Peeing in my gf?...

[cebalrai]

Okay here's something for ya...

My girlfriend is a fantastic woman... We have a great sex life and have sex probably about 8-10 times per week. Here's the thing though... she gets wet easily enough, but sometimes after we're having sex for a while, she tends to get a little dry, and that's not good for anyone. One time when she started to get dry, so we paused for a minute and kissed passionately while I passed a little bit of urine into her vagina without telling her. She thought that her wetness had just returned (from the kissing I guess) so we resumed and everything was great. Since then I have peed in her a few dozen times without her knowing. She just thinks she's getting super wet!

I dont like keeping things from her though but I'm afraid she might get upset if I tell her.

Yeah we could just use lube (we have some) but the thing is, it's REALLY turning me on to do this...

Advice?

 

[cebalrai]

Also, we both agree that the texture lube gives us isn't the best.

 

[sheath]

Yeah we could just use lube (we have some) but the thing is, it's REALLY turning me on to do this...

Advice?

I would ask you...does it turn you on to actually DO this, or is it the fact that you are doing something to her that she doesn't know about or consent to?

Doing something so personal to someone without their knowledge is crossing a major line, in my book. Sex is about sharing. Keeping something from her like that is just as bad as faking an orgasm...and yes, when she does find out (and eventually she will figure it out without your help), she is probably going to be angry and upset.

If you don't want to be honest with her (and yes, lying by omission IS dishonest!), then I guess the best move would be to ask her how she feels about watersports. Explore that side of sexuality and see what she does.

If she doesn't like it, if she thinks it is anything BUT good, then the advice is simple. Just stop it. Completely.

S.

 

[cebalrai]

Yes, we do enjoy some light watersports. It has mostly been her thats into this and apparently she has done these sorts of things with past bfs.

I enjoy it as well I admit, even though it's new to me. I enjoy the taboo-ness of it... Its a big rush I guess. I'm not into non-consentual things.

 

[sheath]

Yes, we do enjoy some light watersports. It has mostly been her thats into this and apparently she has done these sorts of things with past bfs.

I enjoy it as well I admit, even though it's new to me. I enjoy the taboo-ness of it... Its a big rush I guess. I'm not into non-consentual things.

Okay. In that case? Why don't you try telling her you would like to do it, and see what happens from there. Present it while you are having sex, if you want...if you are both into watersports already, making that step to letting go 'in' her instead of 'on' her can be broached while in the act, I would think. She might go nuts for it and beg you.

S.

 

[tisluvbull]

I think she needs to know. It is best to be honest about that sort of thing. Would you want to know if she was faking orgasms for the past 4 months ?

 

[asiasiren]

I think she needs to know. It is best to be honest about that sort of thing. Would you want to know if she was faking orgasms for the past 4 months ?

She probably was so he would quite peeing in her.

C'mon. Tell her. Not only are you keeping from her that you are possibly subjecting her to harmful bacteria, it is just wrong.

If you don't tell her something like this is taking place then you are low. When you do tell her don't be surprised if she takes it very personally.

Some things are just stupid and this is one of them.

 

[Machiavellian]

~ lol@ the 4 month of faking comment.. ~

And in truth - how hygenic would that be - I mean as a kid we were always told to wipe from front to back - and keep clean - by peeing in here - can she get infections?

Forgive me - I know not of these things... yet to explore that aspect of my sexual relationship.

 

[PrincessHoney]

you could always tell her that ou leaked accidently one time .... that would broach the subject.

u could suggest she pee's a little to get wet too

 

[leflo]

Hi!
Hmm my first post outside the pic board
First some material to read (it's really good...), also for the ones worrying about infections: Watersports Training Manual
Then, to my answer: I really think you should tell her... if she doesn't like it, she will be very upset to find it out on her own some time, but perhaps you're keeping her from experiencing more watersports play she'd love to try, but hasn't asked you about yet... If you want to get some inspiration, there's a great thread over here: "Peeing..."
Another forum that's a bit more quiet than here is Sprinklesgold.
May you two have much more fun with the great field of watersports
Love, Flo

 

[WhisperHaven]

~ lol@ the 4 month of faking comment.. ~

And in truth - how hygenic would that be - I mean as a kid we were always told to wipe from front to back - and keep clean - by peeing in here - can she get infections?

Forgive me - I know not of these things... yet to explore that aspect of my sexual relationship.

Urine is sterile as it comes out of the body. Actually, it's a very good antiseptic if you are out in the woods and manage to get a bee sting or similar insect bite.

We are told to wipe front to back to avoid getting fecal material in our urethras and vaginas and cause a nasty infection.

 

[PhoenixPrime01]

Urine has been used to wash wounds since at least the Civil War that I know of because, as WhisperHaven has said it's sterile when it leaves the body.
The only reason it has any odor is bacteria breaking it down producing the ammonia smell.
If one drinks a lot of fluid it's clear, some juices and such can even effect it's flavor, and there's no odor at all nor any taste to speak of.

Tell her and then both of you enjoy yourselves as it's just one more fluid exchange to share intimately.

*s
PP

 

[Woodmiester]

To each their own but damn. What's next, waiting till she has your cock buried in her mouth and unloading a nice fart?

You asked so my .02 is either tell her or stop it at once. Far as I see it what your doing fringes on the same thing they call gross sexual imposition. This about it like this. Next week after 5 days of eating her pussy she let's you know that extra wasn't her cum but a slight yeast infection, now how would you take that?

 

[asiasiren]

Urine has been used to wash wounds since at least the Civil War that I know of because, as WhisperHaven has said it's sterile when it leaves the body.
The only reason it has any odor is bacteria breaking it down producing the ammonia smell.
If one drinks a lot of fluid it's clear, some juices and such can even effect it's flavor, and there's no odor at all nor any taste to speak of.

Tell her and then both of you enjoy yourselves as it's just one more fluid exchange to share intimately.

*s
PP

First you say it has an odor and then you say it doesn't. We all know it does. Sometimes stronger then other times. No big deal.

Yes you are correct in your other observations and WisperHaven is correct when they said that it was sterile when it leaves the body. One can drink another persons urine to stay alive. One can not drink their own urine though.

Now, urinating inside a vagina isn't just depositing a little fluid. The problem is what the fluid is doing. While it may not be causing an infection from bacteria in the urine, it can effect the acidity of the vaginal linning. This leaves a female open for all kinds of nasties. Please don't tell me that the outside of a penis or the fingers that are touching a woman are sterile. We all know better then that. If the vaginal defense from bacteria is changed then the woman is in danger of picking something up from other contact where she would have been able to fight it off previously. The same applies if a woman douches too often.

The main issue here is not what he is doing (even though I disagree with it but to each their own) it is the fact that he is hiding it from her. I do not think he has that right when it comes to using another's body as a urinal.

 

[Angel]

First you say it has an odor and then you say it doesn't. We all know it does. Sometimes stronger then other times. No big deal.

Um, actually he said the reason why urine typically has an odor.

Then he went on to say that drinking a lot of fluids/drinking certain fluids can alter and/or remove the odor. (and flavor)

 

[asiasiren]

Hi Angel,

I guess he just forgot to use the word "remove"

If he meant it removes it, I appologize. I just am not reading what you are reading I guess.

 

[PhoenixPrime01]

Thank you Angel for that's what I thought all would understand from this sentence:

"If one drinks a lot of fluid it's clear, some juices and such can even effect it's flavor, and there's no odor at all nor any taste to speak of." Naturally the "it" begin urine. (Italics added for clearification. *s)

I do agree with all, as I alluded to but will now clearly state to avoid confusion *s*, you need to tell your g/f or stop what you're doing.

It is a deceit and breach of trust. Nothing should be done by either of you that would break the bond of trust so all important in any relationship. Consensual is a key factor in that trust.

It also as asiasiren, so accurately pointed out, possible to leave her vagaina without its normal defenses if you do it to much or to often.

I hope that clears up what I was trying to say as well as my stance on the basic question of should you or shouldn't you tell her.

As an aside my slaves and I participate in "watersports", to use the term most used, and we enjoy it. As I said in my first post it's just another intimate fluid exchange between loving consenting adults with similar kinks.

 

[Meat Whistler]

Urine has been used to wash wounds since at least the Civil War that I know of because, as WhisperHaven has said it's sterile when it leaves the body.
The only reason it has any odor is bacteria breaking it down producing the ammonia smell.
If one drinks a lot of fluid it's clear, some juices and such can even effect it's flavor, and there's no odor at all nor any taste to speak of.

Tell her and then both of you enjoy yourselves as it's just one more fluid exchange to share intimately.

*s
PP

Well said; I agree. Just be honest with her and be prepared with knowing some of the facts on urine.

 

[PhoenixPrime01]

S* Thank you IG.
PP

 

[peachykeen]

Can someone please explain to me how it can be both sterile and contain bacteria? I really do not see how, by definition of both 'sterile' and 'bacteria', this can be possible.

 

[P. B. Walker]

How exactly do you just let a "little urine" go inside of her... and with a hard-on to boot?

For most men, it's very hard to take a piss with a full blown erection. And it's not easy to just let out a little piss, it really hurts when you cut it off midstream. And wouldn't that leave you with a "wanting to piss" feeling for the rest of the sex session?


I'm sorry, but as a guy, I gotta question this whole thread.

 

[Meat Whistler]

Can someone please explain to me how it can be both sterile and contain bacteria? I really do not see how, by definition of both 'sterile' and 'bacteria', this can be possible.

Urine is sterile when it leaves the body. And, although it is considered "waste", it is only considered waste because the body has excreted it. Once urine leaves the body, it begins to grow bacteria. Urine is not harmful to the body in any way, unless you are using stale urine, that is, non-fresh urine.

Urine Therapy is something that's been used for centuries in Ancient Medicine. Millions of Chinese still drink their own urine because of the medicinal value it provides.

As far as urine and watersports? It's completely safe. One can't even pass disease through urine play.

 

[watergirl]

I agree with PB

Guys I have known (intimately) have told me that you can't really take a piss very easily with a hard on. And sometimes after sex, I'll get up & pee, and then th'boy will decide it's a great idea, he should too... and even in the aftermath, sometimes he's laughingly told me, "Aughh - I just can't yet - damn you, woman!"

So, I'm with PB - how is that even possible to do during sex?

Eww. I think Sheath said it best - suggest the idea, if she says NO, you quit it.

 

[PhoenixPrime01]

I can only speak for myself, but I've found that after I've finished cumming I can pee while still hard enough to be inside a woman.

I haven't found it hurt to clench and stop the urine flow, although it is difficult at times *s* and not particularly comfortable to do.

And once again, if it's (anything) isn't consensual it shouldn't be done.