Orgasm from anal sex.

[amBIguous]

Well it finally happened. For quite some time now, my lovely wife has indulged my fetish for having my ass played with during sex (fingers, plugs, toys, etc). The other night, after some frenzied love making we were in a 69 and she was fingering my ass while sucking me. I had her going pretty good too and she stopped sucking me to enjoy her moment (went on for quite a while), although she continued playing with my ass (not sure how many fingers there were but was more than 1). Anyway, I found myself going crazy and all of a sudden I orgasmed. She wasn't touching my dick.

Sad part is I think it threw her pretty good. Mind you, I've had a fair amount of experience with anal sex and knew that this was possible. I even looked forward to it with pleasure. But I think my wife was concerned that I was able to cum without her touching my dick. She knows I'm bi and have had male partners (all before her) and is okay with the whole anal fetish, but she still has some hetero hang-ups when it comes to what makes me cum ( I actually played it off that she was rubbing against me with her chest when it happened and that is what caused it.

I guess I’m looking for some advice on whether I should be concerned or just see what happens. Am I over-reacting?

 

[onyxvixen]

Are you able to make her cum anally or does she not like this kind of play herself? If both of you are able to cum this way I don't see why she's concerned.

If not then maybe she just needs a little reassurance. Nobody likes to feel superfluous. The fact that you experienced this with her rather than with a previous male partner should also make it more special, not less so.

 

[PredatorSmile]

It's a very fun experience, glad you like it !

 

[lastingpassion]

Total pleasure

Why over-react when it comes to pure pleasure?? Since your wife indulges your desire for anal pleasure, shouldn't she be totally delighted/exited for you in reaching the ultimate? I would think that any over-reaction should be met with applause and tears.....OK, maybe balloons and a little wine.

 

[amBIguous]

It's a very fun experience, glad you like it !

Liked it very much. Sorta surprised the hell out of me though.

 

[Night_Jasmine]

It's funny how you mention her having het hang ups. Most of my female friends would rather get off on watching two guys together than anything else. I guess I just got very lucky on my friends.

I have to admit though. I'm a lesbian and the idea of two guys getting it on does make me hot. Guess I'm a voyeur in that way. LOL!

You know..have you tried watching porn with her that swapped out between m/f and mmf type of couplings? That might be a good way to 'soften' her up, so to speak as far as becoming more comfortable with the idea that a man can get off without having penis touched.

Just a thought.

 

[webber1998]

I've heard of this happening to a few people, but don't know anyone personally who has had an orgrasm from anal sex. I've tried it myself, and maybe if I didn't get so freaking horny after a while....well, who knows.

As far as the lady goes, I think it should be all right. Give her some time. Try to be honest with her. In the end, the only feelings that you can control are yours. Don't try to change her mind about whether it bothers her. Just reassure her that you love her and what SHE does to you.

 

[tink7599]

You should talk to her about it to see if its really bugging her. She might just be taken aback by it at first. Its not the "normal" way to orgasm, but its one of the best. with luck she'll be ok with it, and she will see if she can do it again...

 

[amBIguous]

Thanks to all for the encouraging and supportive feedback. Turns out I think I was overreacting a bit. Hasn't become the issue I was afraid it would. She is the same woman that I fell in love with and all is status quo.

Still waiting for the repeat performance however . Plan on bringing it up soon. I do want to discuss the whole thing with her.

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

I do not always orgasm from just penetration(i prefer a lil clit play).Perhaps the same will ring true with anal(when I get to experience it)

 

[human_male]

Well that all sounds pretty fantastic, you're a lucky guy. Sometimes during butt play I feel what feels like an orgasm building from deep withing the depths of my ass (that's where I always find my keys whenever I've lost them). I've never been able to keep it up for long enough to see what happens but I wonder if it's possible for your ass to actually cum... somehow.

Anyway, I don't know why the missus should be concerned (unless you yelled out a guy's name), after all it was her that made you cum. Just tell her that.

As for spontaneous orgasm, it's a rare gift that I would treasure.

 

[amBIguous]

Thanks for the encouragement, Human_male. It was an experience that I highly recommend.

 

[MrsConfused]

Milking the prostate!

Could it be that she ended up" milking your prostate". This is done to make a male ejaculate. It is in a sense a "G" spot on a man. Could be a possibility. Just giving my opinion.

 

[amBIguous]

Thanks for the input MrsConfused. I've heard of the ejaculation caused by prostate massage. I dont think that is what this was. As I understand it, prostate massage can cause males to ejaculate, but not exactly orgasm. This definately fell into the orgasm column.

And FWIW, I appear to be the one that overreacted to her reaction. Sex and love making have continued on unabated and without any strangeness.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[amBIguous]

By massaging my prostate I've done both the long term no orgasm but constant oozing of fluid and the incredibly intense no-cock-touch mind blowing orgasm. Just depends on how horny I am and how impatient I am feeling.

Glad I joined at least the latter club. Definately a mind blower... By the way, nice AV, I wouldn't mind ravishing it either...

 

[shapelybi]

anal ex

im 36,a bifem,married to a bi hubby,when i discovered thT HE WA A BI LOIKE ME,WE JUST WENT OFF INTO ORBIT,nOW,WE BOTH HAVE OUR OWN LOVERS,HOWEVER,HE TAUGHT ME WLL ABT THE PLEASURE OF ANAL SEX AND NOW I REALLY NEED TO FEEL A NICE THICK COCK DEEP IN MY GORGEOUS ASS