This one's been bouncing round my brain for a while now... my fiancee and I play fairly regularly. She's a born submissive, I swear, and the more we do the more she confesses she likes.
Just recently she admitted that the idea of being punished really turns her on, but I know actual -pain- is a major turn of for her, at least in any major amount. I'm hoping to get her round to a light spanking at some point, but it's a slow process, kinking her further.
In the meantime, I'm trying to find good tasks for her to carry out, or things I could do to her as a punishment. In effect, I'm training her, and I need a stick to back up the carrot.
One thing I've had that worked wonders was getting her to pick something up of the floor while tied hand and foot. It was difficult, it was quite hot to watch, and it must have been a little humiliating too.
Any ideas, suggestions or experiences of their own, GREATLY appreciated.
Edit - I know, most of you aren't too happy suggesting punishments. And I'm not asking for a script, or anything... just approaches, means, as we are both pretty much beginners, finding things out as we go along. That, and I'm fairly stuck.
Just recently she admitted that the idea of being punished really turns her on, but I know actual -pain- is a major turn of for her, at least in any major amount. I'm hoping to get her round to a light spanking at some point, but it's a slow process, kinking her further.
In the meantime, I'm trying to find good tasks for her to carry out, or things I could do to her as a punishment. In effect, I'm training her, and I need a stick to back up the carrot.
One thing I've had that worked wonders was getting her to pick something up of the floor while tied hand and foot. It was difficult, it was quite hot to watch, and it must have been a little humiliating too.
Any ideas, suggestions or experiences of their own, GREATLY appreciated.
Edit - I know, most of you aren't too happy suggesting punishments. And I'm not asking for a script, or anything... just approaches, means, as we are both pretty much beginners, finding things out as we go along. That, and I'm fairly stuck.
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