orgasm

[coolieno7]

i take a great deal of pleasure from delaying my ladies orgasm , finding it very pleasurable when she is allowed to explode , do you think this is natural ?

 

[coolieno7]

i take a great deal of pleasure from delaying my ladies orgasm , finding it very pleasurable when she is allowed to explode , do you think this is natural ?

 

[FurryFury]

For you? Yes.

For many others, yes.

For everyone in the world, not so much.

For animals other than humans? Not so far as I'm aware.

If anyone knows any differently let me know okay?

Thanks,

Fury

 

[mistymoon]

yummy

My Lover does the same thing...he likes to tease me till I become insane...

 

[Bandit58]

i take a great deal of pleasure from delaying my ladies orgasm , finding it very pleasurable when she is allowed to explode , do you think this is natural ?

This is one of Master's favourite things to do.....god it's so frustrating! One time I said something to Him and He said I sounded like Linda Blair in The Exorcist, He was half expecting my head to start turning

But it's worth it in the end, oh yes!

 

[FurryFury]

Y'all are making me hungry for something!!!

LOL!

Fury

 

[Quint]

Works for lots of people, doesn't work for me. It's too hard to get me to come; if you take away the tension when I'm close, I have to start all over again and it gets too aggravating.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Y'all are making me hungry for something!!!

LOL!

Fury

laughs.......let me see

would it be a nice quenching glass of water with a sprig of mint to garnish it ?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

i take a great deal of pleasure from delaying my ladies orgasm , finding it very pleasurable when she is allowed to explode , do you think this is natural ?

I concur with miss Furry , miss bandit and miss mistymoon (sans the insane part....lol.......smiles....I believe I know what you meant) .
I thrive on the anticipation , always wanting just that time frame extended by a few more seconds than I think I can 'cope' each time. The orgasms are shattering but the part I always 'mourn' is the 'build' post orgasm.

Rereading quints post I would say for me its not that the 'tension' is removed , more so permission to sucumb to it. As I am trained in tantra my actual powers of resilience are , ummm , well , fairly extraordinary I suspect . Not sure it even comes under orgasm denial in a 'classic' sense. Its been rewarding for others as well in as much as Dominants I have known who are less familiar with tantra but quite familiar with delaying their submissives orgasms by not extending permission immediately 'experiment' with same. Actually would love to know how many Dominants have explored this .....................

~ ohh ...and orgasm is not the art of japanese paper folding ~​

 

[FurryFury]

Nope, I'm not that fond of mint.

I've never had a person do this to me but I have kept myself on edge for a long time. I find that I enjoy the delay to a point however I do wonder if in actual play with another that the problem Quint mentioned wouldn't also be mine.

As always I'd love to experiment and find out.

Fury

 

[Quint]

Nope, I'm not that fond of mint.

I've never had a person do this to me but I have kept myself on edge for a long time. I find that I enjoy the delay to a point however I do wonder if in actual play with another that the problem Quint mentioned wouldn't also be mine.

As always I'd love to experiment and find out.

Fury

Oh hell, I can delay my own orgasms (although my self-control is really rotten)...it's the element of another person that puts me in "performance mode," which is NOT conducive to relaxing and enjoying myself. I'm perfectly willing to believe that, with time, we'll get me over this. But being a slow-to-come person to begin with kind of feels like I already have shackles on. Except not yummy.

 

[FurryFury]

Oh hell, I can delay my own orgasms (although my self-control is really rotten)...it's the element of another person that puts me in "performance mode," which is NOT conducive to relaxing and enjoying myself. I'm perfectly willing to believe that, with time, we'll get me over this. But being a slow-to-come person to begin with kind of feels like I already have shackles on. Except not yummy.

*nods*

I totally get that Quint!

I can see that being a problem for me if I were ever in that situation. I too have a performance mode that is strong. It's almost as if I feel that if I'm not entertaining and making people happy, they'll kill me.

Fury

 

[A Desert Rose]

... As I am trained in tantra my actual powers of resilience are , ummm , well , fairly extraordinary I suspect . Not sure it even comes under orgasm denial in a 'classic' sense. Its been rewarding for others as well in as much as Dominants I have known who are less familiar with tantra but quite familiar with delaying their submissives orgasms by not extending permission immediately 'experiment' with same. Actually would love to know how many Dominants have explored this .....................

~ ohh ...and orgasm is not the art of japanese paper folding ~​

Would you mind explaining this training or maybe starting a thread about it? I think there are a lot of people (especially myself) who are interested in this. I, for one, confess ignorance in regard to tantra.

 

[FurryFury]

Would you mind explaining this training or maybe starting a thread about it? I think there are a lot of people (especially myself) who are interested in this. I, for one, confess ignorance in regard to tantra.

Great idea!

I second that motion!

Fury