Ouch

[Just-Legal]

So, stupid Helen here decided she'd screwed up royally and asked her ex-partner to get back together with her.

He said no.

Would someone care to tell me why in the HELL this hurts more than the original break up did?

 

[SeaCat]

Damn girl.

Why does it hurt so much more? Maybe because you were trying to admit that you might have been wrong, maybe it was because you were showing a lot of trust in him only to have it thrown back in your face. (Not knowing the why's and wherefores of the original breakup I wont even begin to think about giving advice. The most I will give is )

Cat

 

[elsol]

So, stupid Helen here decided she'd screwed up royally and asked her ex-partner to get back together with her.

He said no.

Would someone care to tell me why in the HELL this hurts more than the original break up did?

Rejector versus Rejectee?

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[Colleen Thomas]

So, stupid Helen here decided she'd screwed up royally and asked her ex-partner to get back together with her.

He said no.

Would someone care to tell me why in the HELL this hurts more than the original break up did?

*HUGS*

It hurts because in the break up you dcided to stop investing emotional capital. In this, you not only decided to invest it, but spent a lot to build up to the point of asking.

For what it's worth, I think he's a moron. You're a beautiful person and most sane guys should be jumping through hoops for such an invitation.

 

[Just-Legal]

The really stupid thing is, I can completely understand why he said no - by the end of our relationship we were arguing constantly and I just felt numb around him. I ended it.

Since we broke up we've managed to remain friends, and I just realised how much I do love him. Which is why he said no, I think. If we got back together and it all fell apart, we'd end up hating each other, or so he thinks. I'm not so sure.

But damn do I hurt.

 

[English Lady]

*hugs* it will hurt love, you'll make it through though, I know it

 

[MissBri]

 

[hugo_sam]

*hugs* and *cuddles* for Just-legal

Where's my hoop, Colly?

 

[TheEarl]

<hugs>

The Earl

 

[yui]

*hugs* Heart-stuff sucks.