Orgasm>>>Who gets to come??

[scooterbum]

Random thoughts....should Master. (or Mistress) have the luxury of orgasm or should the slave, due to his/her pennance deserve it

Or, is the orgasm a (tool) to be used by the domme to control the slave??? works for me



scooter

 

[ownedsubgal]

it's my Master's right to cum, not mine. because it's not something i care to do anyway, and orgasm control isn't an area where my Master's interests lie, the whole cum control issue doesn't exist in our relationship. His reaching orgasm is something that WILL happen if he wishes it to happen. me reaching orgasm is irrelevant one way or the other.

 

[Howling_Ire]

I think it depends on the realtionship

i myself would like to cum, if it pleases master.

*winks*

 

[Desdemona]

It's all up to Snooze. But... I love it that He allows me to have orgasms. I'm very lucky!

 

[Mistress Tae]

Depends, there are times when his orgasm is what is going to bring me pleasure, but there will be other times when his lack of orgasm is what I will be craving. I very much use his orgasm as a means of control and it works for us....

 

[scooterbum]

Depends, there are times when his orgasm is what is going to bring me pleasure, but there will be other times when his lack of orgasm is what I will be craving. I very much use his orgasm as a means of control and it works for us....

sounds tooo familiar to me......
scooter

 

[Mistress Tae]

sounds tooo familiar to me......
scooter

*grins* Miss T is a smart lady in my book

 

[TNRkitect2b]

I will cum regardless. She may or may not at my discretion. Then there are the times when I take it to the other extreeme and force her to orgasm. <shrug> it is whatever fits my mood, really.

 

[Howling_Ire]

of co urse thier are those gentlemen who will make you orgaism till you beg them to please stop... of course that's nice in and of it's self

 

[scooterbum]

Depends, there are times when his orgasm is what is going to bring me pleasure, but there will be other times when his lack of orgasm is what I will be craving. I very much use his orgasm as a means of control and it works for us....

This is what it is all about....*groan*

 

[DarkTalon]

I say its all On My mood and impulls. If im Nice I will have her beg to cum. If I fell like turtchering here I lett her cum till she passes out three times

 

[FungiUg]

Just depends on my mood. I cum when I want to. But the fortunate/unfortunate slut I am playing with? Well, she cums when I want her to as well!

Which may be "not for the next hour or two while I keep you as close to orgasm as I possibly can without allowing you to actually orgasm"... or it might be "non-stop for the next hour or so until I get bored."

Sometimes begging can help change my mind, sometimes not.

It all just depends on how I feel at the time.

 

[ghosst_K&H]

Mistress Karen always gets to cum, period! Mistress Holly, whenever she chooses, and i get to cum if i beg for it, and they decide i've been good enough.

My Mistress's are practicing denial, or orgasm control as we speak, and i'm not allowed to cum while on the road. i need to "save it," for when i get home.

 

[lil ozzie sub]

of co urse thier are those gentlemen who will make you orgaism till you beg them to please stop... of course that's nice in and of it's self

Or in my case, Lady, that makes me cum over and over and over.

I have to beg her to stop. She has me cumming on command. When I hear "cum for me" whispered in my ear, I'm there and will be until She decides I've had enough.

 

[landcruisergal]

Tho I am reminded that I am souly for his pleasure, I sometimes get a phone call out of the blue, ( like yesterday whilst wrapping xmas presents, lol) saying you may cum NOW ! In scene I am denied over and over again until he thinks I have worked hard enough, or am suffering enough. Then sometimes never, or I have to self abuse without relief for days. Its all inconsistant and baffling which is how he wants me I guess. Sometimes I ask and am allowed to as many as I beg for, or he has me stop at 3 or 4. Ah well, no one said it was easy.....