Oral vs. Intercourse Which is sex?

[Dana Gallagher]

Which is really sex, intercourse, oral or both? Does there have to be penetration for it to be qualified as sex? Is oral just foreplay? What in your opinion is the true definition of sex?

In my opinion both are sex, no matter which way you play it. I usually (not always) get more pleasure out of oral than intercourse, so in my mind both are sex. Once I gave oral but didn’t receive it in return, and while I didn’t feel much guilt about the situation, as I would have after jointly receiving oral or intercourse, I still thought of it as sex. The guy was pleasured even if I was not, so to me it was still sex.

Another question you meet someone and you only have oral together, do you have to add them to your number of partners?

 

[MT_Pitcher]

Which is really sex, intercourse, oral or both? Does there have to be penetration for it to be qualified as sex? Is oral just foreplay? What in your opinion is the true definition of sex?

In my opinion both are sex, no matter which way you play it. I usually (not always) get more pleasure out of oral than intercourse, so in my mind both are sex. Once I gave oral but didn’t receive it in return, and while I didn’t feel much guilt about the situation, as I would have after jointly receiving oral or intercourse, I still thought of it as sex. The guy was pleasured even if I was not, so to me it was still sex.

Another question you meet someone and you only have oral together, do you have to add them to your number of partners?

Oh, it's all sex, and it's all fun.....
Many times I prefer oral to penetration... Giving or receiving.....
Sex isn't just fucking...
There are so many choices....
Sex isn't the destination, it's the journey.....
Sex is the pleasure....

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Re: Re: Oral vs. Intercourse Which is sex?

Oh, it's all sex, and it's all fun.....
Many times I prefer oral to penetration... Giving or receiving.....
Sex isn't just fucking...
There are so many choices....
Sex isn't the destination, it's the journey.....
Sex is the pleasure....

couldn't agree more... but you said it better!

 

[Dana Gallagher]

People!

You could post a reply and say why you think which is sex or why both are sex... come on you know you really wanna

 

[Dana Gallagher]

I remember when my little sister(four years younger) and I were teens. she got heavily involved with a guy and she told me she was thinking about losing her virginity. I had already lost mine and knew the emotional change one (at least for females) goes through after losing their virginity.

I wrote my sister this long letter telling her why she should hold on to her virginity. It was all about the emotional change and so on. She decided not to have intercourse. Well, unknown to me at the time my sis had already done everything but actual intercourse with the boyfriend, so my advice was a little late. Especially since when they broke up (mutual break up) she went through the exact same emotional crazy crap that I went through with the guy that took my virginity.

When she finally decided to have intercourse, basically to have it done and over with, it wasn't a big deal to her at all. I think she dumped the one that got the actual honors a month or so later.

 

[Dana Gallagher]

One for sex is only penetration and five for sex is when anyone cums! Hummmmm....

 

[Lust Engine]

G'Lord... for a moment I thought this thread was going to have the Bill Clinton definitions of sex!

But to me, sex has always been described as pleasuring the other person so I guess oral ad actual penetration is legit.

As far as adding the oral only to your partners list? Sure why not??

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Definition by Funk and Wagnalls

sex (seks) n. 1. Either of two divisions, male and female, by which organisms are distiguished with reference to the reproductive functions. 2. The charater of being male or female. 3. The activity or phenomena of life concerned with sexual desire or reproduction. 4. InformalSexual gratification

 

[Dana Gallagher]

G'Lord... for a moment I thought this thread was going to have the Bill Clinton definitions of sex!

But to me, sex has always been described as pleasuring the other person so I guess oral ad actual penetration is legit.

As far as adding the oral only to your partners list? Sure why not??

Nope nope nope... In my opinion Bill Clinton cheated just as much as if he'd put his pecker inside of her and not just the cigar...

Okay they're added... that brings the number up to _________

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Funk and Wagnalls again

Gratification n. 1. The act of gratifying or the state of being gratified. 2. That which gratifies.

Gratify v. 1. To give pleasure or satisfaction to. 2. To satisfy, humor, or indulge.

 

[Lust Engine]

Nope nope nope... In my opinion Bill Clinton cheated just as much as if he'd put his pecker inside of her and not just the cigar...

Okay they're added... that brings the number up to _________

I agree that Billy boy did the deed as well.

 

[Dana Gallagher]

I agree that Billy boy did the deed as well.

Yep, it sucks... well she sucked... but anyways he's forever gonna go down in history for the president that couldn't keep it in his pants... not matter what good he did... and I do think he did some good... Oh well!!

Well, the votes are 3 for sex only on penetration, 1 for dual climax and 6 for any climax....

 

[CharlotteNCguy]

It depends on what the definition of the word 'is' is.... LOL !


I say that some penetration had to be involoved. not necesarily a climax....Everyone has had sex w/o a climax before.

 

[Dana Gallagher]

It depends on what the definition of the word 'is' is.... LOL !


I say that some penetration had to be involoved. not necesarily a climax....Everyone has had sex w/o a climax before.

Ha ha funny

Well, I've had oral without a climax and sex without a climax, I don't think climax defines sex either, perhaps the attempt at gratification, whether successful or not....

If I've had only oral one night with a guy that has no tongue talents whatsoever, then I would probably tell my friends I just had bad sex that night....

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Now I do believe there is a difference between sex and fucking...

Fucking has to involve penetration, but to me sex is a different story...

 

[vogon8n]

Now I do believe there is a difference between sex and fucking...

Fucking has to involve penetration, but to me sex is a different story...

Nah... Fucking is like jerking off. its all about the climax... now having sex - thats art thats erotic thats awsome... BUT yes I think ORAL is best....

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Okay another question.. if you believe that oral isn't sex does that mean if you are in an exclusive sexual friendship/relationship with someone, that they can go get oral from anyone whose offering as long as they only have intercourse with you?

And yet i have more questions...

Hypothetically speaking say two people are in an exclusive sexual friendship/relationship thing, now the woman can only get together with her man every other weekend because of motherhood responsibilities... she doesn't date anyone else!

Now the man feeling the need to release more than once every two weeks wants to be able to go out and get blow jobs from anyone whose willing, though he swears he will only have intercourse with his woman....

Is this fair? Not matter your views on what is and what isn't sex, is this fair?

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Nah... Fucking is like jerking off. its all about the climax... now having sex - thats art thats erotic thats awsome... BUT yes I think ORAL is best....

Yeah fucking is slamming so hard your brains hurt!

Sex is intimate, personal... and as that is both oral and intercourse can be defined as sex... in my opinion that is...

Though if I had a boyfiriend or boytoy I still wouldn't want him to go off fucking anyone or anything.

 

[vogon8n]

ABout the voting at the top of the page??

I think sex starts when she gets wet and he gets rigid - the chemistry is on the go and if no other inhibitions were present, it would end in climax. So sex starts in the mind

So i think you need to ad to your questionair categories

 

[Dana Gallagher]

ABout the voting at the top of the page??

I think sex starts when she gets wet and he gets rigid - the chemistry is on the go and if no other inhibitions were present, it would end in climax. So sex starts in the mind

So i think you need to ad to your questionair categories

I like your outlook on sex....

Well, unfortunately only moderators can edit the poll... I made it up, but I seem only to be able to edit my original post...

 

[Dana Gallagher]

bump

 

[Dana Gallagher]

Okay let me ask you this question....

With exception to the whole double sided dildo thing or the strap on... If oral isn't considered sex, then what are lesbian (or bi) women doing? Do they just have foreplay and that's all?

 

[RadicalFlower]

I Voted that Sex is only when there is actual penetration everything else is just foreplay..

And I LOVE the forplay part

 

[shell seeker2]

as long as one person gets off it's sex in my book

 

[Dana Gallagher]

I Voted that Sex is only when there is actual penetration everything else is just foreplay..

And I LOVE the forplay part

Yeah, I don't think I could stay with a man very long that didn't like to give and receive oral... there's not much fun without it...