Permission granted - But, what now?

[midlifecrisispanties]

"I love you very much. And I know you love me and are devoted to my needs. But we both know that because of my health issues, I can't give you everything you need. I want you to be satisfied and have your needs met as a male and as a submissive. I'm giving you my full consent and permission to find playmates outside our home. Be discreet and follow agreed protocols, but go find a partner who can give you what you need."

Source: A difficult talk from my wife/Mistress.

I need someone who understands and can accept this, to guide me as to where to go next.

 

[lonely_niceboy]

I'm sorry things got to this point regarding your wife's health. It must be very tough.

Just a word of advice: One thing that you need to be very sure of before proceeding and finding a new play partner-- she may have just told you what you wanted to hear, or maybe she genuinely believes that what she is doing is what is right or what is best. However, before you do anything be very sure that she is not the type of person that will say "yes go do it" and then be silently destroyed on the inside if you go ahead and act on what she told you to do. I know it sounds silly, irrational, and complex but people often are very complicated, and emotions are not rational and when it comes to things like this emotions can tend to change at the drop of a dime.

Obviously, you know your wife a while lot better than me. Only you can decide whether what i'm telling you is good advice or not. My heart is in the right place.

Best wishes to you and hoping the health situation with your wife gets better.

 

[midlifecrisispanties]

I understand your cautionary advice. She and I began as Dom and sub 20 years ago. I was originally the dominant. Our arrangement evolved to my submission to her. She has done what she can to take the dominant role. She fully understands my needs. Her body just doesn't react to it all like it once did. I see to every other need she has and she knows I'm devoted to her. She just wants me to exercise my other needs so that I am not tense and irritable. She truly believes I need an outlet.

 

[Starlightblue]

Oh my God that is so sad...

I'm sorry! I hope you find what you are looking for.

Best of luck

 

[sherbetburps]

That’s so rough, man. I happen across posts from a lot of lovely dominant ladies on here, so I wish you all the best in finding what you’re looking for, and I hope your wife’s health improves!