Over or Under?

[Shankara20]

An old question has just surfaced. I ask it here, it is not strictly a BDSM issue, but this is my home community. About the time I started gong to BDSM play-parties I also started to crossdress. Being a 45+ (at the time) male I was not sure how it all went together. I asked around and settled on an answer that I was ok with all these 13 years.

Garters - over or under my panties?

This is the advise I just received "Wear the garter OVER the panties, PLEASE. Unless it's a thong of the same fabric, always wear the garter on top" The advise was given with love and respect from someone I trust.

What say you all? Thanks Shankara

 

[FurryFury]

Well, I've always worn them over. So I'd have to say over.

Fury

 

[Sabrina11]

Well, I'd say over is definitly sexier. But panties on top certainly makes nature calls a little easier....

 

[alice_underneath]

I agree with Miss Fury.

Over.......

http://www.barenecessities.com/Accessories-La-Perla_catalog_nxs,42,vendor,8921.htm

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

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[FurryFury]

Well, I'd say over is definitly sexier. But panties on top certainly makes nature calls a little easier....

Fashion is not supposed to be easy, it is supposed to look beautiful and easy but be HARD.

*giggles*

Fury

I agree with Miss Fury.

Over.......

http://www.barenecessities.com/Accessories-La-Perla_catalog_nxs,42,vendor,8921.htm

Ooh! Thanks and how lovely the garments at this posted site are!

Fury

I like to wear them under so I can keep every thing on wile getting fucked

My dear, do you mean so you can keep on the garters and hose while being fucked? If so you need merely slide the panties down to your ankles or beyond while retaining the garters. If that won't suffice, your Lady can cut the panties off or just push the crotch of your NOW SOAKING panties to the side to FUCK YOU.

*smiles genteelly*

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

wrong!!

I have been wrong all these years

sob

sob

sob

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[Etoile]

Definitely over.

 

[graceanne]

I don't wear garters, but I guess I'd say over.

 

[jadefirefly]

I'm sorry, sweetheart, but over...

And what is your new av? I have a suspicion but this screen is so small it's hard to tell...

 

[A Desert Rose]

If you don't wear panties, there's no quandary... right?

 

[jadefirefly]

I don't know as Shank could live without his pretty pink panties, though.

Though it is a viable option... Shank? Could you do with just the garters, and no panties? It'd solve your problems...

 

[Netzach]

An old question has just surfaced. I ask it here, it is not strictly a BDSM issue, but this is my home community. About the time I started gong to BDSM play-parties I also started to crossdress. Being a 45+ (at the time) male I was not sure how it all went together. I asked around and settled on an answer that I was ok with all these 13 years.

Garters - over or under my panties?

This is the advise I just received "Wear the garter OVER the panties, PLEASE. Unless it's a thong of the same fabric, always wear the garter on top" The advise was given with love and respect from someone I trust.

What say you all? Thanks Shankara

See av. Over, always.

Yes it's harder to pee.

Welcome to the joys of dressing femme.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Sir Shank you'll .........well nvm .............winks

~ smiles ~ ​

 

[chris9]

I prefer the look 'over', but since I usually wear them out and for longer periods (theatre, opera, dinner) and I'm more lazy than fashionable, I go 'under'.

 

[Shankara20]

I'm sorry, sweetheart, but over...

And what is your new av? I have a suspicion but this screen is so small it's hard to tell...

That is a engine room mechanic from the great WW2 submarine movie Das Boot. He is in panic and on the very edge of loosing it, and they all will die is he does. It's how I feel just finding out I have been wrong all these years.

sob
sob
sob

 

[Shankara20]

I don't know as Shank could live without his pretty pink panties, though.

Though it is a viable option... Shank? Could you do with just the garters, and no panties? It'd solve your problems...

well - could give it a try...

sniff, sniff....

I might even be able to change my AV now...

thanks


(I can only think of one problem )

 

[Shankara20]

~ smiles ~ ​

go ride a white horse?


ok, sure, errr thanks



Has Sister Rebecca been in the holy wine again????

 

[Shankara20]

I prefer the look 'over', but since I usually wear them out and for longer periods (theatre, opera, dinner) and I'm more lazy than fashionable, I go 'under'.

function over fashion...

I could do that, under while at work and change to

over​

for photos and such...

great idea - I an starting to feel much better

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

go ride a white horse?


ok, sure, errr thanks



Has Sister Rebecca been in the holy wine again????

William Tell OVERture..............sheeesh......laughs

nite nite Sir Shank bed time for miss rebecca .......smiles

 

[Shankara20]

William Tell OVERture..............sheeesh......laughs

nite nite Sir Shank bed time for miss rebecca .......smiles

thank you, I get it now - funny...

you to bed, me to work... sleep well, hope the holy wine helps

 

[shy slave]

Have just done a straw poll with friends.
In the UK we wear them under not over.
Have never seen them worn over panties.

By garters you do mean suspender belts as in your av, right?

 

[Shankara20]

Have just done a straw poll with friends.
In the UK we wear them under not over.
Have never seen them worn over panties.

By garters you do mean suspender belts as in your av, right?

yes - going around my waist and used to hold up my hose.

I have heard it your way for years.

confused - so confused

 

[lne_iii]

I agree with Miss Fury.

Over.......

http://www.barenecessities.com/Accessories-La-Perla_catalog_nxs,42,vendor,8921.htm

I have a question everyone. Having not really worn anything like this myself, or actually really seen it on a person...etc...I do not know the purpose of these. I mean, for whatever reason, it's definitely really sexy, but what is the purpose of actually wearing it?

Thanks
LNE

 

[Shankara20]

I have a question everyone. Having not really worn anything like this myself, or actually really seen it on a person...etc...I do not know the purpose of these. I mean, for whatever reason, it's definitely really sexy, but what is the purpose of actually wearing it?

Thanks
LNE

they hold up thigh high hose...
For those times when pantyhose just are not sexy enough.