oral sex-lesbians pls respond

[Julianoble]

This is really for the women to respond. I am a lesbian beginning a new relationship and have never had an orgasm from someone going down on me. I'm not above giving instruction but I don't want to keep saying things like, 'here' 'no here' 'maybe harder', etc... The only way I come is by myself with a bullet vibrator and while I know I will be able to incorporate this into play at some point, my goal is to really enjoy oral sex. I like giving it but it doesn't do much for me when I'm getting it. Maybe I've become accustomed to a powerful vibe? Not sure but no one ever really helped me learn about getting oral and I don't want to seem really high maintenance about getting it. And being older I feel uncomfortable about not knowing what works for me by now.

 

[seth6138]

Good luck to ya!

 

[Purelez]

This is really for the women to respond. I am a lesbian beginning a new relationship and have never had an orgasm from someone going down on me. I'm not above giving instruction but I don't want to keep saying things like, 'here' 'no here' 'maybe harder', etc... The only way I come is by myself with a bullet vibrator and while I know I will be able to incorporate this into play at some point, my goal is to really enjoy oral sex. I like giving it but it doesn't do much for me when I'm getting it. Maybe I've become accustomed to a powerful vibe? Not sure but no one ever really helped me learn about getting oral and I don't want to seem really high maintenance about getting it. And being older I feel uncomfortable about not knowing what works for me by now.

Your mind is cluttered. Let it go. Animal instinct I guess for me, for us.

 

[ArtyEster]

I've not a ton of experience but if, once you're well aroused, you slump down in a comfortable chair with your pussy at the edge of the seat, spread you legs and let your partner kneel in front of you and get on with it. Well it worked for me and it's about the wettest I ever get. Even if you don't come it's so pleasurable, so relax and simply enjoy whatever does happen. In addition it's so easy for your partner and she has such wonderful access to you that she can keep going for ages. Apart from setting the whole thing up you don't need to give instructions just make appreciative noises when she hits the spot.