PacificBlue's sure fire method for riding yourself of men...

[PacificBlue]

Let them see that your not thin.

Somehow the 7 lbs. I've lost in the last three weeks doesn't seem like such a big deal now.

I try really hard to remind myself of all that is good and right in my life but it never ceases to hurt to be rejected cold because of a weight issue.

Such a sweet girl...blah, blah, blah...great personality...blah, blah, blah....so cute, if only...blah, blah, blah.

 

[p_p_man]

I prefer riding women...



Quick slap on the bum and off into the sunset to the tune of The Lone Ranger!

Hi-Ho Silver awaaaayyy!!

 

[PacificBlue]

Thank you for pointing out my mis-spelling...I feel sooooooo much better now.

What would I do without the perfect people of the world??? Those who never make any mistakes. Those who always get everything right. Those who point out every fucking shortcoming I have. Gosh...I'd be nothing. Fucking nothing.

 

[p_p_man]

Oops...

Bad time eh?

Just thought it was funny is all...

 

[Calamity Jane]

Darlin... I don't know anything at all about you... but is it possible you're attempting to attract the wrong men?

None of the men in my life have issues with my size... and I don't think i'm that much of an exception.

I know that doesn't help, and I'm sorry for what you're going through. Congrats on the 7 lbs, and try not to let the shallow bastards get ya down.

 

[RhumbRunner13]

We are ALL imperfect!!!

"Thank you for pointing out my mis-spelling...I feel sooooooo much better now.

What would I do without the perfect people of the world??? Those who never make any mistakes. Those who always get everything right. Those who point out every fucking shortcoming I have. Gosh...I'd be nothing. Fucking nothing."

PP Man never gets ANYTHING right!!!!!

Shortcoming is a problem in males, only!!

Quick, PB, I think it's the little yellow pill!



Oh yeah, don't let the other bastards in the world define how you feel about yourself, ever!

RhumbRunner

 

[Marxist]

PPman that was funny. I'm glad you stepped on the landmine first though.


And PB, I don't exactly get what you're bitchin' about but come on over and have a drink and bitch on my shoulder. Scotch or wine?

Both?

Man, this is gonna be a long night...

 

[Rubyfruit]

PB, it's all in the attitude baby.

I've got a LOT of extra weight on my body, but I don't lack for suiters. Even in real life, where they can actually see all of me.

Also, as I said on Halo's thread the other day, don't let anybody talk to you like that, ok baby? You deserve so much better.

Boundries! Develop them and they will carry you through life, I mean it.

 

[Guest]

 

[p_p_man]

Big women are lovely...

as this little English ditty shows:

"She's a big lass, she's a bonny lass,
And she likes her beer
And they call her Cushey Butterfield,
And I wish she were here..."



Keep heartened PB.

 

[sch00lteacher]

Let them see that your not thin.

Excuse me for a second.


Bull Shit.

That isn't a fair statement. I have loved everything from an extremely obese woman, to a god damned skeleton with skin. I did not care for either extreme.

I like a woman with a roundness. 7 pounds ain't nothing. 70 pounds and we might have to talk.

Not all of us are assholes, and it isn't fair to say so.

 

[seXieleXie]

Boundries! Develop them and they will carry you through life, I mean it.

hmm... i've heard that somewhere before

 

[riff]

This is NO different

Than women's obsession with TALL men.

I am 5'7" and I ain't getting taller.

My sister had a roommate that I wanted to go out with. Do you know what her roommate told her?

"Too short."

The knife hissed as it pierced my skin. I got over it, and I am not sensitive about my height anymore.

I am an intelligent, capable, strong, humorous, and good-looking man at 5'7". If I were any taller, I would become a conceited asshole.

As for weight. A man likes a slender woman. This is not to say he is incapable of being attracted to or turned on by a woman of weight.

I know a girl.... oh forget it.

At least one can lose weight. Try getting taller.

 

[PacificBlue]

Re: Re: PacificBlue's sure fire method for riding yourself of men...

Excuse me for a second.

Bull Shit.

That isn't a fair statement. I have loved everything from an extremely obese woman, to a god damned skeleton with skin. I did not care for either extreme.

I like a woman with a roundness. 7 pounds ain't nothing. 70 pounds and we might have to talk.

Not all of us are assholes, and it isn't fair to say so.

I didn't say every male on the face of the planet although I will admit that I generalized in a big way last night. I was also very, very upset. This is an issue that has come up in my life over and over and over again...I'm sick of it. I'm tired of hearing about it. I'm tired of dealing with it. I was hurt so I spouted off. I'm sorry if you took offense.

Now... 7lbs. may not seem like a big deal to you but it is in fact to me. It is better than losing nothing and it is nearly impossible to lose 70 lbs. in 3 weeks unless you starved yourself and maybe contracted a tape worm. I'm working my butt off (literally) at becomming a smaller woman. 2lbs. per week is a normal healthy weight loss. 7lbs. is something...at least to me. Add the 15lbs. I've lost since last October and I'm finally getting some progress.

 

[lilminx]

Congrats on the 22 pounds!!!!

I think it's great that you're making an effort to lose weight in what seems to bea healthy way.

PB, I agree that it is all in your attitude. I have met thin women who come off as very insecure, and either repulse men or get totally used by them, due to their insecurity.

Your attitude really makes a big difference in the way people perceive you.

For example, I'm not that tall- about 5'5. Many people have told me that they thought I was taller. It hink that a lot of that has to do with the fact that (although I may not always feel this way) I try to always exude an air of self-confidence; especially with people I don't know.

Have you ever heard that if you're feeling down ,you should smile, and your mood will lift? It's been proven. Well, I feel that you can do the same thing with self-confidence. Pretend you have it, and eventually people will believe you have it. It's a circle. it may sound cheesy, but I believe it.