People that will hinder your experience during RP in order to satisfy their urges really get to me.

[ManicPixieMiss]

For instance, I am really into sensory stimulation, which contributes to my kink for pantyhose, spandex and other thin, soft stretchy fabrics and I really enjoy feeling a man or woman rubbing me or grinding into me while I have them on. Yet, so many people (mostly guys) will say things like "I'm gonna tear a hole in those spandex shorts if I have to just to bury my cock in you hot, sweet pussy," and I'm like "I just told you that ruining my clothes kills it for me, and still you persist." How about I respect yours and you respect mine and we have a happy medium? OH! Ugh, when people try to get super dominant when I made it clear I am not naturally submissive and only will be by choice. Anyone else had/have these experiences before?