do. My husband never ejaculates without permission, not even when he's away and masturbating. Prostate orgasms are generally allowed, unless I specifically deny them. Though of course he must always tell me if he's about to fiddle with his arse. This is to make sure I know if it's getting too frequent and therefore needs to be denied. This has been our protocol almost from the start, began it about 4-5 months into our relationship.

 

[lydia_kitty]

That is super hot! We play like that from time to time. Where he's teasing & denying me until I beg... yum!

 

[irishblade]

We do. My husband never ejaculates without permission, not even when he's away and masturbating. Prostate orgasms are generally allowed, unless I specifically deny them. Though of course he must always tell me if he's about to fiddle with his arse. This is to make sure I know if it's getting too frequent and therefore needs to be denied. This has been our protocol almost from the start, began it about 4-5 months into our relationship.

This is what I hope to have someday in a relationship.

 

[bill3901]

its so much fun and for me its equally hot to be in both positions. The one begging to cum or the one controlling...

 

[Freya_Gin]

It's a pretty popular practice in BDSM circles. I didn't like it at all when I was a sub (I preferred the style where my master let me cum freely, often grunting something like, "Yeah, I know you like it, slut") but I must admit that I sometimes enjoy making my sub beg for permission to cum. In most cases with a male sub, however, I'm just telling him to wait a minute for me have another orgasm. Of course, it's really the same thing-- he doesn't cum until he has permission. I still enjoy the control I have over him.

And that's the pleasure with denying a female sub permission to cum, the control I have over her. Sure, there's an element of sadism mixed in there too, enjoying her desperate need to cum which I cruelly deny her.... okay, there's a lot of sadism mixed in there. Regardless, it's fun.

 

[live4thebj]

We were having sex last night and hubby told me I couldn't cum without his permission...had to beg him to orgasm...was very hot...Anyone else do this?

All the time with my exwife to the point I had her hips gyrating and she was humping the air pleading for me to let her cum. She is how I got so good at oral.

 

[Okletsgo]

Begging

I love to do this. It can be frustrating to be toyed with that way but worthwhile.
And of course at times I do mess up lol but that's a whole other thread.

 

[cpl_awsum_01]

yes absolutely do this!

 

[sidonie45]

Yes. At times.
It's hot, it's fun, and it's not my husband that does this to me

 

[MissJW]

In most cases with a male sub, however, I'm just telling him to wait a minute for me have another orgasm. Of course, it's really the same thing-- he doesn't cum until he has permission.

This is how we started out! It was our first time together (our first anything together) and he was polite enough to tell me he was getting close. I immediately told him I needed a bit more time, didn't tell him to slow down and yet he did it straight away. We kept going in a different pace, he applied more pressure on my clit (all on his own, what a cool dude!) and eventually I got off, which he very well noticed and yet kept going.

After a while I asked if he was still close and the lovely being against my skin gasped "I'm there any second if that's ok?". At that point I squeezed him with every possible muscle between my legs and he shoot his load while breathing and all sounds got stuck in his throat. It's a cliché but at that point I knew he really was the one

 

[kingkoll]

i enjoy playing with a woman and not letting her cum until i allow her too

 

[mbrownp1]

We were having sex last night and hubby told me I couldn't cum without his permission...had to beg him to orgasm...was very hot...Anyone else do this?

So funny to see this now. I just started doing this to my wife over the last couple of weeks. Love it!

 

[slayergirl69]

This is how we started out! It was our first time together (our first anything together) and he was polite enough to tell me he was getting close. I immediately told him I needed a bit more time, didn't tell him to slow down and yet he did it straight away. We kept going in a different pace, he applied more pressure on my clit (all on his own, what a cool dude!) and eventually I got off, which he very well noticed and yet kept going.

After a while I asked if he was still close and the lovely being against my skin gasped "I'm there any second if that's ok?". At that point I squeezed him with every possible muscle between my legs and he shoot his load while breathing and all sounds got stuck in his throat. It's a cliché but at that point I knew he really was the one

Thats really beautiful! <3 Also really hot! lol

 

[sidonie45]

This is how we started out! It was our first time together (our first anything together) and he was polite enough to tell me he was getting close. I immediately told him I needed a bit more time, didn't tell him to slow down and yet he did it straight away. We kept going in a different pace, he applied more pressure on my clit (all on his own, what a cool dude!) and eventually I got off, which he very well noticed and yet kept going.

After a while I asked if he was still close and the lovely being against my skin gasped "I'm there any second if that's ok?". At that point I squeezed him with every possible muscle between my legs and he shoot his load while breathing and all sounds got stuck in his throat. It's a cliché but at that point I knew he really was the one

Truly lovely to read MissJW. He is a keeper for sure.

 

[live4thebj]

You know this would make a great theme for a website. It would be nothing but videos of woman and men being repeatedly on the brink of orgasm. My method is oral and certain ones with a Hitachi Magic Wand.

But the amount of work, and money this would take to make happen I don't have plus my fiance would not go for it. She would think I probably fuck the actresses; she is probably right. I would have to show the male actor how it's done of course.

 

[MissJW]

Thats really beautiful! <3 Also really hot! lol

Truly lovely to read MissJW. He is a keeper for sure.

Awww thanks you two! It was beautiful indeed and convinced me then and there that he's got quality! He had never experienced anything D/s wise, but his submissive tendencies were still deeply ingrained. He had always been a bit of a pervert though and knowing that assured me to push forward with that dom/sub thing. And as you can imagine, he catched the bait immediately!

 

[nevergetenough]

enjoy both sides

I enjoy making a woman beg to cum when i am controlling her but i also enjoy the opposite and begging to cum and sometimes even denied.

 

[Deacon13]

I love hearing a girl moan and beg for release. I've brought her to the edge multiple times before finally allowing her to cum for me.
Sometimes it's hours apart - from beginning to end.

I've had her go to work with no panties and her plug. I would have her go the restroom and bring herself to the brink several times during the day.

 

[nevergetenough]

begging

Its one of those days where i want to be begging all day to cum...but told i have to wait.

Edging is sometimes just too much fun!

 

[MatthewVett]

I find it extremely erotic. Although with my ex, I preferred making her cum when she wasn't ready yet, like in public and such... She orgasmed too easily for me to really stop her from cumming. But with other partners, I like denying them a bit, teasing them, letting the pressure and the anticipation build.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Love this thread. Wife isn't into this though we experiment with it at times, denying her orgasm until much more extended teasing. I would love to be controlled in this way too.