There seems to be a lot of "wannabe" folk ever so eager to talk of their fantasies here on Lit yet somehow have not consulted their wives about the communication. Just don't be one of those people who share photos or identifying information without, not only permission, but encouragement from your wife. I would even take it a step further, if your wife likes the idea of sharing her photos and information, let her be the one to do it.
One more important thing, over eagerness in talking about what you want to do but never have done is a total bore for those that do.