Orgasm and prostate massaging

I do and have.
My Favourite is a medium Butt Plug, then use a Vibrator on the plug. Seems to deliver the vibes to the right spot.

I did spend a night at a sex dungeon in the UK, They had a Sybian (not sure if spelt correctly) Mrs Shrek had me sit on this. It took less than 90 seconds for me to cum. I wasnt even fully hard. I was on it for less than 5 minutes and i physically came twice.
Should any one be uk based that wants details of dungeon drop me a message
 
I recently started to experiment with this. Bought a PlusOne prostate massager, disappointed because I expected vibration but it's just a fixed device. It does reach the prostate, though, and I can move it around which feels nice. Then I bought a HelloCake "Butty Buzz" which is what it sounds like, a vibrating butt plug. A bit fatter than I expected, and for a novice it requires care and plenty of lube. It also feels nice, but it doesn't seem to be long enough to hit the prostate.
Neither of them alone gets me off. But either one combined with masturbating makes me cum more and harder. Give that a try, you might like the results.
I may get some other toys, maybe a (not too thick) vibrating dildo to hit the spot better, or a vibrating prostate massager. There are lots of options to be found on-line.
 
I use a tapered wax candle. As it gets warm and softens is shapes itself to your personal contour, the tapered tips and a little lube lets is slide right in, and it long enough to ride across your p-spot. And then OMG...anal orgasms never end..sure you may run out of cum eventually, but the contractions and spasms just keep you shaking and moaning.
 
I use a tapered wax candle. As it gets warm and softens is shapes itself to your personal contour, the tapered tips and a little lube lets is slide right in, and it long enough to ride across your p-spot. And then OMG...anal orgasms never end..sure you may run out of cum eventually, but the contractions and spasms just keep you shaking and moaning.
Interesting idea. I saw a "bendy" vibrator in a store, but it's labeled as not for anal use. I suppose you have to be careful to hold on to it so it doesn't disappear inside, something that butt plugs etc. avoid by having a flange at the end.

Do you ever have problems with the candle getting lost, or breaking into pieces?
 
Prostate massagers are the way to go in my opinion. General dildos and such can get you there but they aren't designed specifically to hit the prostate. Neither are plugs.

I had a curved glass wand with a nice fat bulb on the end that worked great too. Need to get another one of those!

For massagers, if it is a static piece, then I find the key is to wear it for a good while. Walk around with it. I really like sitting with my back straight up and rolling my hips to and fro and just generally grinding on the toy.

I like ones with rings for removal. Then when I'm good and ready I like to sit back, prop my heels up so my legs are spread but I can still press down, then I grab the ring and pull it so the massager feels like it's going to pop out but I don't let it and let it slip back in. Over and over while I grind on it and adjust to what my body is telling me it likes.

That is the only way I've made myself actually orgasm using an anal toy. I could get really close with the glass wand but never went over the top although I would leak like crazy and the subsequent orgasms were very deep. But the few actual orgasms I've achieved just from prostate stimulation have been incredible. Very different than a "standard" orgasm and I don't know that I'd say one is necessarily better than the other but they are surely different.

Again, for me, extended stimulation is the key. I can wear my massager for an hour or more before getting serious with it. I often lube it a few times during a session as well.
 
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This is something I have tried, buying a few different prostrate massagers and have never had an orgasm from one, mind you it felt great but never to the point of orgasming.
 
Interesting idea. I saw a "bendy" vibrator in a store, but it's labeled as not for anal use. I suppose you have to be careful to hold on to it so it doesn't disappear inside, something that butt plugs etc. avoid by having a flange at the end.

Do you ever have problems with the candle getting lost, or breaking into pieces?
not so far....the candle is big enough so I never lose my grip. the candle is fresh and pliable so just gets soft not brittle but I take care and use it gently....Just feeling slide over prostate until the inner coil gets wound up then releases.
 
I have worked on this for a year. I bought the trainig but plugs, wondering if I would ever get that third big one in my ass. I tried many , many times to slide that wide plug into my ass... It was months before I fit that wide plug into my opening hole.

It felt soooooo good.

Now I can get in into my horny asshole fairly easily. i have purchased a bunch of ass toys. Three of my favorites is my 9 inch dildo that I ride that just makes me cum so fast.

I have a 10 inch that seems just a little to big, but am working on...

Have to say, I love this sexual exploration.
 
I have worked on this for a year. I bought the trainig but plugs, wondering if I would ever get that third big one in my ass. I tried many , many times to slide that wide plug into my ass... It was months before I fit that wide plug into my opening hole.

It felt soooooo good.

Now I can get in into my horny asshole fairly easily. i have purchased a bunch of ass toys. Three of my favorites is my 9 inch dildo that I ride that just makes me cum so fast.

I have a 10 inch that seems just a little to big, but am working on...

Have to say, I love this sexual exploration.
Oh, my third favorite is my glass ribbed dildo that changed my life.
 
I use a butt plug, not too big, but enough to hit the spot, always works for me, the pleasure is almost too intense...!
 
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