Passionate Playtime!

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

How do you enjoy playing with your partner? I enjoy using toys that bring us both pleasure together!
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[TempSpawn]

Mutual pleasure is the way to do it.

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Mutual pleasure is the way to do it.

Erotic and oh so, naughty !!

 

[falkor207]

Exposing your deepest self to another is the largest gesture of trust and is to be treasured

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Connecting and opening up to each other!!

Exposing your deepest self to another is the largest gesture of trust and is to be treasured

 

[TempSpawn]

Connecting and opening up to each other!!

Mmmmm.. must be the way my mind works, but that sounds a whole world of fun.

 

[haventdonethat]

How do you enjoy playing with your partner? I enjoy using toys that bring us both pleasure together!
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We also use toys. And my fingers. Together. She says they are her best orgasms.
Her fave toy is the same as yours.

 

[Wildfly11]

How do you enjoy playing with your partner? I enjoy using toys that bring us both pleasure together!
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Depends on the mood..sometimes no toys..sometimes toys are the focus. Either way always fun!!

 

[Sweet_n_SpicySprite]

Mmmmm.. must be the way my mind works, but that sounds a whole world of fun.

Connection cums in so many different formats!!

 

[Wildfly11]

Connection cums in so many different formats!!

It is the spice of life....

 

[womaneater58]

Oral works for us.

 

[hanban24]

A couple years ago I dated a guy and we decided to see how long we could go teasing each other. The one rule was you can look but cannot touch.

We would masturbate in front of each other, walk around nude in front of each other, talk dirty to each other. We made it about a week and a half and finally had sex. Ranks up there with some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

 

[Bbl87]

We use toys a good bit of the time. Not every time, but often!

The last time, after she got me off with oral I blindfolded her and surprised her with a new toy I'd bought (a dildo, she's never used one ). She used that and a vibrator on herself while I worshipped her breasts. No joke, hardest orgasm I've seen from her, ever.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

There is no one best way. Variety is required!

I am thinking of this strictly in terms of foreplay and touching, not actual sex. That is an entirely different discussion.

So with just touching.....

Sometimes it's ALL about her. Where I will spend hours touching her in ways that makes her unable to stand afterwards. Where my hands and tounge explore her body softly and slowly with no rush to finish anything.

Sometimes I like to be the one getting explored and have it all about me but not usually. I don't sit still well and my hands just hand a damn mind if their own. I want to be active.

Other times it's all about mutual pleasure where we are touching each other simultaneously. A great game is to see who can hold out the longest before cumming. It's easy to hold back and edge when you are focused on yourself. It's a lot harder to do it when you are also trying to focus on her body and getting her off. So that's a fun way to mix things up.

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

A couple years ago I dated a guy and we decided to see how long we could go teasing each other. The one rule was you can look but cannot touch.

We would masturbate in front of each other, walk around nude in front of each other, talk dirty to each other. We made it about a week and a half and finally had sex. Ranks up there with some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

Excuse me while I bring out my bucket list and add a line.....

 

[ctarrantella]

A couple years ago I dated a guy and we decided to see how long we could go teasing each other. The one rule was you can look but cannot touch.

We would masturbate in front of each other, walk around nude in front of each other, talk dirty to each other. We made it about a week and a half and finally had sex. Ranks up there with some of the best sex I’ve ever had.

You always have the best stories.
I’m trying to figure out how to approach this subject with my wife.

 

[EStaccato]

My husband used to send me instructions throughout the day and ask for evidence (this was before we instituted the no-nudes policy on our digital lives - we're grown-ups with high visibility jobs, now. I feel like I just told someone about this...
Anyway...) He would plant sexy things around the house (if I was at home that day) or in my work bag (yikes!), toys, my butt plug, clothes, or just notes with instructions. At various points, he would tell me where to find the next element and what to do. Put something on... take something off... make myself wet... And I'd text photos or it didn't happen. Most evenings, the minute we got home together, we usually skipped dinner for a style of sex that I would describe as 'vibrant'.

We did this once a month for almost a year when we were first married. I always wanted him to ask a friend to come over, tie me up, and leave me on the bed for him to find... We can dream...

 

[ctarrantella]

My husband used to send me instructions throughout the day and ask for evidence (this was before we instituted the no-nudes policy on our digital lives - we're grown-ups with high visibility jobs, now. I feel like I just told someone about this...
Anyway...) He would plant sexy things around the house (if I was at home that day) or in my work bag (yikes!), toys, my butt plug, clothes, or just notes with instructions. At various points, he would tell me where to find the next element and what to do. Put something on... take something off... make myself wet... And I'd text photos or it didn't happen. Most evenings, the minute we got home together, we usually skipped dinner for a style of sex that I would describe as 'vibrant'.

We did this once a month for almost a year when we were first married. I always wanted him to ask a friend to come over, tie me up, and leave me on the bed for him to find... We can dream...

You are another one with great posts and stories.