Perfect Apartment

Shadowsdream

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Lets pretend Y/you are going to rent an apartment..now be realistic!
What would be the *gotta haves?*
Remember it will be used for BDSM play and entertaining....
Anyone care to fantasize within reason?
 
Shadowsdream said:
Lets pretend Y/you are going to rent an apartment..now be realistic!
What would be the *gotta haves?*
Remember it will be used for BDSM play and entertaining....
Anyone care to fantasize within reason?

If it were to have BDSM type play i would hope for a centrally located bedroom within which to play because the loudness might seep through to the next apartment if not ......also it would have to have strong supports and beams if possible so one might be able to tie or bolt to without tearing up the ceiling to get to the support structure........and wall to wall carpeting with padding for my knees :)
 
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dragonlace said:
If it were to have BDSM type play i would hope for a centrally located bedroom within which to play because the loudness might seep through to the next apartment if not ......also it would have to have strong supports and beams if possible so one might be able to tie or bolt to without tearing up the ceiling to get to the support structure........and wall to wall carpeting with padding for my knees :)

Thank you dragonlace...Those are very good things to think about...I had not thought about centrally locating the bedroom but can see definate reasons why it would be beneficial...a nice secure cupboard big enough to make a cage could also be something to think about!
 
Johnny Mayberry said:
The #1 thing I can think of is understanding neighbors...;)

I thought you was gonna say: A nice big refrigerator filled with BEER! :D
 
You need a shower with a massage option. Also, if its furnished, make sure that the bed is a four-poster.
 
Shadowsdream said:
Good point Johnny..it would be ideal to have kink friendly neighbours...

If they are really friendly you should consider a doorway to the adjacent apartment ;)
 
A lovely large bathroom with special amenities such as:

large shower separate from tub (so that there is room for the sub to take care of showering Sir properly)

extra deep/large tub (for those times when Sir wishes to soak or when sub needs a soak herself ;), or they wish to share.

double sinks, plenty of room for all the various accoutrements of both Sir and sub

separate commode room


I LOVE MY BATHROOM!!!! :D

~anelize







'course, we don't know how the neighbors are gonna feel yet....*snicker*
 
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A great big urban loft.

Beams are a plus, but if I don't have them at least there's room for free-standing furniture.

Either that or a place that's decorated like a 30's shanghai cathouse, lots of mirrors and vanities for the little girlymen.
 
apartment to small

would not consider an apartment. one warehouse in warehouse district. one welder and lots of iron to work with. yes it would have bathroom and all other amenities. just do not forget the iron, lots of iron.



just a side note, given if you live in an apartment. we would not have open or closed play parties where we live.
 
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Shadowsdream said:
Thank you dragonlace...Those are very good things to think about...I had not thought about centrally locating the bedroom but can see definate reasons why it would be beneficial...a nice secure cupboard big enough to make a cage could also be something to think about!

Not to be a party pooper but bedrooms almost ALWAYS have to have a window for emergency egress in case of a night time fire. However ... a nice interior "office" would work.

I love the urban loft idea.

Lately I've been thinking about what sort of project to choose for my thesis (will be entering my last year of architecture schooling very soon). Wouldn't it be a blast if I asked my advisor if I could do a residence for a bdsm couple. I wonder how the faculty would take to that idea (being mostly middle aged men located in the midwest). I'd be tempted to have a very open structure with columns and beams exposed :)
 
I would rather rent a house out in the country. It would be surrounded by trees and have a fenced in back yard. We'd have a hot tub outside. In this situation, we wouldn't have to worry about noise or nosy neighbors. We could also have the freedom to take our play parties outside when the weather is suitable (which is most of the year where we live).
 
Though there is something sexy about an apartment with a wonderful balcony... in some way shielded so that no one would see (at first glance) the slave tied to the banister butt naked while her master had a lovely breakfast and read the newspaper. Imagine her distress. Poor thing
 
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SkylineBlue said:
Not to be a party pooper but bedrooms almost ALWAYS have to have a window for emergency egress in case of a night time fire. However ... a nice interior "office" would work.

I love the urban loft idea.

Lately I've been thinking about what sort of project to choose for my thesis (will be entering my last year of architecture schooling very soon). Wouldn't it be a blast if I asked my advisor if I could do a residence for a bdsm couple. I wonder how the faculty would take to that idea (being mostly middle aged men located in the midwest). I'd be tempted to have a very open structure with columns and beams exposed :)

Sounds good... you might be suprised about the profs, i know there are a few here that i wonder about at times ;) now, just make sure you address the lighting, both passive and active!

picture this: A shaft of light penetrates into a darkened interior loft office from above, spotlighting a St. Andrew's cross with shackles glinting in the light as the slave attached to them watches Master eating breakfast down below...
 
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imagine a large minimalist bathroom, tiled ... with a sunken tub and a recliner nearby. this way shadowsdream's sub could wash her back and then she could recline on her couch in a nice warm robe while he brushed and dried her hair, massaged her feet and polished her toe nails. similarly one corner would have a place where she could tie her naught little man's arms above his head while she scrubbed him down. movable shower heads.

i think a trip to a korea to visit a public bath house a steal ideas is in order!
 
AnelizeDarkEyes said:
A lovely large bathroom with special amenities such as:

large shower separate from tub (so that there is room for the sub to take care of showering Sir properly)

extra deep/large tub (for those times when Sir wishes to soak or when sub needs a soak herself ;), or they wish to share.

double sinks, plenty of room for all the various accoutrements of both Sir and sub

separate commode room


I LOVE MY BATHROOM!!!! :D

~anelize
Is your apartment for rent ~~grin~~







'course, we don't know how the neighbors are gonna feel yet....*snicker*
 
thegreenfairy said:
You need a shower with a massage option. Also, if its furnished, make sure that the bed is a four-poster.

Wouldn't it be nice if there were four poster showers?
 
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