happyguy1000
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I am curious who finds anal sex painful and who finds it pleasing?I want to hear or your experiences.
Pain or Pleasure?
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Not sure this truly belongs on the "Personals" page, but I'll answer your question.
Anal sex was very painful at first. Then I finally met a man who knew what he was doing, and he showed me how truly pleasurable it can be.
So......painful the first few times. Finally taught the right way, now completely pleasurable.
Anal sex was very painful at first. Then I finally met a man who knew what he was doing, and he showed me how truly pleasurable it can be.
So......painful the first few times. Finally taught the right way, now completely pleasurable.
WhisperingWinds
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Anal for me has been mixed. I had an extremely bad experience the first time which put me off of it for years. Since then, depending on the person's dimensions, patience, and talent at foreplay I've had it be quite pleasurable. I don't think I'll ever have it be totally comfortable every time, but I've lost my initial misgivings about it.
dirtydanny
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true
I agree
I agree
Lyria_Angel
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I found the opposite happened to me, Anal sex was very pleasurable at first, then got painful.. but now if done right is VERY nice.
happyguy1000
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If some of you don't mind could you tell me about how to make it fun for my gf. We are ready to try but want to make sure it goes welll. Thanks
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As a very active Transvestite, i often have anal sex 3 or 4 times a week, often in multiple sessions, and i LOVE IT!. The secret to pleasure (in my opinion) comes in 3 basic rules
1. You must feel totally relaxed and really want your man in there!
2. Special care must be given when applying lubricant, the anal passage is not made for penetration.
3. The man must be very considerate, especially on first entering. This can't be rushed, subsequent penetrations are usually a lot easier (during the same session).
Hope this helps....love Jackie xxx
1. You must feel totally relaxed and really want your man in there!
2. Special care must be given when applying lubricant, the anal passage is not made for penetration.
3. The man must be very considerate, especially on first entering. This can't be rushed, subsequent penetrations are usually a lot easier (during the same session).
Hope this helps....love Jackie xxx
happyguy1000
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You are a true trans. that is awesome. I would love to chat with you some time and hear more about your events. What are you like? Can't wait to hear.
happyguy1000
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Why do you think some women are not interested? Is it a fear of pain or a fear of health problems? By the way are there long-term health issues?
davekoko
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pain? Hygiene? how to... 
Anal intercourse.. should be fun, enjoyable, and highly erotic and exciting for BOTH parties. Some tips I have found...
1) For the gal.. must be in the mood.. and a partner she can trust.. trust is all important. If the first time is not successful, dont force it.. stop.. try again later.
2) Planning (by the gal especially) helps. Fiber diet. Helps to have had a complete bowel movement prior. To have an empty rectum is so helpful, almost a prerequisite. A fleets or just water enema may be needed. A lot of this.. is the gal's apprehenion that she will be "dirty" (the old saying, "Hershey's Highway" degrades both the candy and the freeways, lol) makes her afraid of anal play,.. afraid of the smell or taste of anal kissing, rimming, tongue probing. Believe me.. when the gal is adequately prepared, there is not much taste and with the juices from her pussy coating it.. it is so pleasurable.. at least for me, and for her too. This hygiene makes her more confident and thus more receptive to this highly erotic foreplay !
3) Relaxation on her part.. slow breathing. An orgasm by her via pussy kissing mayhelp. Massage.. not only her asshole (I like this better than the clinical anus, lol),but her whole backside and buttuck cheeks, backs of her thighs etc. Constant assurance, of how beautiful her ass is, how much you adore her anal pucker etc. How turned on you are.. all so helpful to give her added pleasure.! Assurance and love!
4) Lubrication.. Initially, just her pussy juices and the guy's precum (I make a lot), but the asshole is not self lubricating like the pussy is. So added lubrication.. saliva may be ok, but astroglide is my favorite.. use it.. and use lots of it. !
5) Time.. go slow. Let her adjust to your cock.. In fact, let her control everything.. the penetration, the depth. Eventually in and out.. all the way.. she will like the re-entry. She will let you know how it is going. Rubbing the clit (usually she will do it), is so helpful.. and the spasms of her asshole will give each of u pleasure !! The asshole spasms even harder than the pussy muscles. If you dont believe me, stick a finger in your (guy) asshole as u cum! Time.. so important.. slow in and outs. She will let u know when to speed up and how hard to plunge.
6) Orgasms for both.. can be all so powerful !!
7) anything that goes into the anus should not be put into vagina without a good washing first.
Anal intercourse.. should be fun, enjoyable, and highly erotic and exciting for BOTH parties. Some tips I have found...
1) For the gal.. must be in the mood.. and a partner she can trust.. trust is all important. If the first time is not successful, dont force it.. stop.. try again later.
2) Planning (by the gal especially) helps. Fiber diet. Helps to have had a complete bowel movement prior. To have an empty rectum is so helpful, almost a prerequisite. A fleets or just water enema may be needed. A lot of this.. is the gal's apprehenion that she will be "dirty" (the old saying, "Hershey's Highway" degrades both the candy and the freeways, lol) makes her afraid of anal play,.. afraid of the smell or taste of anal kissing, rimming, tongue probing. Believe me.. when the gal is adequately prepared, there is not much taste and with the juices from her pussy coating it.. it is so pleasurable.. at least for me, and for her too. This hygiene makes her more confident and thus more receptive to this highly erotic foreplay !
3) Relaxation on her part.. slow breathing. An orgasm by her via pussy kissing mayhelp. Massage.. not only her asshole (I like this better than the clinical anus, lol),but her whole backside and buttuck cheeks, backs of her thighs etc. Constant assurance, of how beautiful her ass is, how much you adore her anal pucker etc. How turned on you are.. all so helpful to give her added pleasure.! Assurance and love!
4) Lubrication.. Initially, just her pussy juices and the guy's precum (I make a lot), but the asshole is not self lubricating like the pussy is. So added lubrication.. saliva may be ok, but astroglide is my favorite.. use it.. and use lots of it. !
5) Time.. go slow. Let her adjust to your cock.. In fact, let her control everything.. the penetration, the depth. Eventually in and out.. all the way.. she will like the re-entry. She will let you know how it is going. Rubbing the clit (usually she will do it), is so helpful.. and the spasms of her asshole will give each of u pleasure !! The asshole spasms even harder than the pussy muscles. If you dont believe me, stick a finger in your (guy) asshole as u cum! Time.. so important.. slow in and outs. She will let u know when to speed up and how hard to plunge.
6) Orgasms for both.. can be all so powerful !!
7) anything that goes into the anus should not be put into vagina without a good washing first.
happyguy1000
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Wow. Thanks for all the advice. Keep it coming. I would love to hear from a lady the details about her first time. How it went and felt?
