orgy

Absolutely

Hell yeah, it was incredible. Wish I could do it many more times.
 
A non-swap orgy in which everyone paired off with their own lover. Most couples fucked and everyone enjoyed watching everyone else do their thing.
 
The closest the wife and I have come to an orgy was when we played with two other couples. We took a vacation with them and along with pairing off separately with each other's spouses, we had a few group fucks that were a lot of fun.
 
Not me. But it's a fantasy and it's popped up in many of my stories.

But I have a question for those who have done this? What was the most striking thing about it that you didn't expect? How did it differ from your fantasies? And now that you've done it, what's your reaction to the orgy scenes in erotica ... realistic, over-the-top fantasy, or what?
 
Not me. But it's a fantasy and it's popped up in many of my stories.

But I have a question for those who have done this? What was the most striking thing about it that you didn't expect? How did it differ from your fantasies? And now that you've done it, what's your reaction to the orgy scenes in erotica ... realistic, over-the-top fantasy, or what?

What was the most striking thing about it that you didn't expect?
I was absolutely amazed at how respectful and courteous everyone was. My expectation was that of a "sexual frenzy". I was very pleasantly surprised ... and relieved.

I have participated in and hosted quite a few sex parties. However, I don't know that they can be defined as orgies based on the following Google Dictionary definition:

or·gy (ˈôrjē)
noun
noun orgy | plural noun orgies
a wild party, especially one involving excessive drinking and unrestrained sexual activity...​

The parties I have experienced have all been subject to rules and boundaries regarding manners and behavior. Alcoholic beverages were limited to beer, wine and champagne. Drunkenness was not allowed. Illegal drugs were strictly prohibited.

While there was always significant amounts and types of sexual activities between participants, all sexual contact was respectful and consensual. All activities took place in the open where others could watch and/or participate.

I have attended the following types of sex parties:
  1. Monogamous couples. There was no sexual play with anyone other than the person you came with. Voyeurism is usually the purpose at these parties.
  2. Heterosexual only activities. This usually meant the swapping of sexual partners.
  3. Couples in which the female was bisexual. Play included MFF and FF.
  4. Couples in which both the female and male were bisexual. Play included MFM, MMF, FFM, FF, and MM.
  5. Male only
Notes
  • I only attended controlled parties. Attendance was by invitation only followed by the invitee's acceptance. I never attended any "open" parties.
  • Each person/couple paid a sizable cover charge.
  • The location of the party (city, hotel or home) was not provided until the day before the party.
  • The number of participants was between 12 and 24.
 
Based on the definition below, I would say no. But we have come close. Once we went on vacation with three other couples, all of whom were swingers. On the last night, the eight of us started out playing in the pool (we were staying at a clothing optional resort), and eventually ended up moving to a suite. We all fucked someone else's spouse.

Another time we visited a swing club and ventured into the orgy room. That was a room with a huge bed consisting of a platform covered by approximately 25-30 mats. There were probably around 30 couples in there, all engaged in some form of sex. I hesitate to call it an orgy, however, because I didn't see any switching or group activities. Just a lot of couples keeping to themselves.
 
For those who have been, are STDs ever a worry? I would absolutely love to go to one, although I fear that not knowing whether or not people have been tested would limit my arousal...
 
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