out there fetishes

[silverwhisper]

while reading the blank manual, i encountered some threads about fetishes, including a few that are pretty out there IMHO. what out there fetishes interest you, at least conceptually if not something you're willing to do in real life?

ed

 

[cinnamonstick]

How about an example or two.

 

[silverwhisper]

as examples: scat, watersports, bestiality, diapering, furries...

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

Freaky.
The most far out thing I like is a little bit of the BDSM stuff - but nothing hardcore. In fact, most of the BDSM threads scare me, hehehe.

 

[CountryBoy20]

Hmmm, for some reason, the whole footjob thing always turned me on, although I do not have a foot fetish. Also maybe being a little degraded by a woman, like being tied up and called names, but I guess that would be under softcore BDSM.

 

[JamesSD]

Bit off topic

while reading the blank manual, i encountered some threads about fetishes, including a few that are pretty out there IMHO. what out there fetishes interest you, at least conceptually if not something you're willing to do in real life?

ed

I've noticed anything I find exciting I am less likely to consider a fetish.

 

[EJFan]

I've noticed anything I find exciting I am less likely to consider a fetish.

ya know... this has some remarkable logic to it.

i've never really had any fetishes myself... as far as erotic stories go, i'm partial to incest but that's prolly 'cause i have a half-sister who looks like a cross between sandra bullock and cindy crawford (no, i could never do anything sexual with her but i can admit she's hot as shit). but no fetishes in real life for me.

damn. i'm so bland.

 

[FurryFury]

I've noticed anything I find exciting I am less likely to consider a fetish.

I'm loving that!!! JamesSD! Kudos!

Pardon me while I look up the very definition of fetish...

1. An object that is believed to have magical or spiritual powers, especially such an object associated with animistic or shamanistic religious practices.

Nope, nada.

2. An object of unreasonably excessive attention or reverence: made a fetish of punctuality.

Well yes I am punctual. I might a have a lot of those.

3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

Necessary, nope, desired? Oh shoot yah, got a whole mess of them.

4. An abnormally obsessive preoccupation or attachment; a fixation.

In that case may I just say there are many possibilities for my answer and the one most true for me at this moment is spanking.

Ask me again though and it might well change, I get obsessive about a lot of sexually related things / activities.

Fury

 

[JamesSD]

A more serious answer

I'm loving that!!! JamesSD! Kudos!

Thanks!

3. Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification.

Ok I'll answer the question seriously. I have no "out there" fetishes, nor anything necessary for sexual gratification.
I like bondage and spanking (primarily on the "top" side of things), and like seeing my girlfriend in lingerie. Thigh high stockings with a garter belt is a fave. Taking pictures turns me on and I do have a bit of an exhibitionist and voyeuristic streak.
The idea of two women with one man always excites me.

Are these fetishes? I don't really think so, but I think a lot of people would call me "kinky".

If you want to read some crazy fetishes read Dan Savages "Savage Love" column. In fact, you should read it regardless, because it's generally awesome.

 

[Eilan]

If you want to read some crazy fetishes read Dan Savages "Savage Love" column. In fact, you should read it regardless, because it's generally awesome.

I never miss "Savage Love." Who would have thought that there was such a thing as a zombie fetish?

 

[ozbloke1980]

Would heartbeat be considered a fetish?

 

[Succulent-one]

Hummmmm.........I do love to receive a good spanking

 

[DemonOuterverse]

Would heartbeat be considered a fetish?

I would...mostly because I HAVE a heartbeat fetish. To me there's nothing quite as hot as hearing that rapid, hard beat as a woman climaxes.

If you haven't already, I suggest reading Playing With My Heart by kynki_grrl. It's falls along the lines of BDSM with the woman in the story being dominated by her partner. It's a great story centered around the heart, IMO...but she has never posted anymore stories.

 

[SlyKitten]

I think the word 'fetish' is like the word 'romantic'; been overused and misused.

I do not have any real fetishes. I have a thing for spankings (and other light beatings), leather, shoes/boots and women in corsets. And I do have a fixation on penises, but that's hardly a fetish!

There is no concept I would find exciting that I would not try. So, for example, if the concept of, say, worshipping a body part, or have one of my body parts worshipped is exciting to me, I will be willing to try it.

Now, for the mandatory exception: incest. For some reason I've been having thoughts of it, but would not try it. Though I think my sister is cute, my mother pretty and my dad's hot for his age... just... no.

I saw an English magazine with food fetishes - messy food, dripping molasses or beans or custard on the body. I don't remember how this activity is called. It doesn't excite me, but it was interesting to see.

 

[silverwhisper]

since i haven't actually answered the question myself:

i'll confess that i have a bit of an interest, conceptually anyway, w/ the idea of bestiality: specifically, of watching a woman w/ an animal. it isn't something i'll ever experience, but hey, i can at least be that honest.

ed

 

[Lynxie]

I'm always fascinated by how so many things will turn me on in thought (or in a story or movie), yet I would never consider doing them in real life. Like EJ, I enjoy reading the incest stories here on Lit, yet nobody in my own family even remotely comes close to being sexually attractive to me. I can also admit to being turned on by images of watersports and bestiality on occasion, yet everything about urine and sex with animals turns me off in real life. If given the opportunity, I don't think I'd even want to try these things - I've thought about it a lot, and I think it's the forbidden/taboo aspects of them that turns me on so much. Kinda wierd, but not much I can do about it.

Lately I've been a bit obsessed with creampies, but I think this is because I'm not on the pill currently and am going through bareback withdrawal.

 

[unfaithful2005]

I never miss "Savage Love." Who would have thought that there was such a thing as a zombie fetish?

Yes, I have heard about people who break into mortuaries to have sex with dead people. What in the world could be exciting with that? Cold, stiff cadavers and my god, the smell - NO thanks!

 

[Eilan]

Yes, I have heard about people who break into mortuaries to have sex with dead people. What in the world could be exciting with that? Cold, stiff cadavers and my god, the smell - NO thanks!

I guess, for what it's worth, that's the point of a fetish--being sexually aroused by something that isn't ordinarily considered to be an arousal object.


Warning: slight hijack--

Is there a difference between a kink and a fetish, and if so, where does one draw the line between the two? That's one reason why I haven't posted about anything other than some dude's zombie fetish.

[/hijack]

 

[silverwhisper]

wait a second: we're supposed to warn people when we threadjack?! jeez, that should so be in the blank manal!

i should point out that when i said "fetish", i meant it in its more general sense, which i perceive to be more or less synonymous w/ "kink" than its clinical definition.

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

I agree with Elian - it is kindof confusing as to what a "fetish" exactly is.

 

[Eilan]

wait a second: we're supposed to warn people when we threadjack?! jeez, that should so be in the blank manal!

Hey, I was trying to be nice. Next time I'll just butt right in!

i should point out that when i said "fetish", i meant it in its more general sense, which i perceive to be more or less synonymous w/ "kink" than its clinical definition.

Okay. I was thinking along these lines myself, but I wanted to make sure that my inherently weak reading comprehension skills could be trusted.

 

[silverwhisper]

[really wishes we had a ROFL smiley...]

i could go and edit the original post, but enough people have replied that it would be needlessly confusing, i think.

ed

 

[zombieman]

I think I'm developing a mild fetish for watersports, which, coupled with my fetishes for facials, hair pulling and boots, probably make a bit of a perv!

 

[silverwhisper]

zombieman: you're posting on an internet discussion forum dedicated to erotica: you could make a pretty good case that we're all pervs anyway. :>

ed

 

[Eilan]

zombieman: you're posting on an internet discussion forum dedicated to erotica: you could make a pretty good case that we're all pervs anyway. :>

ed

For the most part, yeah. That doesn't mean that there aren't people at Lit who won't try to pull the my-kink-is-better-than-your-kink or your-kink-is-morally-wrong-and-here's-why garbage on others. Those people are fun in their own way, though.