My impression is that the composition of Litsters has changed since I began posting here about a year ago. When I came here, I was disappointed as well, but at least some of the women here were facing the same predicament I am in: they did not receive enough erotic affection from their partners, and did not experience enough erotic intimacy as a result.
And they saw – like I do – a way out of this situation by establishing a substitute relationship by mail with a fellow Litster. With the intention of living out with him virtually, what was not available at home. And when such an intimate virtual relationship worked out really well, it even brought along – at least for a while – the feelings we missed most in our primary relationships; being liked, being wanted, being appreciated. Erotically for the most part, but appreciated regarding other aspects of life as well, in some cases.
It seems to me that women like this have stopped reading personal ads here from men like me. (for reference later, I will refer to them as "serious women")
Seemingly all the "female" ads I read nowadays have either been written by women like Emma, who seeks participants for incestuous role plays, or by women trying to show off in one way or other. Or by (young) women, who call themselves subs, who seek "daddies" to play with.
So maybe the serious women have all been scared off by today's "female" ads? Or maybe there never were that many serious women around here in the first place, and all of them have found their mail partner by now?
In case YOU should feel that your inner self agrees with my definition of a serious woman, I ask you to consider sending me a PM, so we can get to know one another a bit better. You and I may not get along all that well for other reasons, but at least we agree on our intentions.
And who knows, perhaps we will even get along, and more. I am a complex man, somewhat difficult, certainly not a lemming, nor intent on political correctness, but all in all a man one can live with. Because tolerance is high on my list of values, and fairness, and humanity and civility. Also I can write in complete sentences, and I have been inside a few universities in my life.
I admit there is a bunch of women here on Lit, who disagree with my own assessment, and who claim I am a monster. Without any justification, I say. But if one of them should discover this new post of mine, they are bound to hijack this thread, like that happened to me before, and spread their lies about me. In that case you have only one choice: either you believe me or you fall for their heckling.
And they saw – like I do – a way out of this situation by establishing a substitute relationship by mail with a fellow Litster. With the intention of living out with him virtually, what was not available at home. And when such an intimate virtual relationship worked out really well, it even brought along – at least for a while – the feelings we missed most in our primary relationships; being liked, being wanted, being appreciated. Erotically for the most part, but appreciated regarding other aspects of life as well, in some cases.
It seems to me that women like this have stopped reading personal ads here from men like me. (for reference later, I will refer to them as "serious women")
Seemingly all the "female" ads I read nowadays have either been written by women like Emma, who seeks participants for incestuous role plays, or by women trying to show off in one way or other. Or by (young) women, who call themselves subs, who seek "daddies" to play with.
So maybe the serious women have all been scared off by today's "female" ads? Or maybe there never were that many serious women around here in the first place, and all of them have found their mail partner by now?
In case YOU should feel that your inner self agrees with my definition of a serious woman, I ask you to consider sending me a PM, so we can get to know one another a bit better. You and I may not get along all that well for other reasons, but at least we agree on our intentions.
And who knows, perhaps we will even get along, and more. I am a complex man, somewhat difficult, certainly not a lemming, nor intent on political correctness, but all in all a man one can live with. Because tolerance is high on my list of values, and fairness, and humanity and civility. Also I can write in complete sentences, and I have been inside a few universities in my life.
I admit there is a bunch of women here on Lit, who disagree with my own assessment, and who claim I am a monster. Without any justification, I say. But if one of them should discover this new post of mine, they are bound to hijack this thread, like that happened to me before, and spread their lies about me. In that case you have only one choice: either you believe me or you fall for their heckling.
