Oral sex

[feelsgood]

Is there any ladies out there that have never given a man oral -- but would like to. The same question to the men -- do you give your women oral. If not, why not because it is some of the best sex.

Most likely, if you have never given mouth sex, then your partner has ever gone down on you either. If this is true then you are missing some of the most pleasurable and finest man and woman sex that you will ever have.

Do you want to know how to get started? Don't be shy. This is a good place to start to learn all abut this wonderful and intense delight.

 

[monique1971]

Most likely, if you have never given mouth sex, then your partner has ever gone down on you either. If this is true then you are missing some of the most pleasurable and finest man and woman sex that you will ever have.

And what's more, men can do it to men, and women can do it to women. What a concept!

 

[jjd168]

But how is it for you?

My query is what the pleasure aspects are for the woman giving oral sex. I enjoy giving her because it pleasures her and sets her up for the finale. But the other way?

 

[Lurnk]

My query is what the pleasure aspects are for the woman giving oral sex. <snippers>

We have orgasms of course. The women in my circle of friends all say that immediately after touching their tongues to a cock, they spasm and squirt all over the place.

 

[monique1971]

We have orgasms of course. The women in my circle of friends all say that immediately after touching their tongues to a cock, they spasm and squirt all over the place.

The women in my circle of friends all say that the only thing that gives them orgasms is if a guy jerks off onto their face.

 

[Lurnk]

The women in my circle of friends all say that the only thing that gives them orgasms is if a guy jerks off onto their face.

Hmm, friends of friends on my end--and some from that bunch get multiple orgasms if it hits 'em in the eyes or gets sucked up the nose.

 

[shy slave]

Have to disagree with you Feelsgood.

I give him oral and it is wonderful but I hate being given oral. It is the worst kind of sex ever.

It is pure hell.

I know some women like it, but I would not describe it as 'the finest man and woman sex that you will ever have.'

On a scale, if 10 were the finest sex, then being given oral comes out as a -20

 

[shy slave]

My query is what the pleasure aspects are for the woman giving oral sex. I enjoy giving her because it pleasures her and sets her up for the finale. But the other way?

For me, giving oral is about paying homage to his cock.
It is alot more than just cock sucking. It is also more than a setting for the finale. I don't see it as a precursor to the main event, it is a whole event in itself.
If he cums and I don't it is no big deal. He gives me plenty of orgasms at other times so missing out now and then for him is not an issue.

Its about losing myself in the texture of his cock, the feel of it on my lips and tongue, caressing his cock with my eyes and stroking my fingers on every ridge and line over and around his cock and balls.

I love it all, the sucking, licking, caressing, stroking & flick my tongue over the edges, etc etc.
But I confess if he enjoys it for just a little too long it can make my mouth dry and slightly sore afterwards which can last for a few days, depending on how long I was down there (so to speak!)

It is the most intimate of feelings. Women can fake orgasms but I can't see how it is possible to fake an interest in cock sucking. You either want to give him those pleasure feelings or you don't.

The position when cock sucking is important. If I feel I am in an awkward place I cannot concentrate fully and it shows in the way I caress him with my mouth and fingers.
I sometimes lay on the bed next to him to suck, caress his cock, but find my arms get in the way at times. This can make a long session difficult and I can unintentionally lose focus.

My favourite place is to be kneeling at his feet directly in front of him. Being able to occasionally look up and watch the expressions on his face as I change speed or direction to gauge how and what he wants.

Being chained to his chair as I kneel, with his hand wrapped in my hair are added bonuses that really play with my mind making me go to a place where I only exist to give him pleasure.

I really enjoy the partial power of being able to take him to the brink of orgasm and then moving slightly to bring him back down, repeating this as much as I think he will allow before he takes my hair in his hands and pushes my face into his cock and balls.

I also love figuring out which smallest area on his cock or balls can cause him to have a deep intake of breath yet the smallest movement in any direction that moves away from that area and it has no or little reaction.
It has been known that I lose all sense of self at those times as I lick, stroke, caress and touch every part of his cock and balls.

I still have two aims in life with regard to giving him oral:
1. I would love to wake him from a nights sleep by licking his cock, but so far he always wakes up first.
2. To be able to deep throat him fully so the tip of his cock touches the back of my throat.

Its good to have ambitions in life

Ummm jjd, Did that give you an explanation of what a woman can get out of it? Or do you want me to go on even more about how much pleasure I get from it?
I should warn you, it is one of my favourite topics!

 

[Bull_11]

I need you ladies in my circle of friends!

Great explainations, ladies. I'm the same way with giving oral to a woman. Sometimes giving oral excites me more than insertion, itself.

 

[fukuzono1]

It also depends on how into it you are, and how into it they are

 

[Lurnk]

I need you ladies in my circle of friends!

Great explainations, ladies.<snipperific>

And this is why Lit brings me joy.

Thank you, Bull, with all the thuddings of my heart.

 

[jjd168]

Its good to have ambitions in life

Shy Slave, your post is soooo enlightening: a total mission statement! Even if my partner is less articulate I do now get a sense of her apirations and sensations.

Monique 1971 and Lurnk: You write about friends... But you yourselves?
However, there is no way I would wish to come in oral. I don't know if it's me or that I'd have failed to deliver penetration and work on her orgasm. I think we'll have to work on communications.

 

[jjd168]

Scuppernongs

By the way- I forgot to mention scuppernongs, Lurnk. I have a lovely memory of North Carolina: flying from London after weeks of sheeting rain, landing in Washington DC in a whiteout, being frozen in San Antonio, leaving Portland, Oregon on a flood alert and finally, too few balmy relaxing days in Charlotte where I got mild sunburn. Why I can see past Big guvment and bisness and see the big open heart of America and its folks.

Is this approriate behaviour in this thread

 

[shy slave]

Shy Slave, your post is soooo enlightening: a total mission statement! Even if my partner is less articulate I do now get a sense of her apirations and sensations.

Monique 1971 and Lurnk: You write about friends... But you yourselves?
However, there is no way I would wish to come in oral. I don't know if it's me or that I'd have failed to deliver penetration and work on her orgasm. I think we'll have to work on communications.

A mission statement~Thank you

Communication is always a good thing to work on. Have you ever thought she may have ideas about how great it would be if you came from oral?
Of course, if it isn't in you, it isn't. I have met men who say oral makes their cock sensitive but they need a rougher action to come.
He doesn't often come from oral, its usually a mix of oral or hand or he fucks me.
I like facials far more than swallowing so I don't mind, whatever works is good for me

 

[Bull_11]

And this is why Lit brings me joy.

Thank you, Bull, with all the thuddings of my heart.

You're welcome, Lurnk! Lit certainly brings me much joy too, especially this thread and you damn sexy women who know how to please a man!

I'm not really a cum in her mouth or down her throat kinda guy either. Facials and pearl necklaces are more my style. I love exploding on her face or chest and seeing her use her hands or my cock to play with it and rub it around.

OK, I'm getting a bit too excited just thinking about all this right now. Time to calm down a bit!

 

[monique1971]

And this is why Lit brings me joy.

Thank you, Bull, with all the thuddings of my heart.

Monique 1971 and Lurnk: You write about friends... But you yourselves?

I too find this thread a source of indecent pleasure.

 

[feelsgood]

Oh my, Shy Slave – your response to my posting on giving oral is so exquisite. Your are most talented as a wordsmith. Have you written any stories for Literotica? With you gift it is no wonder you have great talent at giving your partner head too.

Both my loving wife and my two neighbor ladies friends want to suck my cock as just as you described how you like to do it. They get me to set on the edge of the bed with my legs over the side, and then lay back, and let then do their mouth and tongue dance on me. They both get on their knees between my legs so they can watch my reaction and facial expressions.

My wife is so expert at bringing me right to the edge but not letting me go into a orgasm. Time after time, she will do this in one session.

She does something that really is special to me. She ever so lightly bites down and rubs her teeth back and forth on my ‘F’ spot. You know that special place men have that is just behind and under my glans cock head. That spot that has so many nerves endings. If she does this more than 15 or 30 seconds, I will climax. She knows this and backs off in time so I momentary come down from almost having a climax. Then she does it again, time after time. God, she really knows how to make me feel so very, very good.

I am blessed or cursed , which ever way you want to look at it, with a larger than normal penis size. When I was a young man and through my early sixties, (I am now 70-years old), I had a erect cock nine-inches long and 2-inches in diameter. Now in my older age is has shrunk up to about seven and one half inches long. However it girth is still about the same.

Because of my large diameter, only about five women in my life could deep throat me with ease without being uncomfortable and gagging on my large cock. My wife is always been one that could not. That is all right because she does not have any trouble take all of my hard prick end and about three-inches of the shaft into her mouth. My pleasure comes when they use there mouth, tongue, and teeth the right way as I discribed on my big circumcised cock head and just behind it.

She makes her session of her giving me oral last up to one-half to three-quarters of an hour. She will bring me to almost an orgasm many times with my hard cock in her mouth. She is so good and I never found any better. The pleasure she give me with her talented mouth and tongue is so intense.

But, my wife only wants to suck my cock about once a week now that she is older. And, because I need climaxes at least every other day, she is now training our two younger neighbor women in her wonderful art of cock sucking. These neighbor gals are not as good as my wife yet but they both are learning well.

All three of these women say the like me to get between their legs and give them head with my mouth and tongue better than using my cock to have penetration sex with them.

I so truly love to eat then out. I have a little technique that seams to drive them into acute pleasure. I roll my tongue around their clitoris and hold it while sucking in great quantities if air in my lungs. This rushing of air around the clit gives my women very intense pleasure.

Then I take my front teeth and ever so lightly bite down on and put pressure on their clits. (Note: Do not ever bite down so much that you hurt then – just a little pressure.) This will most likely bring on climax, one of several I happy to say. My dear and oh so loving gals are blessed with the ability to have multiple climaxes in just one pussy eating and licking sessions by me.

Shy Slave you said that you did not in some degree like to have you pussy licked. That is too bad. You should try having your partner try my curled tongue and soft biting routine. I think you will like it.

Again so good of you to respond, I enjoy hearing from you. May all your climaxes from your partners and those that come by your own hands blow your mind with grandest of pleasure -- Feelsgood!

 

[Hotat21]

The only time I've ever had my pussy licked was once on V-day. And then he didnt use his tongue or anything. It was lke he was eating. No nothuing else. It sucked.

 

[sav_oli]

You really have had a couple of bad experiences hotat21! Try not to be put off, keep an open mind, and hopefully youl find someone more experience, or someone also open mnided- learning can be fun

I LOVE giveing oral, i realy do. i just enjoy giving pleasure to my partner, its such a huge turn on for me. I have been told my fingers and tongue are quite talented, and thats always a nice ego boost- likewise with screams, moans and squirms.

 

[shy slave]

feelsgood It is so nice to read about your love of being given oral. It was also good to read you are ok about your wife not being able to deep throat you.
How lucky you are that she is open minded enough to train two other women to enjoy your cock.
She must be a very special woman.

Thank you for your compliments about my writing, I don't have any stories on lit; or anywhere else. I have written stories but only he reads them. I sent one to an editor on lit and she did a great job on my grammar and sentence construction, but I have not submitted it. I am actually too shy to do so.

As for receiving oral ~ every man I have ever met has assured me that I have just never had it done properly I can assure you whatever is done I hate it. It is a mental as well as a physical dislike. I feel very uncomfortable with a mans head stuffed between my legs. Mentally it seems so wrong.
Don't get me wrong I love orgasms but I feel awkward and very uncomfortable if all the attention is on my orgasm only. It doesn't matter if he loves licking a cunt or not. The pressure to enjoy it makes the switch in my head click to the 'off' position.

My partner is known as Andante at lit. He tried giving me oral for about 45 mins I hated it. The only way I could mentally cope was to go off in a light meditation until it was over. Receiving oral makes me feel alone, empty, worthless and can make me cry for all the wrong reasons.

I am much happier and relaxed if the attention is on a mutual fucking or my giving him pleasure.
He can make me cum just by talking to me. Not by saying 'cum now, bitch' but by a slow delivery of what he wants to do to me. He can also make me cum by touching/biting my nipple. It is my head not my cunt that is involved.
All that aside I love to cum with him inside me too.
Giving him head can make me so wet it runs down my legs and I end up begging to hear his voice and be physically hurt to enable me to cum.

That means that for me, anything but receiving oral is good

 

[sensualromantic]

Is there any ladies out there that have never given a man oral -- but would like to. The same question to the men -- do you give your women oral. If not, why not because it is some of the best sex.

Most likely, if you have never given mouth sex, then your partner has ever gone down on you either. If this is true then you are missing some of the most pleasurable and finest man and woman sex that you will ever have.

Do you want to know how to get started? Don't be shy. This is a good place to start to learn all abut this wonderful and intense delight.

i don't think it could have been said any better

 

[KittyT]

Oral i think can bring you even closer to your partner as well as normal sex my bf is very shy when it comes to sex where as im the other way around so i had to introduce it to him and let me tell you ever since then he has become more active and more adventuris in the bed dipartment =]]