Parting Gifts

Blushing Bottom said:
...and boobie prizes.

:rose:

Mmmmmmm. (back)door and boobie prizes. Luckily, there will be enough to go around for everyone. You are so generous. :rose: :devil: :D
 
Life has a funny way of presenting itself.

I was if you read my posts at all, given the time of my life with the first man I ever submitted to. All just before he cut me loose. The expression of my desires were no less than fantasy come full circle. And then yanked out from under me in one quick gesture.

A rather unpleasant parting gift.

One would suppose it had to happen at some point. The disappointment of rejection a harsh pill to swallow.

Ah well...onward.

:rose: :rose: :rose:
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Life has a funny way of presenting itself.

I was if you read my posts at all, given the time of my life with the first man I ever submitted to. All just before he cut me loose. The expression of my desires were no less than fantasy come full circle. And then yanked out from under me in one quick gesture.

A rather unpleasant parting gift.

One would suppose it had to happen at some point. The disappointment of rejection a harsh pill to swallow.

Ah well...onward.

:rose: :rose: :rose:

I know how that can feel. I am so sorry. :rose: :kiss:
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Life has a funny way of presenting itself.

I was if you read my posts at all, given the time of my life with the first man I ever submitted to. All just before he cut me loose. The expression of my desires were no less than fantasy come full circle. And then yanked out from under me in one quick gesture.

A rather unpleasant parting gift.

One would suppose it had to happen at some point. The disappointment of rejection a harsh pill to swallow.

Ah well...onward.

:rose: :rose: :rose:


You lost your Dom? He broke it off with you?

I'm so sorry!

*HUGS*

Fury :rose:
 
Thank-you Fury for your hugs. yes he broke it off with me...becoming "too attached" were his words. I don't know if he meant I or him.

Ah well I'll find another.

:rose:

FurryFury said:
You lost your Dom? He broke it off with you?

I'm so sorry!

*HUGS*

Fury :rose:
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Thank-you Fury for your hugs. yes he broke it off with me...becoming "too attached" were his words. I don't know if he meant I or him.

Ah well I'll find another.

:rose:

I am so sorry to hear your news BB

*hugs*

Men are gits sometimes :(
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Life has a funny way of presenting itself.

I was if you read my posts at all, given the time of my life with the first man I ever submitted to. All just before he cut me loose. The expression of my desires were no less than fantasy come full circle. And then yanked out from under me in one quick gesture.

A rather unpleasant parting gift.

One would suppose it had to happen at some point. The disappointment of rejection a harsh pill to swallow.

Ah well...onward.

:rose: :rose: :rose:


I hope you handle these things better than I
I have had to many submissives walk without an explaination
I know the last one thinks I released her
but
she just did not do assignemnts etc

I think of these things as betrayal

Is it not betrayal to walk without a just reason?
 
Richard49 said:
I hope you handle these things better than I
I have had to many submissives walk without an explaination
I know the last one thinks I released her
but
she just did not do assignemnts etc

I think of these things as betrayal

Is it not betrayal to walk without a just reason?

Without a just reason? Possibly.

Without communicating and trying to work things out? Likely.

IMO.

She didn't do the assignments??? Why not? ?

Fury :rose:
 
Richard49 said:
I hope you handle these things better than I
I have had to many submissives walk without an explaination
I know the last one thinks I released her
but
she just did not do assignemnts etc

I think of these things as betrayal

Is it not betrayal to walk without a just reason?

If you are accurate in all facts Richard I would say as she broke her contract to you in such a cavalier manner then she is really unworthy of your attention.

You mention assignments (plural) that would have been sufficient warning I would imagine that either Your assignments were unreasonable to her and a line of communication was broken where you could both negotiate how to contend with the matter OR she was never prepared to extend herself in the first place and that also could range from fraudulence to again issues with communication between you both.

Naturally life is never so simple my comments are based on Ds terms very cut and dried. Although a reason would have been due perhaps 'walking without notice ' was a gift in a sense and you have yet to rejoice in the matter.
 
Sorry about his luck I say.

Yes thank-you Richard I do handle disappointment rather well.

Being well balanced I move onward rather quickly and plot my next move.

:rose:



Richard49 said:
I hope you handle these things better than I
I have had to many submissives walk without an explaination
I know the last one thinks I released her
but
she just did not do assignemnts etc

I think of these things as betrayal

Is it not betrayal to walk without a just reason?
 
Blushing Bottom said:
Sorry about his luck I say.

Yes thank-you Richard I do handle disappointment rather well.

Being well balanced I move onward rather quickly and plot my next move.

:rose:


I have learned to not give advise unless asked for
and even than be careful
but
take some time to process before moving on

As to the assignemtns I gave her
1) to read a specfic online newspaper and let me
know her thoughts on at lest one artcile
2) to masterbate and journal me about it

as to her "excusses" they were many and none very sound

I finally released her from the assigenments and warned her I was thinking of releasing her totally ... he did not seem to phase her ... IMHO she was sensoualist
ansd preented her self as an untrained slave
 
You are kind Richard...too kind going out of your way to even consider giving advice. Which I've never minded receiving.

Because I allow myself the rare luxury of allowing ALL of my feelings to sufface, wash over and through me, I process things more quickly and thoroughly than some.

I am alpha survivor and will go on...but today I am still a toy.

:rose:



Richard49 said:
I have learned to not give advise unless asked for
and even than be careful
but
take some time to process before moving on

As to the assignemtns I gave her
1) to read a specfic online newspaper and let me
know her thoughts on at lest one artcile
2) to masterbate and journal me about it

as to her "excusses" they were many and none very sound

I finally released her from the assigenments and warned her I was thinking of releasing her totally ... he did not seem to phase her ... IMHO she was sensoualist
ansd preented her self as an untrained slave
 
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